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New UC rules to force both partners to work ??

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Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 10:07

I can’t find anything online about this but have heard it’s being changed as previously there had to be a certain number of hours worked but this could be by just one partner but now it’s being changed to make both work even though the total household hours don’t change??

This seems very unfair and taking away choice for some families in difficult circumstances. I just can’t find the official guidance is anyone able to link to it ? Thanks

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Satsumastocking · 29/04/2023 11:02

And, er, wouldn't schools need be made bearable, appropriate, have teachers in them (who are paid enough) and teach to a high standard, to make it "fair" to force people not to home educate?!

x2boys · 29/04/2023 11:02

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 10:56

This thread really shows that parents of SEN /disabled kids absolutely will work if they possibly can meaning the ones who say they genuinely can’t need the protection to be able to make the choices that are right for their family which is often for one partner to work full time and one to be at home . Why would anyone agree with taking a way that choice especially as @NewNovember states it’s a political decision and won’t save any taxpayers money

We already have that protection though.

Snoken · 29/04/2023 11:02

BattingDown · 29/04/2023 10:59

It’s just punishing people for no reason really. There’s no way it’s cheaper to provide kids with SEN with a fully appropriate school place than let a parent have universal credit to stay at home with them. Fair enough if they were going to properly resource SEN education including wraparound care, but they aren’t.

I also think one parent staying at home with the child should be an option for all families and if necessary the state should subside that. The state is prepared to subsidise childcare (inadequately) so why not a stay at home parent?

So you want the state to pay for parents to stay at home whilst they simultaneously don't contribute any taxes? Do you also want there to be schools, healthcare, maintained roads, police officers etc? Who do you think should pay for that?

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BodyKeepingScore · 29/04/2023 11:02

Satsumastocking · 29/04/2023 10:58

It's a basic right that was the norm until very recently.

It should be a right in the sense that families can make a decision for one parent to stay home. If the family cannot finance that choice themselves (as many people of middle or higher incomes can’t) then why should the obligation for them to partake in work related activity not be there?

Jonei · 29/04/2023 11:02

Satsumastocking · 29/04/2023 11:00

This is simply untrue. Home ed has been allowed and benefits paid to a home educating parent for as long as I can remember (since my childhood in the 80s). Everyone has that right.

That's not true. People aren't allowed to claim benefits to home ed. The money might be there for another need. But not home ed.

Therealjudgejudy · 29/04/2023 11:02

OP, you need to stop using the word petty.

It's been pointed out to you that if you are in receipt of dla/carers you will be exempt.

Or how about your partner works more hours, gets a second job if you are struggling? Is that a possibility?

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:02

Botw1 · 29/04/2023 10:58

@Citrusmuffin

Because those who are genuine are already exempt.

I think everyone is aware of PIP assessments scandals. It can be really difficult to get dla too. Many GENUINE claimants parents have to go through mandatory consideration and tribunal because the DWP doesn’t make it easy so genuine claimants can sometimes not get all they are entitled to at first or at all

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EasterIssland · 29/04/2023 11:04

P3N · 29/04/2023 10:43

Yes, what I'm getting at is lots of disabled people aren't getting the help and aren't considered disabled in the eyes of the government.

The SAHP thing also confuses me. Why is everyone so upset over the government subsidising a SAHP when they also subsidise childcare places for many working parents? Why is one more worthy of the other? I would rather look after my own child where possible than leave them with a childcare provider (if I had that luxury) or is this what working parents are angry about? They shouldn't have that luxury because they aren't paying for it and they are forced to go to work?

I think everyone is angry at the wrong people. Most people are struggling to survive at the moment.

Because whilst you’re staying at home you’re not getting money > paying taxes/ spending as much
i on the other hand I’m getting subsided 30h (it was around £300-400/month) but I’m earning a salary > paying taxes and as I’ve money going out and spending it.

whilst both scenarios might seem to you more likely , the second one returns quite likely more to the government in form of taxes

kitsuneghost · 29/04/2023 11:04

Quite right. If you want to stay at home and not work it's totally fine but claiming UC for it is not on.

Beezknees · 29/04/2023 11:04

Can you look for evening or weekend work? It sounds a pain but it's easier with 2 adults in the house.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:04

Therealjudgejudy · 29/04/2023 11:02

OP, you need to stop using the word petty.

It's been pointed out to you that if you are in receipt of dla/carers you will be exempt.

