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What do you do when a teacher is wrong?

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RequiresUpdating · 26/05/2023 20:56

Say your DC writes something that is more or less correct. And the teacher marks it wrong and corrects it with such a glaringly obvious mistake that you are a bit shocked. What do you do?

DD took it back to the teacher and asked her to look at it again and that what she had written was right, but the correction wasn't. Teacher said it was and DD's answer was also wrong (it wasn't).

How do you handle this?
Is it better to explain to DD that the teacher is wrong and people often don't like being told they're wrong which was why she refused to correct the marks? And leave it at that - that the teacher is wrong, some people refuse to apologise etc life lesson. I feel this would be a pity as DD really likes this teacher and was shocked when she was dismissive of her.

Do I call the teacher and speak with her and give her a chance to apologise to DD?

Call the teacher and ask her how she wants to handle it? If she wants to apologise or if she's sticking by her response to DD so I have to explain the above.

I don't even know if it should be raised higher, as the correction she wrote on DD's work shows such a level of incompetence about the basics of the subject she's supposed to be teaching the class, that we're wondering what else she's teaching them. I feel a bit sorry for her, she's newly qualified, DD's isn't the easiest of classes and I know other parents aren't happy with her, but I don't think many have officially complained.

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WeAreTheHeroes · 27/05/2023 10:38

Many, many years ago my primary school teacher told us Mary Queen of Scots and Elizabeth I were sisters. I was a Tudors obsessed kid and corrected her politely... she wasn't happy.

SerendipityJane · 27/05/2023 10:42

This is an excellent teachable moment that no one is right all the time - even grown ups - and how to navigate that in life.

WillowtreeHouse · 27/05/2023 10:46

I'm a teacher and this pisses me right off. Not that she made the mistake in the first place (everyone does that), but that she didn't take the time to check if she was correct, when she's not a specialist in that subject.

I wince at some of the spellings I see, mostly from young teachers (that's not a criticism of young teachers, it's just a fact in the school I work in).

Interested in this thread?

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Firewall · 27/05/2023 10:51

In this case the teacher was correct! Electrons move from the hair to the balloon. The balloon is left negatively charged, whilst the hair positively charged. So the hair is attracted to the balloon.

LaPerduta · 27/05/2023 11:21

sashh · 27/05/2023 09:41

But the electrons go from the hair to the balloon. The hair doesn't repel each other it becomes positively charged so the balloon and hair have opposite charges and attract each other.

Linguistically we talk about "hair" in English (unlike, for example, French), but there are still obviously individual strands of hair ("hairs") which would repel each other in this scenario.

I haven't studied physics for 35 years (and only did it for three years), but that much is still obvious simply from reading this thread.

And as for the Year 6 teacher writing "I would of...". FFS.

redskylight · 27/05/2023 11:51

HelloIsItYouImLookingFor · 27/05/2023 10:30

Sorry that's what I meant. I know technically you always use BODMAS unless there are equations but I don't see it as BODMAS if it's only subtraction and addition in the sum as obviously subtraction comes first. Not explaining myself very well. But the teacher should know this without a doubt

The issue with this is that the teacher doesn't understand that subtraction is actually really addition. (And probably that division is really multiplication).

So in practice you would work out 9-3+10 as (9-3)+10 = 6+10=16
Otherwise you have to remember that it's actually 9 + (-3) +10. And then you won't be tempted to get it wrong.

The teacher is wrong because 3+10 is not part of the calculation. It's -3+10 (but you probably don't mention negative numbers in primary school).
So you could certainly work it out as 9 + (-3+10)= 9+7=16 if you preferred.

IMO (I'm not a teacher) BODMAS is better taught by saying division and multiplication have equal precedence and addition and subtraction also have equal precedence.

HelloIsItYouImLookingFor · 27/05/2023 12:26

redskylight · 27/05/2023 11:51

The issue with this is that the teacher doesn't understand that subtraction is actually really addition. (And probably that division is really multiplication).

So in practice you would work out 9-3+10 as (9-3)+10 = 6+10=16
Otherwise you have to remember that it's actually 9 + (-3) +10. And then you won't be tempted to get it wrong.

The teacher is wrong because 3+10 is not part of the calculation. It's -3+10 (but you probably don't mention negative numbers in primary school).
So you could certainly work it out as 9 + (-3+10)= 9+7=16 if you preferred.

IMO (I'm not a teacher) BODMAS is better taught by saying division and multiplication have equal precedence and addition and subtraction also have equal precedence.

I totally get what your saying. Like I said, the teacher should know how to do a simple sum like this. Quite shocking really that they don't
.

