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New UC rules to force both partners to work ??

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Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 10:07

I can’t find anything online about this but have heard it’s being changed as previously there had to be a certain number of hours worked but this could be by just one partner but now it’s being changed to make both work even though the total household hours don’t change??

This seems very unfair and taking away choice for some families in difficult circumstances. I just can’t find the official guidance is anyone able to link to it ? Thanks

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Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:00

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 19:54

I have every sympathy for single parents but that scenario also applies to two parent families too.

Surely then you can see how if it’s that hard for two people, it must be harder for one (and therefore one salary, one person to cover all child related logistics, sick days, housework etc)

Jonei · 29/04/2023 20:01

swg1 · 29/04/2023 18:56

Not on the "take anything" plan you seem to want to push her into she won't - my critical illness and life cover - WITHOUT added health insurance - was roughly £200 a month before I got sick! And again you absolutely should not ever take it out if it means having no savings because even if you have an absolutely open and shut case terrible illness it might still take six months or more to pay out.

Starting to suspect you're just a troll now.

It's up to her if she wants to get it or not. I'm just pointing out that if she worked full time rather than claiming UC, it may be more achievable for her.

Also troll hunting is against talk guidelines. If you think someone is a troll, then you should report it.

Although it's very telling that you think someone wants people to pay their way, rather than choosing a life style topped up by the tax payer, must be a troll.

That says a lot more about you than it does about me.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 20:18

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 19:47

What do you think should happen with single parents, though?

I am disabled with SEN kid and I work because I have to. I don’t want to be single. Or disabled. And really I wish DD had an easier time of it too. I’ve dragged her to the childminders in her pyjamas before with her school clothes in her bag and a huge apology and flowers for the CM at pickup. Because if I didn’t I’d lose my award and I’d be evicted. Regardless of my health issues or hers. It would be much harder if we were homeless!

If you believe the same rights should be extended to lone parents (as in, there’s a household of one working parent and one SAHP in your shoes, so us lone parents just pick which one to be) then that’s lovely and admirable and honest. But if it’s that there must be a working adult in all households- then surely there is no need for any SAHP in either?

Are you able to get PIP for yourself, DLA for your child and carers as then I think you would get UC with no requirement to work

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BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 29/04/2023 20:23

^My own personal views (and I am not a Tory) is that they have been very heavy (too heavy) on certain things but surprisingly lax on other things
I cant agree with consistent child maintenance not being counted towards income.^

The reason we don't do that is because we've tried counting maintenance as income for the benefits system, and it failed. RPs, mothers let's be honest, were often left with very little and it was a perfect tool for NRPs who wished to be controlling. It was a terrible policy. Bringing it back would be an abusers charter. At least 30 years ago they had the excuse of ignorance.

Things could of course be different if we had a child maintenance system with any teeth. In the absence of one, doing things differently would be unworkable.

Hoppinggreen · 29/04/2023 20:29

People physically able to work with no caring responsibilities should work or not be eligible for benefits.
If that includes both parents in a family then both should

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 20:31

Porkandbeans1 · 29/04/2023 16:01

Then get a different job. I had to work crappy min wage jobs so that we didn't have to pay out for childcare. I've work in a care home, fast food places, restaurants, been a cleaner and worked in a hospital. All around DHs hours.

I do exactly that and work in one of those places. Apparently not enough though...

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:34

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 20:18

Are you able to get PIP for yourself, DLA for your child and carers as then I think you would get UC with no requirement to work

I’m in receipt of the higher rate PIP, but assessed as capable of work by UC. I have am required to work 30 hours minimum (and let’s be honest there are no jobs offering 30 hours, it’s too many hours for part time but not quite full time. So I just work full time)
DD has adhd and dyslexia meaning she finds school gruelling and would benefit from more time at home but isn’t judged to need a carer/DLA.

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 20:37

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:00

Surely then you can see how if it’s that hard for two people, it must be harder for one (and therefore one salary, one person to cover all child related logistics, sick days, housework etc)

I do. My mother was a single parent of 7, 6 at home. I have every sympathy for them. Yet many of the single mums on here seem determined to push others like myself into work choices when we don't have any choice other in how often we work because they have it hard. I could put my youngest in nursery but likely find out that I haven't been given a shift (zero hours) on the day I should get one. Financially better just to work around my husband instead.

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 20:38

Swg · 29/04/2023 16:55

Uh, did you miss the massive issues there are currently with the government pay for "free" childcare not actually covering a lot of nurseries and childminders costs? And you don't get minimum wage as a childminder, you have to pay at the outset to set yourself up and buy toys and stuff.

Twice over the last few years locally we've had a nursery go under with about a week's notice. Both times with dozens of panicking parents calling everyone possible to look for spaces.

That happened to us a few years ago. Luckily I found another but not sure we would be so lucky now.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 20:39

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:34

I’m in receipt of the higher rate PIP, but assessed as capable of work by UC. I have am required to work 30 hours minimum (and let’s be honest there are no jobs offering 30 hours, it’s too many hours for part time but not quite full time. So I just work full time)
DD has adhd and dyslexia meaning she finds school gruelling and would benefit from more time at home but isn’t judged to need a carer/DLA.

High rate for daily living or mobility ?

I think you should appeal their decision as if you are getting high rate PIP particularly daily living then it’s worth asking for a reassessment as I know how high the threshold is for high PIP you have to be severely affected by your condition. I hope you can get that sorted out as it seems like an unfair decision on their part ?

