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Things you haven't said out loud this week

72 replies

whatsnewpussycat34 · 22/04/2023 19:35

You're an arrogant, self absorbed tart who's air of superiority makes my blood boil. You have no soft skills and your team and the other managers hate you.

I don't see what value you bring to the company and to be quite honest, your dress sense is absolutely disgusting. With all that money you earn, I'd have thought you could at least dress well instead of looking like Britney Spears pre breakdown.

Your fake pretentiousness, and what you think is a cute giggle, makes my fucking toes curl and if I'd have met you in my younger days, I'd have smashed your head off a wall.

P.s no one cares about your sham marriage. It's embarrassing

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ffsgiveitarest · 22/04/2023 22:40

The person supporting you is a con artist. They are actively taking your money when there is no need, the reason they have said they will advocate for you and have told you that you can communicate with me via email is to stop me from having a conversation with you, as they know I would question their involvement and would advise it’s not needed.

they are not your advocate, if they were acting in your best interest they wouldn’t charge you for their support.

Loafbeginsat60 · 22/04/2023 22:42

powershowerforanhour · 22/04/2023 20:03

Yes, if you had brought him in yesterday when the problem started instead of looking at him deteriorate all night, there is a good chance that he would have lived.

I hope this is an animal and not a child - both are still awful though

thisisasurvivor · 22/04/2023 22:54

My dad died and you could not give a shit

I got through a court case after my ex tried to killl me and did you even text ?no course not

Know you want free fcking professional advice for your son?!!

Maybe you should not have gone back to your ex multiple times after we all tried to help
Poor boy is traumatised

Stop going back to a man who is abusing you and hitting the kids

For fcks sake !!!!

And stop asking for free advice
I paid loads to help you out already 👎👎👎👎

DyslexicPoster · 22/04/2023 22:58

Well I did say this today. You are are the most self centred arsehole I have ever met in my life. I hate you. Just fuck off.

They did and I got on the phone to the mental health crisis team. But it still stands. My husband is so selfish he is actually defective and is lacking basic elements that are required to be human. He is just walking and talking meat. Nothing more.

MadAndGlad · 22/04/2023 23:09

Fuck you and the lying bully bitch that you would rather believe, even after all the evidence.

Whydoievenbother · 22/04/2023 23:21

I want you to move out for a few months, we need a trial separation. I'm starting to hate you and can't see a future for us anymore I want this to work but I need some space and I need you to figure out if you can step up and be the husband and father you need to be. You keep saying you will but nothing changes and I'm losing hope. I think I would be happier without you because I don't know who I am anymore because I'm so unhappy most of the time

loopsaloo · 22/04/2023 23:31

Get out of my house. You're a thick, manipulative dickhead with no regard for anyone except yourself. You've risked everything for someone you've known for a month. He's the most awful, dodgy sketchiest person I've ever had the misfortune to encounter. Wake up and grow up, you absolute waste of breath

fourelementary · 22/04/2023 23:32

Thanks for not inviting me to join you for the birthday fun, you’re supposed to be my best friends.

I dislike your child, and your husband is a knob. Leave him.

I am leaving- I just can’t tell you yet!

No one is fooled by your fake lovey dovey posts- he is an abusive prick and you’re being a shit Mum staying with him and ruining your kids lives.

I’d have loved an incredible to the mums night out, I do a lot for you and your family and you don’t even consider me. I couldn’t have gone, but would have loved to have been asked.

Phew… I feel a bit better now. Still a bit friendless tbh though, maybe I need to work on my social skills a little.

Namechanger355 · 22/04/2023 23:39

Yes I do care that you hired a lateral into the team and are paying them 50% more but saying that’s normal for hires. Yes I do f*ckkng care that your strategy is to promote them first rather than me even though they are worse at the job

yes I do f*cking think you are taking my loyalty for granted

and I’m getting f*cking tired of pretending that I’m not bothered about the above

GoodChat · 23/04/2023 06:34

Mummapenguin20 · 22/04/2023 20:57

She was my mum of course after 6 weeks I’m not over her bloody death!

This is something you absolutely should say out loud. I'm so sorry Flowers

ilovewispas · 23/04/2023 13:51

I hate my job and have no idea how I keep doing it for another 20 years.

MeMyCatsAndMyBooks · 23/04/2023 14:04

I've picked the wrong SEN school, you're a bunch of uneducated morons.

Everything else I've said aloud, I don't have much of a filter. 😂

Mercy1968 · 23/04/2023 14:43

I think you should call Adult social services about your mother. Just because she is disabled doesn't give her the right to throw things at you and emotionally abuse you.

I think she has severe mental health issues and threatening to take an overdose every time you go to work or do something she disagrees with needs intervention. Next time you should call the police and report a concern for welfare.