Madamfrog · 27/05/2023 12:33

"I was teaching a class about volcanoes and said that Vesuvius is on mainland Italy.
DHT pulled me into her office and told me to make sure I had my facts correct before teaching the pupils something.
Turns out a parent has phoned up to complain that I'd told the class that Vesuvius is in Italy when it's on Sicily 🙄."

But Vesuvius is on the Italian mainland, it's near Naples. Mount Etna is in Sicily 🙂

ThickSkinnedSoWhat · 27/05/2023 12:41

RequiresUpdating · 27/05/2023 09:29

the teacher is teaching everything and it’s not her strong suit.
This baffles me! Yes, she's teaching everything but it's what's she is trained to do. It's what she is employed to do. So is it wrong to expect a basic level of knowledge of the subjects she is teaching? Or it's ok and it doesn't matter as they're only primary children and at some point in their school career they'll hear the correct answer? Does that also count for secondary school? I mean, if they go to uni, they'll surely hear the right answer there...

To be honest, you're coming across as having a real stick up your arse at this point. Everybody makes bloody mistakes and nobody is perfect. Teach your child that. And if you feel a teacher can't make a single error in their underpaid role when sitting marking piece after piece of work then use that perfect brain of yours that, it would seem, never makes a mistake, and homeschool them instead.

Shinyandnew1 · 27/05/2023 12:45

Madamfrog · 27/05/2023 12:33

"I was teaching a class about volcanoes and said that Vesuvius is on mainland Italy.
DHT pulled me into her office and told me to make sure I had my facts correct before teaching the pupils something.
Turns out a parent has phoned up to complain that I'd told the class that Vesuvius is in Italy when it's on Sicily 🙄."

But Vesuvius is on the Italian mainland, it's near Naples. Mount Etna is in Sicily 🙂

That was the teacher’s point.

The parent was saying that the teacher had said something they hadn’t said.

Iamnotthe1 · 27/05/2023 12:47

redskylight
It's -3+10 (but you probably don't mention negative numbers in primary school).

Negative numbers are taught in Y4 when children are 8.

BODMAS is better taught by saying division and multiplication have equal precedence and addition and subtraction also have equal precedence.

That is how it is most commonly taught.

RaraRachael · 27/05/2023 12:55

Madamfrog · 27/05/2023 12:33

"I was teaching a class about volcanoes and said that Vesuvius is on mainland Italy.
DHT pulled me into her office and told me to make sure I had my facts correct before teaching the pupils something.
Turns out a parent has phoned up to complain that I'd told the class that Vesuvius is in Italy when it's on Sicily 🙄."

But Vesuvius is on the Italian mainland, it's near Naples. Mount Etna is in Sicily 🙂

That's what I was teaching the class - that Vesuvius is on the mainland. The parent obviously thought I was wrong and they thought it was on Sicily. I'd even climbed the bloody thing the year before!

What really angered me was that the DHT didn't apologise for accusing me of teaching wrong information. Nowadays I'd be on the phone to the parent to inform that they were wrong, not me.

redskylight · 27/05/2023 14:57

Iamnotthe1 · 27/05/2023 12:47

redskylight
It's -3+10 (but you probably don't mention negative numbers in primary school).

Negative numbers are taught in Y4 when children are 8.

BODMAS is better taught by saying division and multiplication have equal precedence and addition and subtraction also have equal precedence.

That is how it is most commonly taught.

Thanks - that's good to know.

Even less reason for the teacher to get it wrong then :)

sashh · 27/05/2023 16:20

TeenDivided · 27/05/2023 09:51

Electrons are negatively charged.
If they go onto the hair, the hair strands each individually become negatively charged.
As such the individual hairs repel each other, which is why they spread out from each other.
The hair and the balloon attract which is why the balloon can stick to the hair.

I am quite aware that electrons have a negative charge.

But rubbing a balloon means the balloon becomes negatively charged not the hair.

TeenDivided · 27/05/2023 16:31

sashh · 27/05/2023 16:20

I am quite aware that electrons have a negative charge.

But rubbing a balloon means the balloon becomes negatively charged not the hair.

Oh does it. Fair enough.
The the hair strands become positive, repel each other but are attracted to the balloon.

Cam22 · 27/05/2023 16:36

Whenwilliberich · 26/05/2023 22:19

I’ve just googled it and your dd is still wrong.

baloon deposits electrons on head, giving head a positive charge. Balloon becomes negative. Hair(+) is attracted to balloon (-).

looks as tho teacher just meant to write attract rather than repel.

or your teacher just didn’t know. You say it’s basic general knowledge but i don’t know if it is… i didn’t know!! Im not that clever but I am a teacher (of music).

