What is the physical attribute that makes you go weak at the knees despite all evidence to the contrary?

[Corianderparsley]

Height for me. Over 6ft 2 of man and, although I can objectively see that I don't particularly find him attractive, the height just does something for me. It's a terrible weakness.

Does voice count?

There's a man I met OLD and I used to get him to send me voicenotes of him reading to me.

Hands !! I have a thing for nice hands

The other day, I heard a male cyclist shout "Oh brilliant! It's a tunnel!" to his partner as they were riding along an old railway line I was walking along. He sounds SO enthusiastic and excited.

I loved it - people sound so jaded and meh about so much, that an adult sounding all excited about this small thing just seemed really attractive.

So yep. I'm currently finding authentic, excited enthusiasm attractive

I also love people who are excellent at what they do. Doesn't matter what it is - the pursuit of excellence is very attractive.

Ahhh…see now Tobey I can get onboard with!

My ex frequently got shall we say, excited with my voice when talking online.

Seriously though... I go with the forearms with rolled up sleeves, v short/balding hair and short beard

Stubble or short beard

One thing? Nice lips. An 'm' Cupid's bow, if that's what it's called. Not too thin.

Also defined cheekbones, and fair hair, from light brown and lighter. Slightly androgynous look, probably.

Yoko Ono has entered the chat

I'm not even heterosexual and I'm loving this thread!

If I WAS heterosexual, it would definitely be dark Jewish brain box type. I'm the only person I know who thought Ed Miliband was a hottie.

Long hair but especially when in a Man bun. But sometimes they turn around and so disappointed.

The most handsome man I ever saw was on the tills at M&S, not local to me so never saw him again. He ended up serving me and I came across a right twat, went beetroot, flustered but he must have known how handsome he was.

I love lanky men. Tall and skinny with chicken legs

Has anyone seen Sam Fricker the Australian diver on you tube? He has the most perfect physique: broad shoulders and long legs
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So you’re commenting on this thread why? 🙄

Obv that reply was meant for @MarsDestroyerOfWorlds

Gay woman: strong arms/shoulders/upper back. Every time.

Also a sucker for a good jawline.

But most of all, that soft butch energy more than anything turns up air con

Same! Plus a small neat ‘stache.

Height
Good build
Nice eyes
Long (but nice) hair.
Smile.
Broad shoulders.

Voice like Alan Rickman, eyes like Steve Pemberton, teeth and lips like Henry Cavill as the Witcher, hair dark, greying temples not objected to, shapely ears, the forearms of course, nice tight bum, good package, not too muscly thighs, good calves (essential for kilts), slightly defined breast area, tight but not six pack abs, nice clean spicy male smell, nicely trimmed finger and toe nails, crinkly smiling eyes and slightly long canine teeth an advantage… (fans self)

Nice hands

Pref big and veiny

Long blond hair, big bony hands.

Forearms..especially with rolled up shirt sleeves
Beards
Hairy chests

basically James Purefoy

The v-shape. Slim hips but solid, broad shoulder line? <Swoon>

Lean, lightly tanned forearms protruding from a white shirt with rolled up sleeves.

<swoon>

Ah yes, the "twinkle".
Olive skin, dark hair and green eyes. Swoon!!