You are only 35. You should have a life. You aren't incredibly fat ugly and stupid despite what she tells you. It wasn't your fault you got raped when you were younger.

This is my colleague and friend and I m powerless to help her as she won't ask anyone for help.

This week she has been in tears at work and I want to say all of the above.

Oh and it's not my fault my car broke down because I use it too much. Parts go and need replaced.

Laiste · 23/04/2023 14:52

Oh my god your mother talks SO much bollocks!

Trying not to say it right now ...

Iamclearlyamug · 23/04/2023 14:54

@Fgfgfg I'm howling 😅😅

"Being a cunt is not a protected characteristic"

Love this and going to use it as regularly as possible 😀

bringincrazyback · 23/04/2023 14:59

Stop treating me like a wailing wall.

Ivehadenuff · 23/04/2023 15:01

I am near my breaking point. We're married but little more than housemates. I am now disabled so can't do things like I could, so things don't get done. I can't stand for very long so only get half the washing up done. Do you put it away or do the rest - do you hell. I can do a little hoovering, but not the edges or skirting. Do you notice? No! So, I said I'd get a cleaner in. 'No' you said 'I'll do it' When? While I'm writing this you are upstairs doing something for one of your many hobbies. It is such a lonely existence. We only speak for at most an hour a day. I am waiting for death.

Fridaysgirl17 · 23/04/2023 15:10

Why the fuck do I care if you are sick & weak,I'm not your partner anymore tell her,right it's just another excuse in a long line as to not have the kids for your one night a week, last week it was our son's birthday & your excuse was it was too cold to be travelling, it's 15 minutes on the bus 😡, our son gets nothing of you for his birthday but your GFs kids& the kids you had with her,get parties in play centres,cakes, bouncy castles etc but our kids get zilch not even a card,it's obvious that the court order we have is just a piece of paper to you,you apparently fought for your rights 🙄 & asked for 1 night,refuse to pay anything yet everything is still my fault even though I do it alone,you are scum as is your GF who in all honesty did me a favour taking you off my hands as I now no longer need to be worried where you are,who you are doing & what trouble will come to the door next,waste of space dickhead
Ooooh that felt good 😊

MithrilCostsMore · 23/04/2023 15:44

You have two children and right now the eldest needs you to prioritise her. You are being a terrible mother.

stop pretending you are the good guy. You are an abusive arsehole who beats up his girlfriend. I detest having to be polite and professional to you. I want to punch that smug smile off your mouth every time I see you.

I wish you hadn't taken your new job. I miss you.

please do go kill yourself. You'd be doing the world a favour.

CrystalCoco · 23/04/2023 15:59

Don't minimise and dismiss my concerns and feelings, I'm actually overwhelmed at the moment (and I'm never overwhelmed) when the shoe is on the other foot I'm nothing but supportive (for your endless fucking woes)

for the love of god.shut.the.fuck.up for once in your fucking life!

Christ you're a right negative fucking Nancy with a smacked arse face

(I don't swear much IRL so the above feels very cathartic)

DontMakeMeSayItTwice · 23/04/2023 16:02

For Christ's sake, stop trying to speak "nicely". You aren't a Londoner, we don't say "barth", we say "bath". You silly cow. People are sick of your bragging. Nobody cares where you went for dinner, what holiday you've booked, or how much your shoes cost. You live on the tattiest street in the area, and you're Chavvy. Give it a rest and be normal

60smusic · 23/04/2023 16:10

Yes I did and do care that both your parents have died. I didn't know you when your Dad died, when your mother died I contacted you daily for 6 months from short messages, phone calls or visits. To tell me that I wasn't there for you is disgusting. Both my parents died recently and nothing from you, but I wouldn't go spouting shit at you.

Jollysexrennovator · 23/04/2023 16:22

I'd really like to fuck you, or kiss you, or maybe even just hold your hand. As a sober person I have no idea how to flirt, how to navigate this. I love talking to you too. When we were touching over your phone the other day it was unbearable.

TeenLifeMum · 23/04/2023 16:30

Yes, work is really stressful right now as all the junior staff have quit and the one we had left went on maternity leave and, despite having 8 months’ notice you have done nothing and somehow seem to think the team can cope. You are now paying me as a senior manager to do the juniors’ job and can’t understand why I’m pissed off. The reason they all left is the bullying culture in the team that you deny exists because you lead through fear and pitch everyone against each other. This isn’t normal in a grown up workplace!

NillyNoMates · 23/04/2023 16:36

I feel so sad that we can’t give our son a holiday this year. We had booked a week in a caravan at the coast but are canceling it as we cannot afford it. I don’t want to be seen as moaning to anyone about it so I have kept it to myself.