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Property - already a body in the garden here...

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Whatifitallgoesright · 29/06/2023 17:42

www.zoopla.co.uk/property-history/56-sissons-crescent/leeds/ls10-4ll/57335464/

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sandberry · 29/06/2023 22:22

I buried my daughter in the back garden, it is quite a lot of work

We had to call the mortgage company and ask for permission. The guy on the phone was rather taken aback and had no idea, guessing it’s not a daily call. The bank clearly thought it was a sensitive issue and wrote a very vague letter ‘we have no objection to the issue discussed’ so we had to ask them to be clearer and finally got a letter saying ‘ we have no objection to you burying your dead daughter in the back garden’

Also had to ring the council to discuss the position of water courses and the woman who answered the phone burst into tears and left and her boss picked up the phone thinking DH must have been abusive to her.

We had a map of the garden and had to make a plan as to what we’d do when we died as more than two bodies you need planning permission as a cemetery. Finding a grave digger took work too but funeral directors did it. Don’t know what the neighbours thought, it was a garden in a terrace in Streatham.

However we did at least exhume her when we moved! £2000 it cost us. Not sure I’d do it again. Apparently it doesn’t reduce your house value though.

Mydpisgrumpierthanyours · 29/06/2023 22:31

No I wouldn't like it. I think it's odd. Wouldn't you want to be with the rest of the bodies in the graveyard?

Slightly nervous about gardening now.

whattodo22222 · 29/06/2023 22:31

I actually think it's really beautiful to love a place so much

garfieldeatscake · 29/06/2023 22:48

This house has been on here before! With similar comments, no idea how to find an old thread, and I can't remember when it popped up.
Good to see the house sold though.

AriannasGuitarCase · 29/06/2023 22:53

I remember the previous thread on here, and I think there was speculation that the grave was half way down the garden because that's where the owned part ended and the rest of the garden was rented from the council. It's all a bit hazy though!

shhsh · 29/06/2023 23:14

I remember the original thread. I actually wouldn't mind, quite sweet really that he was born and died there. I'd be more concerned about renting part through garden from the council to be honest.

VeniVidiWeeWee · 30/06/2023 00:48

ZebraDilemma · 29/06/2023 21:40

There’s strict laws on the burial of remains, look it up.

Really? I don't think so. But if you know better, please quote the legislation.

TooOldForThisNonsense · 30/06/2023 00:51

I’d have to have the body exhumed and cremated before I could even consider living there.

ComtesseDeSpair · 30/06/2023 01:09

VeniVidiWeeWee · 30/06/2023 00:48

Really? I don't think so. But if you know better, please quote the legislation.

You’re correct. I think many people assume it will be legally complex, because obviously it’s unusual - most people don’t want to do it, or probably don’t realise that they can. But it’s actually pretty straightforward. If you own the freehold then, as long as you advise the local authority in advance, have the body prepared correctly and have that signed off, and have certification to confirm that it won’t contaminate a water course, it’s quite routine after that. In reality it’s not terribly different from a bio perspective to burying your dogs and cats in your garden, which loads of people do, after all.

ErniesGhostlyGoldTops · 30/06/2023 01:31

CosmosQueen · 29/06/2023 18:05

It wouldn’t bother me tuppence, make a nice flowerbed and you’ll never know. It’s not as if there’s a stinking mausoleum built over it or even a gravestone.

Umm yes there is. A massive marble grave enclosure in the front garden and metal railings around the whole front garden just for good measure.

AlfietheSchnauzer · 30/06/2023 01:52

IamNannyPlum · 29/06/2023 17:46

That house has been on the market for years! I swear someone started a thread about the body in the garden ages ago. I wonder if they will ever be able to sell it?

It was sold in 2021 for £90k - 35k under asking!

AlfietheSchnauzer · 30/06/2023 01:55

ComtesseDeSpair · 29/06/2023 18:31

DH and I are actually toying with this idea. We’re childfree so not especially worried about how easy our house is to sell or its value, we love our garden, and the idea of being here for eternity - with a covenant written into the property title to say as much - seems fitting. I used to own and live in a converted church with a working churchyard, so I’ve never been particularly perturbed by having graves in the garden and quite like the idea of someone who feels likewise will buy the house and turn us into a water feature or a pet lavatory.

There's a high chance the new owners would have you both moved though

AlfietheSchnauzer · 30/06/2023 01:57

@pinguins @nancy2022

It sold in April 2021

Property - already a body in the garden here...
TooBigForMyBoots · 30/06/2023 02:00

A body in the garden wouldn't bother me.

My favourite house since childhood is in a cemetery. It's used as an office now.😤

HarpyValley · 30/06/2023 02:03

TheFormidableMrsC · 29/06/2023 19:31

I know somebody who did this but they had a huge garden with a small copse and it was really distant from the house and very tastefully done. I'm not sure about a burial in a terrace in Leeds and I'm surprised they got permission to do this. It would put me off.

And now they have a huge garden with a small corpse…

(I’ll get me coat)

ComtesseDeSpair · 30/06/2023 02:26

AlfietheSchnauzer · 30/06/2023 01:55

There's a high chance the new owners would have you both moved though

Maybe. I’ll be dead. I won’t care. Personally, I’ve lived much of my life enjoying being a bit contrary and if somebody wants to go through the expense and process of having me exhumed from their land, I actually quite appreciate their commitment!

Moreover, I just suspect the property would be bought by people who don’t give a shit and whose friends would come over and be like,

“What the fuck is that??”

“That? Oh, that’s Kevin and Joan, the people who lived here before us.”

And I imagine that after a few drinks at a house party everyone would have a laugh and toast us for the bells at New Year.

Guineapigwoes · 30/06/2023 05:21

Come on northern mumsnetters someone book a viewing - we need to know where the dude is

Betterlatethanontime · 30/06/2023 05:44

I imagine who ever bought it had the body removed. It’s a strange request as the man must have known he would only be in that grave temporarily.

SoupDragon · 30/06/2023 08:11

Guineapigwoes · 30/06/2023 05:21

Come on northern mumsnetters someone book a viewing - we need to know where the dude is

I don't think it's still for sale. The listing is from 2021.

nancy2022 · 30/06/2023 08:22

The wording and photos are exactly the same as last time though.

nancy2022 · 30/06/2023 08:22

@AlfietheSchnauzer

LouLou198 · 30/06/2023 08:28

Didn't even know this was legal!

HarpyValley · 30/06/2023 08:30

nancy2022 · 30/06/2023 08:22

The wording and photos are exactly the same as last time though.

It's an archived listing not live, it says 'Archived' at the top right.

Trinity65 · 30/06/2023 09:08

OhmygodDont · 29/06/2023 20:14

I no problem living in a murder house or such. Just I like to build and dig and grow food. Now I know blood and bone is good but human corpse cucumbers don’t do it for me 😂

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