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FloatingBean · 29/04/2023 20:46

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:34

I’m in receipt of the higher rate PIP, but assessed as capable of work by UC. I have am required to work 30 hours minimum (and let’s be honest there are no jobs offering 30 hours, it’s too many hours for part time but not quite full time. So I just work full time)
DD has adhd and dyslexia meaning she finds school gruelling and would benefit from more time at home but isn’t judged to need a carer/DLA.

Did you appeal the LCW/LCWRA and DLA refusals? If not you should request a mandatory reconsideration then appeal or if out of time reapply.

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 21:04

FloatingBean · 29/04/2023 20:46

Did you appeal the LCW/LCWRA and DLA refusals? If not you should request a mandatory reconsideration then appeal or if out of time reapply.

It’s not even worth it tbh.

I have the higher rate daily living and standard rate mobility component, and have been found fit to work by UC assessments. PIP is not indefinite even though it’s a lifelong condition that will not get any better, I still have PIP reassessments, next one is coming up in 2024. The last two assessments they’ve rejected it then reinstated it after the appeal, but it’s still months without the payments. So even if I were after the entire appeal process found to be not able
to work, it could just be taken away every 2 years, leaving me with no income until it’s reinstated. I’d have to be reassessed for both, would lose both amounts of money, and not have a job to tide things over until the potential backdated payment. It’s exhausting doing what I’m doing but that sounds worse in the long term.

70Sarah · 29/04/2023 21:06

That is a ridiculous comment, abuse and criminal activity is not exclusive to poor people, I think that is more down to morals.
if I had no money to feed my kids and there were no such things as food banks, would I steel from Tesco’s to feed them?
Too bloody right I would!
Would I beat my partner, would I become a pedophile? would I rob my neighbours? Would I steel from the little old lady getting her pension?
No that’s down to morals, please don’t patronise poor people and give abusers an excuse!

FloatingBean · 29/04/2023 21:09

Of course it is worth it, it could be a significant amount of extra money and many appeals are successful. PIP is separate to LCW/LCWRA and children’s DLA.

Citrusmuffin · 29/04/2023 21:18

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 21:04

It’s not even worth it tbh.

I have the higher rate daily living and standard rate mobility component, and have been found fit to work by UC assessments. PIP is not indefinite even though it’s a lifelong condition that will not get any better, I still have PIP reassessments, next one is coming up in 2024. The last two assessments they’ve rejected it then reinstated it after the appeal, but it’s still months without the payments. So even if I were after the entire appeal process found to be not able
to work, it could just be taken away every 2 years, leaving me with no income until it’s reinstated. I’d have to be reassessed for both, would lose both amounts of money, and not have a job to tide things over until the potential backdated payment. It’s exhausting doing what I’m doing but that sounds worse in the long term.

I have a close relative getting high rate for both PIP components . I know how hard it is to qualify. I really think you have been treated badly by UC assessors and I’m sorry you are having such a difficult time Flowers

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Porkandbeans1 · 29/04/2023 21:58

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 20:31

I do exactly that and work in one of those places. Apparently not enough though...

But someone up thread found the details and it's 29 hours combined between you and your DH/P. So if you aren't reaching those hours what is your DH/P doing?

HistoryFanatic · 29/04/2023 22:05

Porkandbeans1 · 29/04/2023 21:58

But someone up thread found the details and it's 29 hours combined between you and your DH/P. So if you aren't reaching those hours what is your DH/P doing?

I meant not enough for some on here. My husband's wages are over the AET for a couple at the minute.

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 22:32

Can someone tell me how the UC assessment works please? My ds18 is in special education until next year and he gets high rate daily living for PIP. I just assumed UC would see this entitlement (it's ongoing) and he'd be automatically exempt from looking for work?

Babyroobs · 29/04/2023 22:47

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 22:32

Can someone tell me how the UC assessment works please? My ds18 is in special education until next year and he gets high rate daily living for PIP. I just assumed UC would see this entitlement (it's ongoing) and he'd be automatically exempt from looking for work?

No he would need to be assessed for work capability as being in receipt of PIP does not automatically mean people can't do some kind of work. I mean if may do in your son's case but generally many disabled people qualify for PIP and continue to work.

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 22:51

@babyroobs what does the assessment entail? I can't believe we have more hoops to jump through 😭

Babyroobs · 29/04/2023 22:56

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 22:51

@babyroobs what does the assessment entail? I can't believe we have more hoops to jump through 😭

It's similar to a PIP one but assessing ability to work. It involves completing a form and then being assessed. If disability is severe I guess they may not need to do an assessment.

NewNovember · 29/04/2023 23:01

Chattycathydoll · 29/04/2023 20:34

I’m in receipt of the higher rate PIP, but assessed as capable of work by UC. I have am required to work 30 hours minimum (and let’s be honest there are no jobs offering 30 hours, it’s too many hours for part time but not quite full time. So I just work full time)
DD has adhd and dyslexia meaning she finds school gruelling and would benefit from more time at home but isn’t judged to need a carer/DLA.

That will change very soon as they are scrapping the UC work capability assessment and using pip instead.

Babyroobs · 29/04/2023 23:02

NewNovember · 29/04/2023 23:01

That will change very soon as they are scrapping the UC work capability assessment and using pip instead.

I think this is not due to happen until around 2027 !

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 23:03

@NewNovember so does that mean if you get PIP you won't have to do separate work assessment? From when will this start?

NewNovember · 29/04/2023 23:04

beefroysters · 29/04/2023 23:03

@NewNovember so does that mean if you get PIP you won't have to do separate work assessment? From when will this start?

Yes but as pp has said it's not until 2027 I did think it was 2024 for some reason.