I will try and keep it short.
DD 8 has additional needs, she is in year 3 and has an EHC plan, she is speech delayed, has gross motor skill delays (likely dyspraxia but no formal diagnosis) and learning delays as well as sow other things going on. I am certain she is on the spectrum, although no one will take me seriously. She has some sensory needs & auditory processing issues but my biggest concern is her attainment at school, progress is slow. She needs help in lessons with understanding tasks, breaking things down into smaller steps and guidance with her work. Without support in lessons she really cannot access the curriculum. She also needs help with dressing at times. It’s all covered in her EHC plan. As well as this she should be doing daily speech and language tasks as outlined in her EHC plan.
despite her struggles she loves school, is sociable and has some lovely friends. She is compliant and eager to please and called a delight by everyone that knows her, she has no behavioural issues, she is compliant and fits in well with her class and the mainstream environment.
so what’s the problem? Dd should be getting pretty much 1:1 in lessons in the morning but is not because there’s children in her class that are very disruptive. I’m not an asshole, I know these kids could be neurodivergent themselves and struggles, I know their mums are probably at their wits end but there’s a few they are disruptive. There’s one in particular who has been very violent towards staff and other children and the class have had to be evacuated into the playground. It has really heightened over the last few months.
dd has told me she isn’t getting much help as the TA she’s meant to have (there’s 2 TA’s in the morning) is outside all morning with a couple of the kids who are struggling.
the Ta was hired permanently at the school to mainly support dd in the mornings with her EHC plan but the Ta has confided in someone saying she is know longer happy as she’s spending so much time with a very explosive child. Said child has attacked teachers and students etc. he clearly needs supervising but at the cost of dd getting support? Surely the school has to find someone else to help in that class?
I know schools don’t have enough staff, I know so many kids are struggling. I know that the exploding children are clearly struggling and their mums are probably at their wits end but because dd is compliant she’s going under the radar and not achieving much in lessons.
what am I meant to say, think or do about this? Is there much I can say?