I’m a lesbian and currently pregnant via IUI which my partner and I fully funded with a private clinic 5 hrs away! We have even paid for reservation samples for future treatment which we will also pay ourselves for.. I think the fertility treatment thing is a whole issue in itself because the NHS itself doesn’t just say they WILL or WILL NOT fund same sex fertility treatment… its a pick and choose and some PCPs WILL fund it while others wont! It’s like postcode lottery and I don’t think it should be selective like that.. It either should say it allows it or it doesn’t and that’s for all.. (and I’m not saying that as I was denied myself as I never even asked about it for myself but follow a lot of same sex TTC YouTubers that talk about this it being doing to your area if it’s funded or not).
I have had a few Chronic health conditions since I was a child and spend most of my teens admitted to hospital so can say as someone that has used the NHS often in the past.. I don’t think they should pay for a lot of things! I don’t really agree with our NHS simply because there are treatments that can put one of my conditions into remission however the NHS has deemed it too expensive for them to pay for so I will have to stay stick! I asked if I can pay for it myself and they said the system doesn’t work like that and I would have to go to my local MP to basically fight the case there!
It leaves no other choice but to go private and pay for that consultation and then see if they will allow me to get that medication and then pay for it then but if they are highly specialised medications it can be hard to source!
Meanwhile during this pregnancy I have been sick, tried to go to my pharmacy to buy whatever I felt I needed and they refused every time telling me I must get it prescribed by my GP! I have had arguments about putting the cost on the NHS for no reason when I can fund it myself all because they won’t just let me buy it and they claim it’s because of “liability”! Low and behold the GP prescribed the same thing I was trying to buy! Last time I decided not to even go to the GP and just ordered it on Amazon as whats the point! Just to later claim the NHS is struggling financially!
I have had treatments that would be cheaper done at home than in hospital but refused home healthcare for no reason really costing the NHS more when I said I’d rather not go hospital, take up an appt, hospital bed or similar someone else can use!
Now I only mention personal things that could have been self funded but the NHS refused.. I refuse to be admitted when I’m sick now (which is a potentially life threatening illness) so my it’s costs the NHS £0 now! And I just battle and suffer it out! However I have heard of so many treatments I don’t think should be find should be done.
I think for some treatments there should be a lead up before approval. Weight loss being one.. many will say they have tried EVERYTHING to loose weight, diets, gym.. you name it they done it.. But no proof! You use to be able to get free gym passes over a certain bmi (not anymore). If that was in place again it should record activity done to report back. Diets recorded with regular weigh in and goals to reach in time limits and similar to back their claims (I personally know a few people to go through this process and besides being asked what they tried in the past, sometimes they are not even made to loose the recommended weight before surgery and when they put weight back on after, they are still eligible to go again!
I feel more they should be stricter about the protocols leading UP TO approval of certain surgeries instead of it either being funded or not.
Due to my own experience I don’t even think the NHS should be a thing… It does work as it currently is and should it be kept, it needs a radical change! The system is seriously flawed all over!