Dear Jeremy.
I would absolutely love to go back to work. I have a niche skillset which is very much in demand at the moment. Instead I'm sat at home youtubing various bread making recipes while simultaneously doing battle with the LA.
I'll need FT, reliable childcare for my child with complex needs first of all. So that'll be a minimum of 2 people with the skills to manage severely challenging behaviour. And all the things that go alongside that. FWIW, people who have those skills generally do private nannying work at around £20 an hour.
Secondly, you'll also need to find an employer that's totally OK about employing a disabled person. Just to warn you I am also completely unreliable. Years of caring for my child with bog all support has left me disabled. I have spinal issues, my joints have had it, I live with chronic pain, I have PTSD from the total lack of care my child has received, lying down and resting is an essential part of my day thanks to said dodgy joints and spine and there is lots more besides. If I am having a good day I walk with crutches. If I am having a bad day I use an electric wheelchair- that I had to fund myself by the way. If that isn't enough, when, not if one of my child's carers is off work I will be needed to care for my child.
Here's a novel idea. Why not sort out the complete shitshow that's the lack of education and childcare for disabled children/young people instead. I'm not the only parent I know who can't (not won't, important difference there) work because of the total lack of any sort of support for their complex needs children.
In the meantime, fancy a freshly baked baguette? I make a mean baguette it has to be said and I have a fresh batch ready to come out of the oven.