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So what happens when we're all old and we don't own our homes?

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user8665410 · 20/08/2023 09:31

Genuine question.

I'm a millennial with no hopes of ever buying a property despite earning a decent income.

There are many in my situation.

What happens when we're all in our 70s, 80s and 90s - which we will be because medical technology keeps letting us live longer - and no longer able to work. Where will we live? Who will support us? Will we just get kicked out of our homes we've been renting for (potentially) decades??

My current rent is £2,585.00, the State won't be supporting that I'm sure.

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MelonsOnSaleAgain · 20/08/2023 13:41

AcesBaseballbat · 20/08/2023 12:13

Really? There's places where you can purchase a house for less than two thousand pounds??

Yep. There are lots up my way and not all in dodgy areas either. There’s a beautiful 3 bed semi with garden for £165k first time I looked.

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/08/2023 13:54

AcesBaseballbat · 20/08/2023 12:15

Well they did in my case.

All the people posting that they upped sticks and moved to a new area: did you find/get offered a job first, or did you randomly move then look for work?

Were you established in a successful career and have to abandon that career when you moved to your new area? How did you find a new career?

I got a job first.

HousePriceHorrorShow · 20/08/2023 13:59

RosiePH · 20/08/2023 09:55

That rent is eye-watering and as a fellow
millennial I’d think you could definitely afford to buy if you can pay that.

But you’d need to accept a huge lifestyle change to do so. Unless that’s a typo, you must be renting a family home in an expensive part of London. And have a household salary of well over £100k.

You could move somewhere cheaper, save the difference and be able to buy with a 95% or even 90% mortgage in just a couple of years. But you would be buying a small house or flat like most of us do, not somewhere in line with what you currently rent in an exclusive area.

Normally I really sympathise with those stuck in generation rent. I was there myself until 2 years ago when I got a stroke of pure luck that meant I could put a deposit on a 3 bed semi in the midlands. But I do think in this case you have exceptionally high rent which can be addressed and isn’t a reflection of most millennials stuck in the renting trap.

A family home in an expensive part of London costs considerably more than that.

Near us for 3 bedrooms you're looking at £750 a week (£3k a month) and that's not even for anything special. Four beds seem to start at around £4k, and a lot of people paying even more for e.g a decent garden.

I have a colleague living in a not particularly nice part of east London paying £2.5k for a two bedroom flat.

London rental prices are ludicrous. When I lived in a house share ten years ago I had to pay £1.5k for a room in a house I shared with four others, in an area where I got mugged three times.

I eventually felt so unsafe I had to move somewhere else at even greater cost.

My mum had to top up my salary each month until I progressed up the rungs. Even then I was permanently skint for ages.

It wasn't till I was in a couple with two incomes that things improved really.

Worth it in the end, as now have a very good salary as does my husband. But actually, the only reason we're in a good position house wise is because DH is quite a lot older and so has equity from getting on the housing ladder back when that was much easier.

LifeIsShitJustNow · 20/08/2023 14:03

Notamushroomwearer · 20/08/2023 12:46

This!
My DD lives in a northern city with great transport links and rents a 2 bed flat for £650 pcm.
Salary is 30K and she's saving for a deposit.

Really irritating when Ops do this, like that amount of rent is the norm.
Make a different choice.

So when all the people like the OP are moving to the city your dd lives in, and youll find that house prices skyrocket (because they are so used to much much higher prices) and unemployment goes up (because there are more people living there vs number of jobs on offer), what will happen?

Will your dd move to another more enpoverished area to be able to cope? Or will you expect the poorer from that city to do that?

The cheaper areas are not extensive areas that can simply absorb newcomers from expensive areas Wo any impact on said area.

LifeIsShitJustNow · 20/08/2023 14:07

Fwiw, I’m in the NE.
My house is worth about £200k. 3 bed detached in a nice area.

Similar house to rent is over £1000/month.
£2500 doesn’t feel crazy when adjusted to house prices tbh….

