The things is, nobody is entitled to live in an expensive area. When people insist on living in London, it's like insisting on driving an expensive sports car when you can only afford a Ford Fiesta.
Wanting to not be forced out of your home in your own hometown, where all your family and friends are, where your family has lived for generations, is absolutely not like wanting to drive a sports car! That's a ludicrous comparison.
Ditto, wanting to live in the only area where your specific career/job exists, and not be forced to abandon your entire career and get a new entry level job in a new industry for a fraction of your current salary just for the dubious dream of owning some shitty house.
Let's get real here: smaller towns are pretty insular and a lot of them have high unemployment. If anyone knows of any small towns just bursting with friendly people who just love to befriend mentally ill disabled strange women, eligible people looking to get married, and well-paid arts jobs with tons of freedom, by all means point them out.
As for changing career, to me, it seems ludicrous to stick to a career that you can only do in one tiny area of the country - and an area that you can't actually afford to live in! Why would you do that? What's the point in sticking to a career path that doesn't enable you buy a home? People change careers all the time. Most people have some transferable skills.
I have an extremely elite career which I've spent decades training for and working towards, and which will likely make me a very high earner in the future. The perks I get right now are extraordinary and there's realistically no other career that would allow me the kind of freedom I need to accommodate my physical disabilities and mental illnesses. I'm really supposed to give all that up, for what? Some shitty office job or work in a supermarket at a fraction of my current salary?
Besides, once you've built up equality, you can always move back to London with a healthy deposit.
Did you miss where I said I've got £90k saved up for a deposit, I'm just not eligible for a mortgage?