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There we go Schofield has admitted ‘affair’

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muppetmayhem · 26/05/2023 18:34

Front page of the daily mail for my sins.

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TimeLady · 28/05/2023 07:18

Boardname · 28/05/2023 07:13

Is Simon not related to him? Doesn't seem an overly common surname but guessing just coincidence!

Apparently not.

TimeLady · 28/05/2023 07:21

Trouble is (for him), now, as a self-confessed liar, PS's denials about anything can't be taken at face value any more.

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 28/05/2023 07:41

Boardname · 28/05/2023 07:13

Is Simon not related to him? Doesn't seem an overly common surname but guessing just coincidence!

No relation.

Mummyoflittledragon · 28/05/2023 07:52

Ulookgood · 27/05/2023 23:44

That's what happened with President Macron. His wife was his teacher when he was 12/13. But they have had a relationship and went on to marry and no one has ever said a nasty thing about her. Why such double standard?

I would hope laws in France are now similar to the uk. He’s 45 now and if he met his wife when he was 12/13, that was 22/23 years ago. I think this was around the time when uk law was changed around adults in positions of power.

Mummyoflittledragon · 28/05/2023 07:54

Oops I can’t count. 32/33 years ago. So around 1990. This sort of thing was going on when I was at school and into the 90s. I’m only a few years older than Macron. Uk law was changed, I think, late 90s?

helpplease01 · 28/05/2023 07:54

ParentsTrapped · 27/05/2023 22:26

@Soothingaftersun whats the David Williams thing?

What David Willims thing?

GlomOfNit · 28/05/2023 08:05

The most intriguing/icky part of his statement is the use of the word 'consensual'. Naturally we would all assume that a relationship or affair conducted by a normal (if philandering) adult would be 'consensual', no?

So I'm just wondering why he thought he'd need to put that in. Maybe some of the rumours hinted at an uneven balance of power and even coercion?? I don't know the exact ages here but the 'younger colleague' was 15 when they met (and had an innocent mentor-like relationship....according to the statement) and presumably of employable age as a 'runner' (eg very junior role) when he got work at ITV (wasn't he a runner on This Morning or something like that?). Schofe is 61 at the moment, affair seems to have been 2020 and maybe a bit before - so I think, conservative estimate, there are likely to have been about 40 years between them. That amount of imbalance of power and agency is massively dodgy even before you take into account that one of them was a top tv superstar and the other was the most junior of juniors.

So again, I'm wondering about that word 'consensual'. Did he use it to clarify the sort of relationship it was, or did he use it as a preemptive attempt to defend himself against any hint of nastiness in the relationship?

I'm really surprised not to see the MUCH younger age of his boyfriend not as widely reported. That it was legal is one thing - that there was such an age gap and imbalance of power ought to be the thing that takes him down here, not the fact that he's gay (big deal Schofe, it's the 21st century) or he cheated on his poor wife (no shortage of bastards out there).

RocketIceLollie · 28/05/2023 08:06

I don't usually like media circuses around someone's private life like this, but, in this case I think what's finally coming out in the open is quite alarming. Certainly a question mark over potential child grooming. It's his wife I feel sorry for. She seems to be doing a good job of keeping her head low through all this. It'll be interesting if she comes forward with her side of the story one day....also he may end up in hot water if the lad comes forward and suggests any further accusations against him...anyway, Philip Schofield is finished. He won't be on TV again now. The new Michael Barrymore.

ThreeRingCircus · 28/05/2023 08:16

RedToothBrush · 28/05/2023 03:22

Why is it coming out now? This is the version the Mail are saying. This suggests there perhaps ISN'T that much more to the story.

Early last week he decided to spend an eye-watering sum on legal representation for his former lover. As it transpired it was this that sealed his fate.

Schofield hired top London law firm Mishcon de Reya to act for the man, now in his mid-20s, and his own solicitor, then set up a call with Mishcon's head of reputation management in an attempt to put a plan in motion to manage press interest. But the outcome was one Schofield did not see coming.

