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Forced return to office - anyone else?

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Flexipecs · 19/07/2023 21:27

My work has announced we’re all being forced back into the office two days a week. I’m a sole parent of primary school aged children (no help from ex). If I’m forced to go into the office I’ll have to reduce my working hours and I’ll be financially worse off.

I’m going to contact my union but has anyone else had this problem and did you successfully challenge it?

There’s zero benefit to me being in the office. My stats and performance are high. I actually think I’m more productive at home because I’m not being distracted so often. I’ve worked for the company for a very long time and I’m really disappointed at this decision (to put it mildly).

OP posts:
calmcoco · 19/07/2023 21:45

I don't think you'll have much luck pushing back unless your contract allows WFH or if they increased your hours based on you being able to WFH - you need to speak to your union.

Would they allow you to do a shorter day in the office with the additional hours made up in the evening?

SweetSakura · 19/07/2023 21:45

mokebox · 19/07/2023 21:43

Whenever this comes up people always bang on about "what did you go before covid?" I've had both my DC since 2020, so can't answer this for myself but can only assume that what people did before covid was run themselves into the ground with the stress of juggling it all - why go back to that when we've proven things can be different? As a society can we please just start to embrace flexibility as default (where possible). Its absolutely key for working mothers as far I can see, why put blockers in place to continue to make things harder for mums when they are literally unnecessary. Grinds my gears no end. Move with the f*ckin times.

2 days a week in the office and 3 at home seems abundantly flexible

Iudncuewbccgrcb · 19/07/2023 21:45

The reason they are asking people to be back in is probably because of people with exactly your kind of set up.

There's a massive issue with post 3pm productivity in my workplace currently. It's not going unnoticed that many people are very difficult to get hold of for the last 2 hours+ of the day.

It might not seem like a massive issue on an individual basis but when about a quarter of the working day becomes dead time company wide it is an issue.

I don't think their request is unreasonable either from a work/life balance perspective.

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SweetSakura · 19/07/2023 21:47

calmcoco · 19/07/2023 21:45

I don't think you'll have much luck pushing back unless your contract allows WFH or if they increased your hours based on you being able to WFH - you need to speak to your union.

Would they allow you to do a shorter day in the office with the additional hours made up in the evening?

This is a good suggestion and the way I have always worked . Short day in the office each day, extra hours made up WFH in the evening once the kids are in bed. Tiring yes but as a single mum it meant I could earn a full time salary without childcare costs

Motheranddaughter · 19/07/2023 21:48

I could have guessed exactly the employees who would make a fuss about coming back to work
Some of them left which was positive

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 19/07/2023 21:49

It may be that you/your team are performing well but others aren't and they have decided the best way to fix that is to bring everyone back.

It may be that they are paying massively for an office building that is being underused so are trying to justify it?

mokebox · 19/07/2023 21:50

gogomoto · 19/07/2023 21:37

It's amazing how many people think there's no benefit to being in the office yet productivity increased dramatically in many workplaces when people went back, partly because they were actually working their contracted hours. If you have primary aged kids they you should have child care in place any way, that's a standard requirement for most wfh contracts.

What did you do before covid.

Dp has had no end of issues with wfh employees, he brought them all back in bar the remote permanent overseas staff 2 years ago

I have childcare in place & work my contracted hours but if forced back into the office, I'd have to cut those hours down quite significantly to accommodate a commute that worked around pick up/drop off times. Pre covid I had no kids, now I do. Things change. The world has changed & people's perception of work/life balance has shifted - employers need to recognise that or risk being left behind in the long run.

DinnaeFashYersel · 19/07/2023 21:50

Put in a formal flexible working request.

If they turn it down start looking for another job. You won't be the only one.

Lots of employers are happy to continue to support wfh. You will find another job. There's a recruitment crisis in many sectors and it's a job seekers market. Sensible employers support flexible working.

BanditsOnTheHorizon · 19/07/2023 21:50

All depends on your contract, if you're contracted to work from a specific office location then they are quite within their right to ask you to go back to the office full time, so I'd take the two days and their offer of hybrid working. A union will do fuck all if your contract states you work from an office. Tbh I'm still amazed that people are complaining about going back into the office and have made life decision around wfh. If you want to wfh full time you need to get it written into your contract.

Also you don't know if it benefits the company or not, 'you' might be more productive wfh but others might not be, it could be a case of boosting moral for others, there's more going on behind the scenes than your role alone.

MrsMarieMopps · 19/07/2023 21:52

The trouble with people meeting individual workloads at home is that they're not seeing the bigger picture, I generally work in the office and the amount of urgent/ fire fighting type work that comes to me as I'm physically in rather than the WFH brigade.

