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No respect for teachers or nursery staff

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Lostmummy5 · 30/03/2023 21:43

I can't understand why people just being rude and have zero bloody respect for teachers and nursery staff?
First, we live in quite deprived area in London (lots of families with problems, lots of single parents, problems at nursery /school, etc).
My son goes to school nursery and staff is AMAZING - caring, very friendly, very professional. My son is super sensitive and he comes home super happy after nursery. He learned a lot, he is talking every day about funny activities, about nice teachers, etc.
I'm feeling very grateful and always want to say "thank you" before holidays.
I tried to organise something at December. I understand that it's hard time financially, so my husband got some free boxes of chocolates from his workplace and I suggested to gift them for nursery teachers on parents what's up group. I just asked them to sign a card. They all started to moan that it's their job and we shouldn't feel we need to gift them something (I clearly said that we got these chocolates for free and I don't need any money from other parents).
This week I tried to do something similar. Got some free chocolates again and suggested for parents to sign a card. The same story. So I simply gifted these chocolates for nursery staff today.
I was shocked by some of the comments - "they didn't deserve", "why you give them chocolates if they are always striking", etc.
What's wrong with that? Am I really an idiot thinking that people who spend all day with our kids, teach and support them, deserved at least "thank you" and chocolate?

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PeggyPiglet · 29/08/2023 08:50

I think the OP was simply making the point it's a deprived area. If you're a single parent, then you're more vulnerable to financial hardship, etc, and therefore might find it more difficult to afford presents etc.

Many of you are reading a bit too much into that comment. Stop being so quick to take offense.

PeggyPiglet · 29/08/2023 08:57

Dreamer20 · 30/03/2023 22:00

I’ve lost a lot of respect for teachers because most teachers I know just moan about their jobs non stop. It’s like, if you don’t like it then get a job elsewhere if you think you can and the grass is really greener.

What I think would actually happen is that for a lot of them, they’d get eaten up for breakfast in the private sector and not know what to do with minimal holiday allowance, lack of job security and the expectation of regular unpaid overtime.

You see I'm part of a big online group of teachers who have left the job for the private sector and they all report an improved quality of life.

Job security isn't as good as it was, and regular unpaid overtime? Teachers are very used to that.

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