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Boasty thread because I'm so proud of myself

43 replies

CleremyJarkeson · 12/03/2023 13:50

Almost 2 years ago to the day I was posting on MN (name change) regarding my H walking out and leaving me with 18mo DD. I was devastated, didn't have a pot to piss in, working part time with no childcare (MIL for the 3 days I worked), away from all my family and absolutely at rock bottom. I had no idea how I would survive. I was driving around in a 21 year old car on 205k that wasn't even worth scrap value. I borrowed money from my parents to buy an old BMW, which I loved and has treated me well, but again, was worthless - relevant to my boast.

Now I work full time, my DD is almost 3.5yo, in a wonderful childcare setting, I've had a promotion and a pay rise, paid off nearly all of my debt and today, I bought myself a Jaguar. I've saved and saved and I've just bought myself a Jaguar. It's used, but it's absolutely stunning and so luxurious. I've saved so hard, built a great life for me and DD with financial security thanks to my promotion, and I've just bought myself a Jaguar.

So this is a boast post, but I'm so proud that I've got myself out of the awful situation I was in, built a life for me and DD and can now swan about in my new car, then come home to my lovely (rented albeit) house with my amazing little girl.

I'm so grateful. And I know how privileged I am, I really do, but sometimes it's nice to be proud of your own achievements and this is what I am. Who said 27 and divorced was a bad thing?! Wink

OP posts:
bringincrazyback · 12/03/2023 13:51

Well done! 🙂

Shivermytimber · 12/03/2023 13:52

This is such a lovely post. Boast away, you’ve done incredibly well against the odds, well done.

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 12/03/2023 13:53

Quite right to be bloody proud of yourself . Well done!

Jammallama · 12/03/2023 13:53

Bloody brilliant and I hope a message to those out there terrified to move on because they feel trapped. Don't let anyone bring you down on this thread - I'm coming out the other side of shit too and stories like this affirm that it's worth it. I hope you put Miley Cyrus - Flowers on the stereo and blast it out StarStar

NotRightNowNo · 12/03/2023 13:54

Enjoy your Jaguar! And your peace of mind. We'll done OP 👏

CleremyJarkeson · 12/03/2023 13:58

Thank you all so much! I almost didn't post thinking it would come across really distasteful given the current climate but I've worked so hard and I just hope it encourages others in a similar situation to go ahead and move on, because better days are coming!

OP posts:
ChocolateTea · 12/03/2023 14:00

Ah congratulations! I was a walked out on mum at 27 too, but 13 years on I own my own house, have an incredible job I retrained for, just had a promotion, and am so happy it’s unreal. I remember posting here in despair too. It’s great to see a fellow survivor! Congratulations to you!

Natty13 · 12/03/2023 14:06

I love this. Well done from this stranger in the internet - you should be bloody proud of yourself.

I also LOVE that you have a daughter, you'll be a great role model for her ❤️

WaxingGibbon · 12/03/2023 14:12

This is so lovely to read! Well done you. So glad you're enjoying your new life and your jaguar

InterestQ · 12/03/2023 14:15

Fabulous! Love this!

TheHouseNextDoor · 12/03/2023 14:21

Amazing well done OP and enjoy your new car.

Rosesarere · 12/03/2023 14:24

Well done, great post to read..I'm glad that everything has worked out for you x

cocksstrideintheevening · 12/03/2023 14:31

Good on you op!!

Soproudoflionesses · 12/03/2023 14:33

YES OP!!!!
I love to see posts like this .....you go girl!!!!

TheClash2023 · 12/03/2023 14:34

Brilliant! Enjoy your jag! How excellent

BitOutOfPractice · 12/03/2023 14:34

Bloody marvellous! You should be proud! I’m proud of you and I dont even know you! 😆

SmartHome · 12/03/2023 14:35

Well done OP you should be boasting and very proud of yourself!

catlovingdoctor · 12/03/2023 14:36

Amazing!!! Boast away, you deserve it! Enjoy your Jaguar!

Londontoderby · 12/03/2023 14:36

Good on you! It’s not easy starting again from the ground up but not only are you doing it, you’re doing it well!

Carry on, be happy and enjoy the jag!

whatisforteamum · 12/03/2023 14:40

Well done for all the progress you made.

ChimChimeny · 12/03/2023 14:40

My dad has a jag, it PARKS ITSELF! if you're does too I'm soooo jealous 😆

Congratulations, you've done an amazing job of sorting yourself out & you set an outstanding example for your daughter

Snoopystick · 12/03/2023 14:41

Ahh lovely! Well done 🙂

SallySunrise · 12/03/2023 14:47

You should be proud of yourself! Lovely post, it's brought a smile to my grumpy face x

BellePeppa · 12/03/2023 15:03

Well done 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 you’ve every right to feel proud of yourself.

Wineat5isfine · 12/03/2023 15:11

Congratulations!! You should feel very proud of yourself 💐