On the lawyers' agenda was The Mail on Sunday published a fortnight ago revealing that the young man had mysteriously moved on from This Morning. There were claims he and Schofield had fallen out and that the younger man's colleagues were surprised to see him depart for pastures new. In response, Schofield complained to the Independent Press Standards Organisation, the watchdog for the newspaper and magazine industry in the UK. It is there to hold printed publications to account for their actions, protect individual rights, uphold high standards of journalism and help to maintain freedom of expression for the press.

At the same time as firing off his complaint, Schofield's spinners were briefing other publications that they had complained and that the story should not be repeated. This newspaper launched a vigorous defence – and the complaint has now been formally withdrawn.

But it is what happened next that has almost certainly finished the £20 million former king of daytime television's career for good. Schofield learned that his former partner was not prepared to lie about their affair.

He instead told his lawyer that they had had a relationship, and that was to be his honest stance. He added that he was simply fed up lying. Schofield had no way out.

He was then forced into a U-turn, telling his management company YMU, which had represented him for 35 years, that he had lied and that he had indeed cheated on his wife with the young man.

YMU – widely seen as the most powerful showbusiness agency in the UK – swiftly dropped him and told ITV bosses of his confession.

Schofield then sent the grovelling apology to me, on Friday, admitting that he had lied to this newspaper. He also announced he had quit ITV with immediate effect, and would not be presenting next Saturday's British Soap Awards – a role that has been his since 2006

If that's the story it remains problematic in its own right because of how he continued to lie to cover up the story. And lawyered up to do so. And expected MM to go along with the lie even though it was effectively abusing the law / press complains system to conceal the truth.

That's abuse of power right there all by itself.

So you have a situation where his lies to ITV (which could have sparked an investigation into his conduct and misuse of position - including shafting the blokes career by moving him when the relationship broke down - several years ago) are relevant. As is the fact he then brokered a deal with ITV to save which included a hefty financial payout when ITV potentially had enough to end the contract without a deal on the basis of gross misconduct instead.

Schofield didn't want his reputation damaged, but was happy to have an unwise relationship and shaft the career of someone else when it suited him. That's abuse of power.

Questions of grooming also are definitely relevant but not necessarily the key point. ITV went along with protecting Schofield's reputation with no regard to the younger party. Schofield's status was more important than the career and well being. Its hard to argue it wasn't exploitative if you say 'well you can have this great career as long as we are in a relationship, but not it's over tough shit I don't want you on my show and hey you will damage my reputation'. That's just not ok or how to treat people.

The level of control Schofield was trying to exert over his former lover looks coercive with all the legal shit too.

Whether the Mail are telling the whole truth themselves is hard to know BUT the chain of events in doing a deal with ITV only to go back on it a week later can't be anything but SOMETHING happened during the week to force his hand. You don't lawyer up for a settlement worth £300,000 and keeping a good gig only to go back on it a week later.

This is a great summary.

LetterForLettis · 28/05/2023 08:20

The picture that is emerging is that PS groomed a star struck young teenage boy, an innocent child, got him a job on TM and subsequently emotionally exploited and abused the young ITV runner his prey.

ITV stood by and let it happen because PS brought in ££££.

Pretty corrupt.

It also seems that there are other young men that PS had inappropriate relationships with, apparently one young autistic man among others.

What a lovely character PS must be, happy to exploit young people for his own gratification and dropping them when they threaten his image, ego and empire. And what a bunch of opportunist and above-the-rules staff on the TM show. How charming. Holly, PS' wife and daughters all in cahoots to keep the money coming in.

It's all imploding in front of us. Good.

Soothingaftersun · 28/05/2023 08:52

helpplease01 · 28/05/2023 07:54

What David Willims thing?

It's from another forum that accusations about him will break soon. They were way ahead on the Phil story but I guess time will tell.

GHxx · 28/05/2023 08:55

TimeLady · 28/05/2023 07:21

Trouble is (for him), now, as a self-confessed liar, PS's denials about anything can't be taken at face value any more.