Some teachers don’t know about full stop usage, that the 1st Person Singular takes a capital letter or even that the spelling of the word balloon does not vary.

Tut.

beachcitygirl · 27/05/2023 16:37

The problem isn't a mistake imho but doubling down, making a child feel stupid & undermining the child's confidence
As well as
Simply not knowing the subject she's teaching.

I would (in the first instance ) email teacher & ask her to apologise to your child & ask her to explain she made a mistake. If that was done I would let it go.
If not I would escalate.

Cam22 · 27/05/2023 16:38

ThickSkinnedSoWhat · 27/05/2023 12:41

To be honest, you're coming across as having a real stick up your arse at this point. Everybody makes bloody mistakes and nobody is perfect. Teach your child that. And if you feel a teacher can't make a single error in their underpaid role when sitting marking piece after piece of work then use that perfect brain of yours that, it would seem, never makes a mistake, and homeschool them instead.

😝

Cam22 · 27/05/2023 16:42

LaPerduta · 27/05/2023 11:21

Linguistically we talk about "hair" in English (unlike, for example, French), but there are still obviously individual strands of hair ("hairs") which would repel each other in this scenario.

I haven't studied physics for 35 years (and only did it for three years), but that much is still obvious simply from reading this thread.

And as for the Year 6 teacher writing "I would of...". FFS.

“And as for the Year 6 teacher writing "I would of...". FFS.”

Weirdly, on this very forum, excuses are made for that piece of nonsense. Go figure.

Cam22 · 27/05/2023 16:46

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 27/05/2023 10:27

I wish I could say I’m shocked that a pp who evidently is, or has been, a teacher, has written, ‘I wouldn’t of said…’
But I’m not.

IMO there should be a fairly rigorous English test for anyone embarking on teacher training, with remedial work for anyone who makes basic mistakes.

The word “remedial” is not used any longer.

SuperSange · 27/05/2023 16:47

RequiresUpdating · 27/05/2023 09:29

the teacher is teaching everything and it’s not her strong suit.
This baffles me! Yes, she's teaching everything but it's what's she is trained to do. It's what she is employed to do. So is it wrong to expect a basic level of knowledge of the subjects she is teaching? Or it's ok and it doesn't matter as they're only primary children and at some point in their school career they'll hear the correct answer? Does that also count for secondary school? I mean, if they go to uni, they'll surely hear the right answer there...

You're in for a real treat at secondary; you'll be lucky if you have more than one physics degree in the whole department.

MMMarmite · 27/05/2023 16:50

Honestly although it's disappointing, a lot of primary school teachers don't understand much science. It's not a bad life lesson that adults can be wrong. Personally I would tell DD that she is right and teacher is wrong, and then leave it to DD to choose whether she wants to continue to argue the point. If she does, you could help her learn how to politely convince someone, e.g. find evidence on a textbook or a video to show the teacher.

If it were a secondary school science teacher I'd call it differently, as this should be at the base of their knowledge.

clary · 27/05/2023 16:52

There is an English test for a prospective teacher (or there was…).

It’s interesting to me that even tho the electron info is something “everyone knows” (actually I don’t) pps are not in fact in agreement.

So maybe it isn’t totally clear, or the teacher got mixed up. I agree that advance work should be done to make sure what is being taught is right; and that the teacher should apologise to your dd. Not accepting a correction from a student (when the student is right and it may have taken courage to ask) is the worst thing here. Not knowing a piece of physics that actually, everyone doesn’t know, is not the worst thing ever imho.

Cam22 · 27/05/2023 16:54

Malbecfan · 27/05/2023 09:53

Teacher here. I would have a quiet word with the teacher without the DC present.

Happened to us with DD2 in y6. An arrogant but inexperienced teacher marked something wrong in DD's homework. What he didn't know was that DH used to lecture in that subject at a RG university. Parents' Evening the next week was fun as DH produced the data sheets for the subject and proved that DD was correct. The teacher never apologised to DD, but the Head of T&L who shared the class thanked me the next day for DH's quiet professional way of dealing with it.

I am cringing that he actually brought in the “data sheets” to prove she was wrong! What a leaden way of dealing with the issue.

A little humour might have been less embarrassing. Is the fact that he taught at a RG really worth mentioning? Lol It’s that humourless thing again…

Iamnotthe1 · 27/05/2023 16:55

MMMarmite
Honestly although it's disappointing, a lot of primary school teachers don't understand much science.

Bold statement: do you have any research or statistics to support it?