@petitdonkey
hmmm
I think this is what my 'friend' would say too. But actually, whilst it is nice to have the garden, especially for the morning coffee, it really doesn't outweigh the sheer hassle of packing my stuff (food, clothes, shower stuff, iPad, chargers etc etc) just for a night or two and it's very restrictive. Her dog still (at 18 months) has 'lunch' as well as 'breakfast & dinner'.
not to mention all the cleaning up after him, that dog can make a mess in an empty room!!
her dog is adorable, but it's her dog! Yes, I'd love my own again, but hers isn't a substitute for that relationship.
she seems to think having the use of her garden & being with her dog is a treat for me. It's really not. Nor is her 'large house'. Why would it be?
im actually really getting fed up of it, but I'm not sure exactly how to say 'no' without upsetting everyone. Her sister is my friend, we're only friendly through her.