That’s what I thought.. who is he to tell us when it started or whether it was legal when every single thing he’s said up to now, even in statements, has been untrue 🤷🏼‍♀️

SamW98 · 28/05/2023 08:56

Not surprised by the general reaction online to this story being ‘it’s his business no one else’s, leave him alone’ and most commenters justifying it as the young man being legal and consenting.

Seems the GBP happy to condone grooming as long as it’s their favourite tv presenter

WhisperingAutistic · 28/05/2023 08:56

I've just noticed that Eamonn Holmes has this as a sponsored tweet.
Does that mean he's paid for it?

There we go Schofield has admitted ‘affair’
Nutterjacks · 28/05/2023 08:57

EverythingsCominUpMilhouse · 26/05/2023 18:38

Ah well.

It's "not illegal", meaning the person was of legal age? But still exceptionally young? 🤮

Wonder who was threatening to spill the beans.

I reckon it was Eamon and Ruth 🤔

WhisperingAutistic · 28/05/2023 08:57

WhisperingAutistic · 28/05/2023 08:56

I've just noticed that Eamonn Holmes has this as a sponsored tweet.
Does that mean he's paid for it?

Promoted, not sponsored sorry

GHxx · 28/05/2023 08:59

@GlomOfNit yip its like he’s responding to something he’s seen that’s threatened to come out (and might still appear over the next week) before it comes out but it sounds very defensive 🤔

Hellenabe · 28/05/2023 09:00

Soothingaftersun · 28/05/2023 08:52

It's from another forum that accusations about him will break soon. They were way ahead on the Phil story but I guess time will tell.

I've heard from friends who know Matt Lucas, that DW is certainly not as nice as people think. Plus the rush of Lara Stone to divorce him after seeing 'something'

GHxx · 28/05/2023 09:01

It was interesting watching bits of GB news and sky news last night, really going for it with the story and all the details then itv news at 10 reported it as their second story (was top story on the others) and a lot of the details were missed out.. it said an affair with a male colleague, no mention of the word ‘young’ like even his statement pointed out

cryinglaughing · 28/05/2023 09:01

The penny has just dropped out Rylan saying people are 2 faced, I guess he is referring to the theatre company and in turn PS 🤔

cryinglaughing · 28/05/2023 09:02

About Rylan 🙄

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 28/05/2023 09:09

Daily mail today - the runner (Matthew mccreevey) confessed all to the lawyers that Philip had hired to keep HIM quiet. Apparently the poor guy is in a bad way. 😔

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 28/05/2023 09:11

Hellenabe · 28/05/2023 09:00

I've heard from friends who know Matt Lucas, that DW is certainly not as nice as people think. Plus the rush of Lara Stone to divorce him after seeing 'something'

I’ve also heard re David Walliams that women were advised not to be in a room alone with him. He has also allegedly slept with his sister (discovered in his childhood diaries when collating info for his book).

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 28/05/2023 09:11

cryinglaughing · 28/05/2023 09:02

About Rylan 🙄

Oh my god you’re right!

TimeLady · 28/05/2023 09:19

MM was born in 1996 apparently, so 15 when the first exchange of tweets took place (2011):
Darknessdestroyer on Twitter: "@GrannygotanAK47 @JacquiDeevoy1 Thread. t.co/DAhTyVOBR5" / Twitter

and 18 when he went to the TM studios (2014):
Hyde actor meets This Morning Phillip Schofield and Holly Wiloughby - Manchester Evening News

This means that he would have been 10 in 2006, and as the Theatre school wasn't established until 2008, it looks like we can discount the 'met when he was ten or eleven' rumours:
THE 2 FACED THEATRE PRODUCTION COMPANY LTD overview - Find and update company information - GOV.UK (company-information.service.gov.uk)

For me, the big question is when did did he start at TM, when did the relationship begin and how long did it go on for? It was potentially for a number of years, if it all fell apart early 2020. He would have been 24 then, and quite honestly if it was just a short fling with someone in their early twenties, would that be such a big deal?

If, however, it was a relatively long-standing relationship (potentially 2014 - 2020), then that's a whole different ballgame. He was apparently in love and heartlessly cast aside it would seem, because it would be detrimental to PS's wholesome image.

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