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Do you prefer driving an automatic or a manual?

177 replies

Kualma · 05/01/2023 09:05

I recently changed cars and now drive an automatic. Wish I got one years ago - so easy to drive! What do other people prefer and why?

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WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 05/01/2023 10:06

How do you use both feet in an auto?!

Just for a second or two. Left foot on the brake, right foot on the accelerator, remove left foot as soon as accelerator kicks in.

Only for very rare occasions where you simply don't have a couple of seconds to wait for the accelerator to engage, otherwise you'll crash into a wall!! In an auto, you can only tell the car to stop OR go as you obviously don't have the option of balancing on the clutch.

AnyRandomName · 05/01/2023 10:06

Auto for me.

No way do I change gear more efficiently than a cleverly designed auto gearbox would.

I do logs of rush hour stop start driving, when I did it in a manual I had a sore knee from all the clutch control 😂

xogossipgirlxo · 05/01/2023 10:07

Bubbinsmakesthree · 05/01/2023 09:39

You’ve just described all the things which are way easier in an automatic!

Exactly. Or did I misunderstand? It's always manual cars wheezing on parallel parking etc. Automatic go like thunder.

Snoopystick · 05/01/2023 10:09

Lonelycrab · 05/01/2023 09:57

I’ve had both. Prefer manual. I’m in a Honda with vtec which is more fun towards the top of its revs, so that might have something to do with my preference. Plus the gearbox is absolutely lovely.

Love a Honda, I’ve got a ford atm but going to go back to a Honda as they are fun to drive.

GuinnessLover · 05/01/2023 10:10

Lonelycrab · 05/01/2023 10:03

I guess the ‘no control’ thing is to do with engine braking, you don’t really get that in an auto, do you?

Engine breaking in my auto is better than the manual I drive at work. It's obviously computer simulated to match a manual car but it definitely works. Maybe not so much in older models.

Deadringer · 05/01/2023 10:11

Automatic 100%. My first automatic was a triptronic so i had the option to use gears, i never bothered. Who could be arsed messing around with gears every time you round a corner, slow down, or speed up, what a faff.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/01/2023 10:11

In the past I have often swapped between the two without even thinking about it.
An automatic is certainly more relaxing in heavy traffic, but otherwise I’m honestly not bothered.

Dh much prefers an automatic, but that doesn’t stop him using my manual rather more than I do, for short journeys. (I will usually get the (free) bus.)

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 05/01/2023 10:12

Automatic. Much nicer.

I don't understand those saying they like the control of manual cars. Automatics have gears that you can flick over to. I live very rurally and drive an automatic car. There are steep hills and I push the stick over and use the gears to control descent - I don't need to for up hill driving, the car drops down gears beautifully. I just use the gears going downhill so I don't need to use the brake.

I drive along fast country lanes every time i use my car and never feel as though a auto box is less able than a manual.

I accept that auto boxes were crap in the past, but no longer. I won't ever go back to manual.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 05/01/2023 10:15

Automatic. I'd never go back to manual now. The future is all automatic in any case.

Peach2021 · 05/01/2023 10:23

This thread is really timely as I'm just about to buy a new (secondhand) car. I had thought it would be a manual because I live somewhere with dreadful winter weather, so felt I would need the option of using the gears if I can't use the brakes much on icy and sometimes hilly roads.

But I've not driven an automatic for years, so maybe they're just as good in that situation?

SweetPetrichor · 05/01/2023 10:24

Manual. I like the ability to control my use of gears to suit the scenario. Icy roads…use the gears to slow and don’t touch the brakes, etc.

User963 · 05/01/2023 10:24

Lonelycrab · 05/01/2023 10:03

I guess the ‘no control’ thing is to do with engine braking, you don’t really get that in an auto, do you?

My hybrid auto has engine braking so maybe that is why I still feel in control. You can also put it into engine braking mode if going down a steep hill.

schnubbins · 05/01/2023 10:24

Volkswagen are ceasing production of manual drive cars from this year 2023 Audi as far as I know also.

I much prefer automatic though i still drive manual on occasion.

pilates · 05/01/2023 10:27

Automatic I would never go back to manual

Kualma · 05/01/2023 10:27

Amrapaali · 05/01/2023 09:34

Following on from this discussion, would you prefer if your child learns driving on an automatic? My daughter is at that age where she can start driving lessons and wants to do them on an automatic. Her reasoning is the future is filled with electric cars which are almost always automatic. So why would she want to learn manual?