Or how about your partner works more hours, gets a second job if you are struggling? Is that a possibility?

We have claimed and waiting on a decision. I’m taking about others too though .

You can’t police my choice of words. This is a political tactic as pointed out by another poster and it is petty.

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Jonei · 29/04/2023 11:04

Maybe it's a tactic to get both parents work ready'. Before cutting UC later on.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:06

x2boys · 29/04/2023 11:02

We already have that protection though.

Sometimes it’s hard to get dla or carers I know of a few people really struggling for various reasons even some waiting for tribunals

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EwwSprouts · 29/04/2023 11:07

So some can work and some can’t. Which shows people will when they can and we should allow people to make that choice if they can or not and trust them if they can’t and support them. That is a little black and white. Some do and some can but don't make that choice. We can't afford for benefits to be given on the basis of trust.

I think, for those without intensive caring responsibilities, it's a sound decision. When you think more than 50% of marriages end in divorce and women have notoriously low pension pots ensuring everyone keeps at least a part-time foot in the work market is a good idea.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:08

Will there be parents working though And claiming the 85% childcare back that actually cost the taxpayer more than families where one parent works full time to the hours required or more and the other doesn’t work ?

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blahblahblah1654 · 29/04/2023 11:09

If someone is capable of working and doesn't have any disabilities then they should be working. Or at least not being paid by the government. Lots of people would rather stay at home.

NewNovember · 29/04/2023 11:09

Waitingforsummer75 · 29/04/2023 10:58

?

the post was an example of why it was necessary - to he a child with SEN.

Waitingforsummer75 · 29/04/2023 11:11

Yes, thank you. I scrolled back and saw it. I hadn't seen it as it was posted 1 minute before mine. As you probably knew.
I said two adults capable of working. Disability would exempt that. Thank you for wasting my time though.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:11

blahblahblah1654 · 29/04/2023 11:09

If someone is capable of working and doesn't have any disabilities then they should be working. Or at least not being paid by the government. Lots of people would rather stay at home.

Really ? I think it’s rare for people to choose not to work. If I could I would !!! I don’t have that choice and it’s the same for others so there needs to be a safety net and the dla/pip/carers system needs to be easier to navigate

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Doyoumind · 29/04/2023 11:15

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:08

Will there be parents working though And claiming the 85% childcare back that actually cost the taxpayer more than families where one parent works full time to the hours required or more and the other doesn’t work ?

Childcare is short term. It allows parents to work, pay taxes, build up pensions and put themselves in a stronger financial position long term than staying at home to look after children.

wormshuffled · 29/04/2023 11:15

If you only need to fit in 12.5 hours then you could do this evenings and weekends and your partner not need to change their hours?

x2boys · 29/04/2023 11:17

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:06

Sometimes it’s hard to get dla or carers I know of a few people really struggling for various reasons even some waiting for tribunals

Yes I understand that ,but I'm on various face book groups for children inDLA ,and sometimes it's quit obvious why people are refused either they don't send any evidence or some apply for very tenuous reasons ,and they haven't seen any professional,s at al
I know some people have I go to to tribunal to get the correct rates I had ti.go for my child it's arduous but worth it in the end.

Jonei · 29/04/2023 11:18

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:11

Really ? I think it’s rare for people to choose not to work. If I could I would !!! I don’t have that choice and it’s the same for others so there needs to be a safety net and the dla/pip/carers system needs to be easier to navigate

Well clearly that's not true by the amount of posts on Mumsnet from parents wanting to stay at home with their kids. And seeing UC as a way to achieve that aim.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:21

x2boys · 29/04/2023 11:17

Yes I understand that ,but I'm on various face book groups for children inDLA ,and sometimes it's quit obvious why people are refused either they don't send any evidence or some apply for very tenuous reasons ,and they haven't seen any professional,s at al
I know some people have I go to to tribunal to get the correct rates I had ti.go for my child it's arduous but worth it in the end.

Hopefully in those cases with pending MR or tribunals they will have a ‘hold’ placed in cases till the dla/pip issue is resolved as otherwise families will be going through all that with potential sanctions ?

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Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 11:22

wormshuffled · 29/04/2023 11:15

If you only need to fit in 12.5 hours then you could do this evenings and weekends and your partner not need to change their hours?

What if the partner just wanted to add 12.5 hrs overtime instead I can’t see what that wouldn’t be ok as it would still reach the threshold of required hours but they seem to want to force both out no matter what for no benefit ?

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