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Does anyone else not treat fever in DCs?

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BradfordGirl · 29/12/2022 20:56

This is based on advice from my paediatric sister who says once they are over two months old, fever is not something to worry about.

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Cocolatte24 · 31/12/2022 00:07

Poinsettas · 30/12/2022 23:02

Sorry to hear your child was unwell. If they had Strep A/scarlet fever then obviously they had more symptoms than just a fever - which is what is being discussed here.

But this is the same attitude that was shared by the parents that lost children

Kanaloa · 31/12/2022 00:08

I generally would. If I have a fever myself I feel achey and miserable. You don’t need to treat it medically, but the same could be said for headaches, period cramps, mild diarrhea, teething pains. All things that aren’t actively dangerous but that most of us would treat because why would you sit in discomfort if you don’t have to?

Catsstillrock · 31/12/2022 16:57

@Cocolatte24 a bacterial infection may need antibiotics (though otherwise healthy people can and do recover from mild bacterial infections without them). And yes a high temp is one way the body fights the bacterial infection too.

It’s not the case that without antibiotics every bacterial infection is a killer!

but calpol / paracetamol/ inbuprofen isn’t antibiotics and is instead managing symptoms not ‘treating’ the infection.

one of the reasons I give it sparingly that I want to know about other symptoms.

A child dosed with calpol is much less likely to be in pain because paracetamol (the active ingredient) is a very effective painkiller.

ibuprofen is dangerous to give with some illnesses (eg chicken pox) so I want a good idea of what’s wrong BEFORE giving them something.

i don’t think anyone here is saying don’t seek medical care if your child’s symptoms fit the risk pattern for something more serious.

I’m certainly not and have nursed my kids through some scary illnesses like bronchiolitis and measles (only diagnosed once DC was better - DC was just too young to have been vaccinated yet) with the support and guidance of my GP.

it’s standard colds and temps I don’t rush for the calpol bottle. I sleep next to them (don’t sleep much) and watch over them and see how things develop, call our GP or 111 if very concerned.

during the bronchiololitis then 2 year old DCs temp hit 41 three nights in a row. And at that point they had one dose of paracetamol. But otherwise none, rather the fever rise and fell as it needed during the day / night until they made a full recovery.

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RudolphTheGreat · 31/12/2022 17:17

MissyB1 · 29/12/2022 21:53

I treat a fever if I have one so I’ve always treated them in my kids too. I did 26 years as a nurse and I’m married to a hospital consultant. If I didn’t let any of the dc have paracetamol when they were running a fever Dh would think I’d lost the plot!

And all these parents saying their kids are running around playing and perfectly happy with high temperatures in the 38s and 39s errmmm.. why did you take their temperature if there was nothing wrong with them? Do you just automatically take their temperature every day?

Because when they were younger I'd often be able to feel they were hot because I'd be changing nappies, helping them get dressed, brushing their hair, cuddling, reading books together etc.

littlestowl · 31/12/2022 17:24

This is a useful articles from a paediatric registrar

alasdairmunro.substack.com/p/dont-fear-the-fever

There is also no evidence that treating a fever if the child is u comfortable prolongs the illness.

Forthelast · 31/12/2022 17:30

Fever or the cause of it is rarely not uncomfortable so why wouldn't you treat it. The body's approach of heating up doesn't seem effective unless there's research in unaware of.

fUNNYfACE36 · 31/12/2022 17:37

Clearly your smart arsed sister has never had one of her children suffer a febrile convulsion

Notanotherusername4321 · 31/12/2022 17:42

fUNNYfACE36 · 31/12/2022 17:37

Clearly your smart arsed sister has never had one of her children suffer a febrile convulsion

medication does not prevent a febrile convulsion.

several posters have linked to NHS and NICE guidance on that.

DemBonesDemBones · 31/12/2022 17:57

No. My youngest Son has had a few febrile seizures. Every time the drs and nurses in A&E have said it's nothing to do with how hot the child is, it's how quickly the temperature spikes. It doesn't matter how hot they are to start with, it's the spike. They said calpol wouldn't stop a seizure because seizures do not happen simply because you're too hot. If they feel unwell give them calpol, but don't think it will prevent a seizure.

Funnywonder · 31/12/2022 18:00

If DC have a fever, I only give Calpol etc if they have an accompanying feeling of crapness (medical term - you wouldn't know it😅)

Crunchymum · 31/12/2022 18:05

I have 3 DC and I can honestly say none of them have ever had just a fever. So yes I give medicine.

Strokethefurrywall · 31/12/2022 18:13

I've never treated a fever if my kids are otherwise comfortable.
It's when they're complaining of headache, or sore throat etc that I give pain relief.

My boys both get consistent high fevers so I medicate over 100oF (DS2 was at 105oF for 5 days when he had influenza in 2020).

If they have an early 99.5 then I won't unless they're feeling shite.

Notanotherusername4321 · 31/12/2022 18:21

Forthelast · 31/12/2022 17:30

Fever or the cause of it is rarely not uncomfortable so why wouldn't you treat it. The body's approach of heating up doesn't seem effective unless there's research in unaware of.

“Fever is one of the body’s most effective ways of fighting infection”. -Harvard health

www.health.harvard.edu/diseases-and-conditions/treating-fever-in-adults

there’s a load of research about treating fever and the effectiveness of fever. It’s been well studied.

MissyB1 · 31/12/2022 18:53

Notanotherusername4321 · 31/12/2022 18:21

“Fever is one of the body’s most effective ways of fighting infection”. -Harvard health

www.health.harvard.edu/diseases-and-conditions/treating-fever-in-adults

there’s a load of research about treating fever and the effectiveness of fever. It’s been well studied.

And yet no benefit to withholding paracetamol.

Forthelast · 31/12/2022 19:43

Notanotherusername4321 · 31/12/2022 18:21

“Fever is one of the body’s most effective ways of fighting infection”. -Harvard health

www.health.harvard.edu/diseases-and-conditions/treating-fever-in-adults

there’s a load of research about treating fever and the effectiveness of fever. It’s been well studied.

If this is the case why is there research showing that the body is not more effective at clearing an illness when medication to bring down a fever is not given?

Poinsettas · 04/01/2023 08:56

Cocolatte24 · 31/12/2022 00:07

But this is the same attitude that was shared by the parents that lost children

I find your post offensive. It is an absolute tragedy what’s happened to those children. It happens every year whilst yes this year there has been a spike. Don’t you dare say it’s ‘attitude’ of me or the parents as the reason why those children were lost. It’s a very rare but aggressive bacterial infection, giving them paracetamol earlier wouldn’t have saved them. Disgusting that you think it would have.

Volkswagenitalia · 04/01/2023 08:59

Cocolatte24 · 31/12/2022 00:07

But this is the same attitude that was shared by the parents that lost children

Wuh?

When those kids died from Strep A, it wasnt because their parents didn't give them Calpol for a fever FFS!

What a horrible thing to say.

BluIsTheColour · 04/01/2023 09:19

I don't know of any kids who aren't miserable when they have a high temperature. I always treat it because of this.

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