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Things I haven’t said out loud this week

686 replies

YorkieTheRabbit · 27/01/2023 18:21

1 - No, we haven’t asked you to come over for a meal in ages, no, I don’t care how many hints you drop, it’s falling on deaf ears.
I don’t expect you to help prepare or cook when you’re here BUT I do expect you to supervise your kids, not plonk down on the sofa and completely ignore them. Accidents may happen but if you actually looked after them instead of scrolling through your phones, we wouldn’t have had a house plant tipped over the carpet, used toilet roll and wee on the toilet floor, orange juice poured in the dogs bowl plus numerous others. Oh and by the way, we’ve never been invited over to your house in the eight years you’ve lived there!

2 - Im sorry your daughter would rather spend time with her gran but for god’s sake be honest, you spent the first ten years of her life bouncing from one disastrous relationship to another because you were desperate for a bloke. You put them in front of her needs. Her gran might not be perfect but at least she was there for her.

OP posts:
Gilead · 04/04/2023 22:28

You are bloody selfish sometimes. I couldn’t do what you wanted me to do because I didn’t have a fucking car. You had it. The money was to pay so that I can continue getting my place back to normal, after you completely and utterly trashed it. But this is all about you, isn’t it. I ruin your life asking for things once a week. I shan’t ask again and I’ve organised other stuff for tomorrow. I am hurt. No I don’t want you to pay me back. As a carer you’re absolutely amazing and for that I thank you, I couldn’t have done the stuff that needed doing half as well. Other than that, you lie, you’re unfair and you throw things back in peoples faces. I can’t cope with that again. I love you so much but there are times when whilst still loving you, I dislike you intensely.

evtheria · 07/04/2023 21:44

Did you know that's considered a criminal offense?

ValleyClouds · 07/04/2023 22:47

It bothers me so much that the smallest reminder of you still leaves me feeling lost, cheated and angry over the way you found me so easy to dispose of

SpaghettifingerFusillitoe · 07/04/2023 23:00

You’re the most astoundingly selfish woman I’ve ever had the misfortune to deal with.

I'm not being ‘nice about it’. I’ve got literally no other option. For actual fucks’ sake just get out of my life.

PoseyFlump · 08/04/2023 06:19

Your 'team' is like a fucked up dysfunctional family and you are enabling them. You need to put your big girl pants on and transfer the shit stirrers to another department, if you daren't sack them. God knows you've got enough evidence to get rid of the rot.

BlueKaftan · 08/04/2023 06:27

You let my cat go hungry because you couldn’t be bothered to remember to feed her, and then you tried to act like you did. Looking back over the past year you have been disengaging from our friendship but you’ve done it so slowly. Let me hurry things up and say Goodbye forever.

Beanfield2023 · 08/04/2023 10:49

BlueKaftan · 08/04/2023 06:27

You let my cat go hungry because you couldn’t be bothered to remember to feed her, and then you tried to act like you did. Looking back over the past year you have been disengaging from our friendship but you’ve done it so slowly. Let me hurry things up and say Goodbye forever.

Horrible nasty bitch . Get shot now and I hope your cat scratches her on the way out

PoseyFlump · 08/04/2023 11:02

My thoughts exactly @Beanfield2023

MissingMoominMamma · 08/04/2023 12:25

I want you all to know that it’s not over for me. I’ve seen things this week that I can’t forget, so I can’t just get back to normal.

lonelyinyournightmare · 22/04/2023 09:05

I keep saying sorry - not because I am in the wrong, but because I know it's what you want to hear. I can see that you are going to keep blaming me when the reason I am making silly mistakes is because you set up a system that is so overcomplicated only you can navigate through it.

The reason you are being so picky with me is because the others keep complimenting me on how well I get on with their tasks. That is what happens when you keep refusing to the work you are paid to do. It's not my fault that they appreciate someone who will happily do the work.

Just remember I can can walk out of here at the drop of a hat. You can't. And then you really will have to do some actual work.

Tashface · 22/04/2023 09:08

Ian, you are a cunt.

lonelyinyournightmare · 22/04/2023 09:12

Also, just to add, I don't know how you got that job in the first place. You have no empathy with the patients and telling an 80 year old man just to quit smoking when it is one of his last few pleasures in life was beyond cruel...

JustDanceAddict · 22/04/2023 09:15

You’re a good manager and we get on well but I’ve just corrected two obvious mistakes you made and you’d def be telling me about them if it was me who made them!!

To doctor - idk why you want to test for this as I’m sure it was done already plus I don’t really want to come off the meds for it. Why didn’t you read the notes from the last consultation w the locum (who actually listened to me)?

i can’t believe you told your friends all of that, sometimes you have to realise you can’t say certain things for how it’ll be perceived.

MrsHamlet · 22/04/2023 09:20

Boss, I know you're lying to me. You know I know you're lying to me. What we both have to work out is whether I despise you enough to do something about it.

Yutes · 22/04/2023 11:59

If you want to know about our baby loss, just ASK. Stop being like “and how are you?” It’s disingenuous.
and then don’t go on to ask me if I’m friendly with the many people in our workplace that are off on Mat leave with their lovely healthy babies. This is hurtful to me and it’s an awkward conversation I’d really rather not have. If you ask me again I will call you out on everything. All I’m asking for with our baby losses is a bit of sensitivity and understanding but I rarely get any of that these days because no one remembers.

SaveMeFromForearms · 22/04/2023 14:57

I think I'll be in love with you my whole life.

overthinkersanonnymus · 22/04/2023 18:36

David Bowie can't sing

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overthinkersanonnymus · 22/04/2023 18:55

Also stop pleading poverty and moaning you're not entitled to benefits whilst driving your brand new car, live in your unencumbered house, with 3 holidays already this year !!!

You're children are needy, immature and exhausting

thebestbirtheraccordingtoDD · 22/04/2023 19:27

Leave. Do the right thing for you and DC this is not your problem or responsibility. Stop lying to yourself and your friends.

Beanfield2023 · 25/04/2023 14:40

Fuck off trying to get me to do jobs that are not mine to do . You lazy bastard . No means no . I'm not doing them .

MissingMoominMamma · 25/04/2023 18:51

He’s a lecherous nob who will bleed you dry, and why the fuck are you getting involved with his arguments with his ex- it’s nothing to do with you. You are worth so much more than this self obsessed twat.

MissingMoominMamma · 25/04/2023 18:52

overthinkersanonnymus · 22/04/2023 18:36

David Bowie can't sing

I

Well obviously- he’s dead.

whatausername · 25/04/2023 19:33

"You're so fucking stupid and obtuse that I'm glad I've only had to encounter you on the internet and not in real life."

Toooldtoworry · 25/04/2023 20:34

Just fucking quit. I am bored of your constant moaning.

MrsHamlet · 25/04/2023 21:03

You can't do it. You knew you couldn't. Now I have to pick up the pieces again. Knob.

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