KimberleyClark · 20/08/2023 14:10

desperatelyseekingnoone · 20/08/2023 12:43

This is true only if we keep the Tories running the country and to the ground in the next 20-40 years. Policies can change but the problem is, a lot of Boomers and their children vote Tory to benefit from their own generational wealth. We need people to actively not vote the very government who will run Millennials and Gen Z into abuse in their most vulnerable years. The other problem is, Brits are lazy. They complain more on social media than at the voting station.

I’m a boomer,never voted Tory. None of my friends are Tories. I think people obsessed with the gender issue are far more likely to get the Tories re elected than boomers are.

Notamushroomwearer · 20/08/2023 14:11

LifeIsShitJustNow · 20/08/2023 14:03

So when all the people like the OP are moving to the city your dd lives in, and youll find that house prices skyrocket (because they are so used to much much higher prices) and unemployment goes up (because there are more people living there vs number of jobs on offer), what will happen?

Will your dd move to another more enpoverished area to be able to cope? Or will you expect the poorer from that city to do that?

The cheaper areas are not extensive areas that can simply absorb newcomers from expensive areas Wo any impact on said area.

We have free movement in this country last time I looked.
DD went to uni there and quite sensibly decided to say
She will buy a property there shortly and will work and contribute in that community.
She earns 30K not 30 million.
What would you like ?
Northern cities to become ghost towns with no key workers, services, talent, arts,wealth ?

nettie434 · 20/08/2023 14:12

a lot of Boomers and their children vote Tory to benefit from their own generational wealth.

That is true @desperatelyseekingnoone, as we can see on this thread. The problem is that many people forget that there's an element of luck in life - the difference between being a first generation university attendee in 1965 compared with today.

Of course people will vote from self interest but there comes a point in which fewer and fewer people will benefit from the current situation.

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 20/08/2023 14:14

I was reading through all the replies above and had a sudden depressing thought that perhaps those wealthy enough to own their own homes are also more likely to be old enough to need care in their old age. Apparently the gap in life expectancy between the most deprived and the wealthiest has widened, mostly because the life expectancy of less wealthy people has shortened. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/apr/25/growing-gap-in-healthy-life-expectancy-between-poorest-and-richest-in-england

Growing gap in healthy life expectancy between poorest and richest in England

Gap at birth is 19.3 years for girls and and 18.6 years for boys, and overall life expectancy for poorest has fallen

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/apr/25/growing-gap-in-healthy-life-expectancy-between-poorest-and-richest-in-england

Pal0ma · 20/08/2023 14:14

Somebody upthreadvsaid she fears poorhouse will come back, but we could have large blocks of one bed flats. Basic but safe. There are so few one bed flats where I am even tho there are a really high number of single people now. It's "clogging" up two bed flats or 2 bed town houses/arts which are the normal size of home. 3 bed houses are similarly often inhabited by couples.

So build THOUSANDS of one beds.

frippu · 20/08/2023 14:18

@SusiePevensie the last one is balham but I agree

Banditqueen12 · 20/08/2023 14:25

FutureThroughLensOfThePast · 20/08/2023 09:37

The current generation of homeowners will eventually die off and if no one can afford to buy their empty houses, the prices will drop until they do become affordable.

According to ONS only 35% of homes in owner occupation were owned by over 65's. Most of those will probably have their assets seized to pay for care anyway, and according to MN lore, anything the state doesn't get must be equally shared between whoever thinks they are entitled to inherit to the point where their share will possibly cover the cost of a meal after the funeral. By the time the houses appear on the market as affordable they will be vacant slums.

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 20/08/2023 14:32

McCarthy stone certainly seem very active in my area with their shared ownership and rental schemes.

Notamushroomwearer · 20/08/2023 14:41

Banditqueen12 · 20/08/2023 14:25

According to ONS only 35% of homes in owner occupation were owned by over 65's. Most of those will probably have their assets seized to pay for care anyway, and according to MN lore, anything the state doesn't get must be equally shared between whoever thinks they are entitled to inherit to the point where their share will possibly cover the cost of a meal after the funeral. By the time the houses appear on the market as affordable they will be vacant slums.

