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Parents do £70k of unpaid work in the home

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1Wanda1 · 24/03/2023 06:15

From an article in The Times today (have pasted a few bits as most people won't be able to read the article if I link it. This might be of interest to the many MNers whose partners seem to think they sit around doing nothing all day!

A separate study found British parents undertake £70,768 of unpaid work a year around the house and running around for the children.

It found that the average parent spends more than 100 hours a week juggling household tasks, from cooking and cleaning to ferrying children around and helping with their homework.

Parents were spending 29 hours a week cooking, preparing and serving food and drinks, ten hours playing with the children, the same amount of time driving on the school run, to activities, clubs and playdates, and nine hours giving advice.

OP posts:
medianewbie · 25/03/2023 18:16

@ZeldaWillTellYourFortune
I was agreeing with the OP that the unpaid work within a family (which still largely falls on women whether they work outside the house as well or not) is not valued by society. A monetary value is one way of looking at it.
I was also posting (similarly) about Carers Allowance. I think those in receipt of that are (also) allowed to say whatever they wish.

MrsMikeDrop · 26/03/2023 06:39

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/03/2023 10:24

The article refers to "parents" rather than "women" specifically. I think the real discussion to be had is why, in so many families, these tasks are still predominantly regarded as "women's work".

Excellent point

Whatifthegrassisblue · 26/03/2023 06:41

Goldbar · 24/03/2023 12:15

It's because people don't see unpaid labour of this sort as actual work that men not pulling their weight at home and with caring for children is not recognised widely enough as economic exploitation of women.

Hurrah!! Someone who gets it! 🙌 Not sure why this has gone over so many other posters heads!! 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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PinkSyCo · 26/03/2023 06:54

Still have plenty of time to post on Mumsnet thought don’t we? 🤣

rwalker · 26/03/2023 07:10

Next they’ll be saying it’s work looking after and doing anything for yourself

Simonjt · 26/03/2023 07:14

1Wanda1 · 24/03/2023 06:24

Why do you think that's my conclusion? I didn't say SAHPs. I work myself in a demanding job (senior lawyer) and also easily do 100 hours of cooking, washing, ferrying children around, etc. per week.

So you don’t sleep then? Seeing as 100hours is essentially four days, or you sleep for a maximum of 4.5 hours per night.

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