I confess I see the logic in this but don't know what to advise her. I have been driving an automatic for more than 15 years. I started learning to drive when DD was a baby and wanted to pass my driving test quickly so I didnt have to depend on others to give me lifts. I've never regretted not having a manual licence.

While I love my automatic, I am really grateful for the experience being able to learn to drive in a manual. My car was cheaper in a manual and I was very budget conscience when I first passed my test! I would personally learn to drive in a manual but it doesn’t matter

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itwasboundtohappen · 05/01/2023 10:27

Peach2021
as my post back up thread says, I personally didn't find the new automatic gear box as good as a manual under icy country road conditions.

I have no problem with automatics otherwise.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 05/01/2023 10:29

Ten years ago or more, I would have urged anybody to learn to drive in a manual, unless they really couldn't manage it owing to disability, extreme anxiety or whatever - as it just opens up so many more options to you.

Imagine being in a situation - borrowing a friend's car, courtesy car, hiring a van etc. - where you're there with a driving licence and a vehicle available to drive, but because you never learned the tiny fraction of driving that is clutch control and changing gears, you're in no better position than if you'd never learned to drive in the first place.

However, now, I don't think I'd be so hardline about it. My DS is 10 and, by the time he starts learning to drive, the vast majority of cars will be electric and thus auto. Indeed, it will only be a matter of time before driverless cars are a common option, maybe the norm; in fact, we may get to a stage where it's actually made illegal to drive a vehicle yourself. Think about various items of machinery now that come with in-built safety features, and you're banned from/strongly advised never to use them without those safety features. I can see a time when allowing a fallible 'meat bag' to override the automatic 'safe driverless mode' by wanting any control of a vehicle is considered gross misconduct - and maybe even opening you up to prosecution!

User963 · 05/01/2023 10:32

The only reason I would tell my child to learn to drive a manual would be because cheap first cars might be manual. Even so, it will be at least 6 years before they might own a car and probably more than that so there might be plenty of cheapish old electric cars around by then

User963 · 05/01/2023 10:32

But then they might end up living in a first home/ rental where electric car isn't that practical due to lack of charging so they might prefer a manual petrol car.

ItsMeHiImTheProblem · 05/01/2023 10:37

Definitely automatic. I have no problems with it, maybe on a very steep hill where it struggles to find the right gear briefly, but I could use the set gears for that if I could be bothered to work out how 🤷‍♀️ I have no problems on hill starts, parallel parking or windy roads as PP stated. I have knee problems, so not having to use the clutch means I can keep driving.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 05/01/2023 10:39

But then they might end up living in a first home/ rental where electric car isn't that practical due to lack of charging so they might prefer a manual petrol car.

Before long, petrol/diesel will be made as impractical as possible too, I have no doubt. Just like with cigarettes, they probably won't ever be banned as such, but there will be such restrictions on where you can use them (London ULEZ will be electric vehicles only before too long, then other city centres too) and the tax on fuel will be so astronomical that people won't be able to afford them for their everyday driving needs.

When it comes to government, trying to persuade people to move from option A to option B is usually a two-pronged approach: don't just work on selling the (mixed) benefits of B, but deliberately make A as unattractive and impractical as possible to tip the balance more in favour of the 'preferred' option.

howaboutchocolate · 05/01/2023 10:41

I prefer manual. Changing gears keeps me focused on what I'm doing and I enjoy it. I've driven a new fancy automatic car and found it too hesitant.

EddietheEagle · 05/01/2023 10:42

Snoopystick · 05/01/2023 09:13

Always had a manual, never tried an automatic. In the past I would have assumed it’s because the driver could not pass the manual test but appreciate many reasons now.

Lol that is not the reason

EddietheEagle · 05/01/2023 10:43

I have an automatic, BMW X5 only a couple of years old. It also has the option for me to use the gears if I want.

We had a manual before that. This car is amazing, would never go back to manual now.

EddietheEagle · 05/01/2023 10:44

howaboutchocolate · 05/01/2023 10:41

I prefer manual. Changing gears keeps me focused on what I'm doing and I enjoy it. I've driven a new fancy automatic car and found it too hesitant.

What car was that out of interest?