CantFindTheBeat · 19/07/2023 21:52

Things are changing in your favour, OP. Check out the new bill that's likely to come into force:

startups.co.uk/people/management/flexible-working-bill/

WandaWonder · 19/07/2023 21:53

'Forced'? What did you do before covid?

mokebox · 19/07/2023 21:53

SweetSakura · 19/07/2023 21:45

2 days a week in the office and 3 at home seems abundantly flexible

2 days a week commute for me personally would amount to 4 hours. 4 hours I could be working. Forcing this commute on me would only force me to cut down my hours to accommodate it. Doesn't seem like the best way to drive productivity.

WhatADrabCarpet · 19/07/2023 21:54

There has been quite a shift towards a more hybrid working environment.
I understand from city folk, that it's to do with better communication between staff and to ensure that support is given where needed.

Unofficially it's because a handful of staff have been taking the piss and service users have been complaining about accessibility.

DinnaeFashYersel · 19/07/2023 21:54

WandaWonder · 19/07/2023 21:53

'Forced'? What did you do before covid?

The world has changed.

Sugarfree23 · 19/07/2023 21:54

Why not ask if you can do 2 short days in the office. Or use afterschool care?

I think most companies are looking at hybrid working, its impossible for young people to learn a job or how to behave in an office environment if they are sitting on top of their bed.
Its also not good for MH never to see people, which is really important for those who live alone.

Motheranddaughter · 19/07/2023 21:54

We pay above average salaries and good benefits and haven’t had any recruitment issues so far

As a pp said the period between 3 and 5 was becoming increasingly difficult to manage

I can understand that individuals thought it didn’t make any difference but as a Company it did

titchy · 19/07/2023 21:54

The world has changed & people's perception of work/life balance has shifted - employers need to recognise that or risk being left behind in the long run.

And 3 days wfh and 2 days in the office recognises that.

Talk about cake and eat it!

Flexipecs · 19/07/2023 21:55

mokebox · 19/07/2023 21:43

Whenever this comes up people always bang on about "what did you go before covid?" I've had both my DC since 2020, so can't answer this for myself but can only assume that what people did before covid was run themselves into the ground with the stress of juggling it all - why go back to that when we've proven things can be different? As a society can we please just start to embrace flexibility as default (where possible). Its absolutely key for working mothers as far I can see, why put blockers in place to continue to make things harder for mums when they are literally unnecessary. Grinds my gears no end. Move with the f*ckin times.

Thank you. I totally agree with this. If there were any problems with my work then I’d understand the push back to the office, but that’s not the case. I’m sure it’s hard for employers to manage people WFH who do take the piss, but I’m not one of those people and I really dislike being financially worse off because of this. It’s tough enough being a sole parent.

OP posts:
SweetSakura · 19/07/2023 21:56

mokebox · 19/07/2023 21:53

2 days a week commute for me personally would amount to 4 hours. 4 hours I could be working. Forcing this commute on me would only force me to cut down my hours to accommodate it. Doesn't seem like the best way to drive productivity.

Presumably you managed it pre COVID?

And the trade of will be all the hard to quantify but important benefits of working face to face .

SATCLover · 19/07/2023 21:57

I can’t tell you how much I would love two guaranteed days in the office with the team.

WhatADrabCarpet · 19/07/2023 21:58

If it's not written into your contract then I'm not sure that you can do anything about it other than to request wfh.

SweetSakura · 19/07/2023 21:58

Interestingly our juniors and trainees were all keen to return to the office as they wanted in person support and supervision

Iudncuewbccgrcb · 19/07/2023 21:58

Flexipecs · 19/07/2023 21:55

Thank you. I totally agree with this. If there were any problems with my work then I’d understand the push back to the office, but that’s not the case. I’m sure it’s hard for employers to manage people WFH who do take the piss, but I’m not one of those people and I really dislike being financially worse off because of this. It’s tough enough being a sole parent.

But child care is part of being a working parent.

Mine absolutely love the 2 hours in after school club 3 x a week when I'm in the office. Its far better for them than being shushed constantly and being sat in front of the telly with snacks to keep them quiet.

It's only 2 days and only for at most a few years.

NerrSnerr · 19/07/2023 21:59

I think the change to WFH has added the burden to women. When everyone was in the office from 9-5 families used wraparound care. Now I know families are wfh whilst caring for children between 3-5 and during the holidays. For the people I know it's the women doing this and not the men.

I personally can't do it, my children and 6 and 8 and can WFH. I cannot WFH and care for children at the same time as it means I'm not as good at either tasks. It has to be a snow day or something for me to wfh with children at home (and of course let work know).

My husband can't WFH in his job so it would be down to me.

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