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A book that has stayed with you for a long time

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Peckhaminn · 19/03/2023 20:54

Really looking for a book that is so utterly fantastic that it's stayed with you for a long time and you could re-read it over and over again. Any suggestions are welcome.

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girlfrombackthen · 19/03/2023 22:32

And 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami!

Jijithecat · 19/03/2023 22:32

Small Island by Andrea Levy is the book that got me back into reading properly again.
I've loved The Hand That First Held Mine by Maggie O'Farrell and can echo the enthusiasm for The Hearts Invisible Furies.
I've just finished Still Life by Sarah Winman. I'm still thinking about it now, but the writing style did take a little getting used to.

TheLostNights · 19/03/2023 22:33

The kite runner

MrsRobinStrike · 19/03/2023 22:34

MistyIsle · 19/03/2023 22:18

A Piece of Cake by Cupcake Brown! One incredibly amazing woman!

Yes! What an incredible person she is!

Papershade5 · 19/03/2023 22:36

A Fine Balance, that was a book that stays with you,
The Inheritance of Loss

Stigsmother · 19/03/2023 22:36

Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro

Wren77 · 19/03/2023 22:36

The Hand that First Held Mine - not sure who it's by but it's possibly the best book I've ever read

Jijithecat · 19/03/2023 22:37

Also The Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman. I'm not sure I enjoyed it as much as am vaguely terrified by it! I found the writing very vivid.

CatNamedEaster · 19/03/2023 22:37

@RichardsGear hope you enjoy it!

I agree with you about We Need To Talk About Kevin. I've read it three times now and each time I was left with a completely different opinion, influenced by things going on in my life at the time. I don't think there's another book that has made me disagree with my previous opinion of the characters. 😆

I also agree with the pp who talked about the lasting impact of a book being related to the person you were/your life when you first read it. My no 1 book, read probably 8 times, is The Outsiders. I read it when i was a teenager and couldn't believe someone a year older than me had written it. It's very dated but I still love it and I STILL cry buckets during the church/hospital scene!

Ecdysiast · 19/03/2023 22:37

The Confessions of Nat Turner by William Styron
Go Tell It on the Mountain by James Baldwin

JoonT · 19/03/2023 22:37

Pride and Prejudice. Above all for the incredible vividness of the characters. Lizzie seems so real. I can still see her beautiful, brave, laughing face. Think I've been in love with her all my life.

Tom Jones. Fielding wrote this in the 1740s, in a very different world, yet the morality is so modern. Tom is like some square-jawed American hero from a 1950s Western. I love Tom as much as Lizzie. It actually makes me happy that this novel exists, and that it was written when it was. Even in a world of public hangings and savage cruelty, you still get men like Fielding. Weirdly, that cheers me up.

David Copperfield. The only novel that makes me cry. The whole range of human life and experience is there, and there is no better example of Dickens' glorious imagination.

Goodbye to all That. I hate the word 'inspiring', but this really is an inspiring book. The courage and nobility of the WW1 generation is astonishing. A masterpiece.

The Picture of Dorian Gray. The dialogue mesmerized me. To this day I long to speak like that.

To the Lighthouse. I grew up in suburban Essex and went to a crappy comprehensive, so the world of Wilde's Oxford aesthetes and Woolf's Bloomsbury intellectuals was an escape.

Right Ho Jeeves. I read the dialogue out loud all the time (I do a pretty good Bertie and an feckin awesome Jeeves). The sparkling beauty of the language held me like a spell, and still does.

The Wasteland. Eliot is hellishly difficult, but I have never read anything so beautiful.

Philip Larkin's Poetry. Even more depressing than Thomas Hardy...but SO beautiful.

Stigsmother · 19/03/2023 22:38

Also: The Secret History by Donna Tartt

Flipflops123 · 19/03/2023 22:38

Of mice and men

Elinor Oliphant

The tiger that came to tea

Polkapjs · 19/03/2023 22:39

cornflakegeneration · 19/03/2023 22:25

You Had Me At Hello by Mhairi MacFarlane

Totally not my usual genre of book and not sure why I read it (possibly recommended on here), but it stayed with me for ages afterwards. I think I fell a bit in love with the male character in the book and that has never happened before or after reading this novel!

Ooh I read this recently and adored it. My era and could totally identify with it

Clarabe1 · 19/03/2023 22:40

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 19/03/2023 22:14

The Unit by Ninni Holmqvist.

I agree! It’s a very powerful book

redbigbananafeet · 19/03/2023 22:40

The Island and many Jodi Picoult books

Philandbill · 19/03/2023 22:41

So many excellent books already mentioned. I'm adding "A Song for Issy Bradley" by Carys Bray, partly because it is less well known and utterly wonderful.

maisiedaisy64 · 19/03/2023 22:42

@Jijithecat came on to say Still Life too! I was bereft when I finished it. Need to go and read it again.

@CatNamedEaster Harry August infuriated me a touch. Fascinating though!

Songbirds by Christi Lefteri stayed with me for quite some time. Rather graphic in places.

An Invisible Bridge by Julie Orringer. A side of WW2 I’d never read about.

Looking for Alaska by John Greene. You have to forgive in order to survive, a key message from it that really helped me at the time that I read it.

Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld, read as a teenager, so relatable at the time but the main character needed a good kick!

The Nightingale as mentioned above is all fab.

Great idea for a thread!!

DojaPhat · 19/03/2023 22:43

I love that I've read some of these books! I often don't think I'm well read.

maisiedaisy64 · 19/03/2023 22:44

Oh and The Idea of You by Robinne Lee. Wasn’t expecting the book hangover that came with that.

Gherkingreen · 19/03/2023 22:44

Place marking. I'm going to stick a pin in the chat at random and download a sample of the book I land on 😀. So many books I've never heard of.
Mine would be The Handmaid's Tale which I first read in the early 90s as a 16/17 yo.

RhubarbLeaf · 19/03/2023 22:46

Another vote for A Fine Balance. Unforgettable.

The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver

The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy. Unbearable, but phenomenal. I couldn't reread it though.

Clarabe1 · 19/03/2023 22:49

Strangers by Taichi Yamada. A heartbreaking ghost story.
Never let me go - Kazeo Ishiguro -

Hrf1503 · 19/03/2023 22:50

A Fine Balance - harrowing but gripping.
the Underground Girls of Kabul - non-fiction, I’m not usually a non fiction fan but this was fascinating
All The Light We Could Not See
Do No Harm

Harry Potter x7

Bichette · 19/03/2023 22:50

We need to talk about Kevin
The book is a million times better than the film.
But I could never read it again, too traumatic.