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So family friend says her ds was diagnosed asd at 9 months old

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letitbeletitbeletitbe · 07/08/2023 12:22

Is this possible? I always thought that would be way too young. Just for some information, he is what would be called high functioning, no learning difficulties. I am interested because this woman tends to think she knows it all and this just seems a little extreme to me, but happy to be told if I'm wrong

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Florissante · 07/08/2023 12:26

That sounds very peculiar to me.

villamariavintrapp · 07/08/2023 12:27

No, that is not possible.

continentallentil · 07/08/2023 12:28

No it’s not possible. But perhaps a HCP told her they thought it was a possibility.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 07/08/2023 12:31

Possible to observe some ASD features in babies but can't see a clinician diagnosing at that age.

Apricotton · 07/08/2023 12:31

I’m happy to be corrected, but I think it’s very very unlikely a diagnosis was made that young. As PP said, I can see that someone may have noticed some ASD traits, but not made a diagnosis.

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 07/08/2023 12:32

It's possible and there definitely are specific signs to look for and professionals can assess, what makes it unlikely thought is how long the road from seeing a gp,referral,being seen and finally get a diagnosis is. But that can be a bit of a postcode lottery or shortened by going the private route(same steps but shorter waiting times).

Whinge · 07/08/2023 12:32

It's absolutely impossible to be diagnosed at 9 months old.

UnbeatenMum · 07/08/2023 12:33

It's possible a professional told her there were signs but the official diagnosis came later. Even without learning difficulties you can spot signs like lack of eye contact, no social smile, but I haven't heard of a diagnosis much younger than about 18 months. I'm not an expert though, just a parent of an autistic child.

MaggieBsBoat · 07/08/2023 12:33

At extreme end of ASD then certain things can be noticed very young, but nevertheless no diagnosis would be made at that age.

h3ll0o · 07/08/2023 12:34

Yes this is possible. Where my daughter was assessed they have no lower age limit and the company are well regarded

Maxiedog123 · 07/08/2023 12:35

My son was seen by a developmental paediatrician at 11 months who mentioned it as a strong possibility, but the diagnosis wasn't confirmed til he was 3. He has severe autism though, nothing subtle here?

DinnaeFashYersel · 07/08/2023 12:36

She was probably told by a HCP that it was possible and she is taking that to mean/describing it as a diagnosis.

DaisyDreaming · 07/08/2023 12:36

18 months if the youngest I’ve heard with formal diagnosis but many of those kids were being seen from a younger age and it was suspected

LovelaceBiggWither · 07/08/2023 12:37

No, it's not good practice to diagnose this young and very few places would even consider it. One of mine was diagnosed at 2 but he was a sibling of an older child with ASD and he is intellectually impaired. It was considered an early diagnosis.

A child with no intellectual impairment or learning difficulties, I'd find it very hard to believe an accurate diagnosis was given that young.

parrotonthesofa · 07/08/2023 12:37

Yes a HCP could have raised it as a possibility and she's taken that as a diagnosis.

letitbeletitbeletitbe · 07/08/2023 12:38

Oh no she definitely used the word diagnosed, we was talking about when my own son was diagnosed. I don't believe there was a mistake.
I just don't get why people feel the need to make stuff up or exaggerate

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hiredandsqueak · 07/08/2023 12:38

Dd was referred to a developmental paediatrician at 13 months following a regression where she lost all skills. She had blood and urine tests for chromosome and metabolic disorders and then when they came back clear she was referred for a multidisciplinary assessment. She received her autism/ global developmental delay diagnosis the week of her second birthday so it took almost a year. I wouldn't have thought there would have been time for difficulties to be noticed (I had had concerns before the regression) and referrals assessment and diagnosis to be made. Dd's referral was swift not least because she had a brother with a diagnosis but because the GP saw her just before, during and after she lost all of her skills which was pretty dramatic.

wildonionroll · 07/08/2023 12:40

Out of interest why is she your friend if you think she's "extreme" and she "thinks she knows it all"???

Bellaphant · 07/08/2023 12:40

Our nursery referred us to the Dr because my daughter has a rare movement disorder, that her dad who also has Asperger's has. They quite heavily hinted they believe she has that too: she was less than 18 months. The consultant who we saw was really clear that as she was meeting milestones, no one would be interested/able to diagnose until she started school. So it's swings and roundabouts, but 9 months is ridiculously early.

AuntMarch · 07/08/2023 12:40

Anecodtal only but I have never known a child get a diagnosis within 9 months, whatever age they are when they start the process.
I have worked with children 0-6 over the last 15 years so there have been a fair number of families who have been reaching out to services for support. Of those who I know to have had a diagnosis at some point, very few came before school age. Those that did had displayed quite extreme behaviours that a baby wouldn't be physically capable of.

letitbeletitbeletitbe · 07/08/2023 12:41

wildonionroll · 07/08/2023 12:40

Out of interest why is she your friend if you think she's "extreme" and she "thinks she knows it all"???

She's not my friend, it says family friend, so somebody known to the family

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letitbeletitbeletitbe · 07/08/2023 12:42

wildonionroll · 07/08/2023 12:40

Out of interest why is she your friend if you think she's "extreme" and she "thinks she knows it all"???

Also I never said I thought she was extreme, I said that the situation seemed extreme. But she does think she knows it all, I stand by that

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GoodChat · 07/08/2023 12:42

What traits did she say were present for them to be able to diagnose as such a young age?

I wouldn't trust a diagnosis that young.

wildonionroll · 07/08/2023 12:43

I would suggest paying less attention to a family friend you wouldn't call a friend.

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