Despite the whole houses being sold for care thing actually it's only 15% of the elderly who go into CH.
Out of those 35% are self funders and 65% state funded( ONS stats)
The vast majority pass on their wealth.

frippu · 20/08/2023 14:46

@Notamushroomwearer the model will have to change though as it's not sustainable with an ageing population. Care in the home will likely have to be self funded or there just won't be much care available.

BMW6 · 20/08/2023 14:50

I think there will be State owned and run retirement complexes. Basic bed-sitting rooms with toilet and shower but communal meals. The State could withhold State Pension of each occupant apart from a modest amount of "pocket money" each week.

I'm not advocating such a scheme but I can see it being so.

peasblue · 20/08/2023 14:50

the model will have to change though as it's not sustainable with an ageing population

Especially if we continue to be so hostile to migration.

frippu · 20/08/2023 14:52

& before someone says care in the home is means tested the model doesn't include house wealth in that.

BIossomtoes · 20/08/2023 15:13

MelonsOnSaleAgain · 20/08/2023 11:25

It always staggers me that people are having to pay rent like the rates in the OP and a bank won’t consider them for a mortgage, when I pay a mortgage almost £1000 a month less for my house.

if you’re consistently able to pay that sum then you can afford a mortgage. It’s totally messed up that one of the biggest things stopping purchases is that many people just can’t save a large chunk of money.

there must be a way to banks could choose to arrange a mortgage in those circumstances such that your mortgage is X assuming a deposit of Y but you overpay for x months to pay that deposit. So someone like Op would pay a mortgage assuming 90% LTV and that would be say £1500. But for 18 months would continue to pay at current rent level (£2500) and then that is the deposit sorted.

i just used those figures as an example, but it feels like there is not the will to support people to buy. We need to change how we do things to help people.

I completely agree. I bought my first house with a 100% mortgage. I’d still be renting now if that hadn’t been an option.

EffortlessDesmond · 20/08/2023 15:27

Perhaps 100% mortgages should become standard as long as the eligibility for them is based on a proven record of meeting rent payments over a year or 18 months. Probably not much more innately risky for lenders.

Crossstich · 20/08/2023 15:30

My parents didn't have their own home and I don't know any of their contemporaries that did. Home ownership was quite rare. However they had a council house so secure tenancy and their rent was paid or heavily subsidised when they were no longer able to pay it themselves.
Home ownership isn't necessary when there is enough good quality social housing.
Sadly people were sold the dream of owning their own home, council houses started being sold and they were never replaced.

AutumnCrow · 20/08/2023 15:35

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 20/08/2023 14:32

McCarthy stone certainly seem very active in my area with their shared ownership and rental schemes.

Aye, the middle class ponzi leasehold scheme

Kendodd · 20/08/2023 15:37

BIossomtoes · 20/08/2023 15:13

I completely agree. I bought my first house with a 100% mortgage. I’d still be renting now if that hadn’t been an option.

Surely that would just push up house prices further by increasing the number of buyers without increasing the number of properties available?
What we need is more houses/flats. I've said before, the private sector has completely and utterly failed to provide decent affordable homes for people. It's long past time the state should has stepped in with mass building of council houses. Big problem with that though is NIMBYISM. Older people, comfortably housed (just like me) who have no idea how tough things are for young people (or just don't care) object to building. They are also a very powerful voting lobby so, in fairness to politicians, will boot out any politician who dares try to stand up to them.

BIossomtoes · 20/08/2023 15:38

EffortlessDesmond · 20/08/2023 15:27

Perhaps 100% mortgages should become standard as long as the eligibility for them is based on a proven record of meeting rent payments over a year or 18 months. Probably not much more innately risky for lenders.

I completely agree. It would be in my manifesto if I was a prospective PM - what a vote winner!