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Does anyone else not treat fever in DCs?

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BradfordGirl · 29/12/2022 20:56

This is based on advice from my paediatric sister who says once they are over two months old, fever is not something to worry about.

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Monkeybutt1 · 29/12/2022 21:29

When DS was in hospital with cellulitis the Dr said to let a fever run if possible as its the bodies way of attacking the illness/infection

Notanotherusername4321 · 29/12/2022 21:30

ShowOfHands · 29/12/2022 21:02

NICE/NHS advice is not to give meds just for a fever. A fever on its own is - usually - not a concern. If the fever presents alongside other symptoms and a child is in pain or discomfort or feeling ill, medicine is necessary.

And febrile convulsions are not caused by a fever but by a speedy jump in temperature. You should not give meds to try and prevent febrile seizures.

This.

i avoid medication. DC if they’re feeling poorly I’ll dose them up before bed as I think if they can get a decent sleep that helps. But I find most illnesses are best left to run their course.

pinkycatmum · 29/12/2022 21:32

I always treat a fever. But then again, my DD doesn't do well with fever. She only seems to get one when she's quite unwell, she's never had one and been okay otherwise.

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NestingSparrow · 29/12/2022 21:34

No I don’t treat fever - a higher temp is the body’s way of killing the viruses.

Columbina · 29/12/2022 21:35

I don't own a thermometer, but can tell if someone (or myself) has a temperature. I don't treat unless they're uncomfortable or in pain. Same with myself.

DarkKarmaIlama · 29/12/2022 21:36

I treat it because it’s just plain uncomfortable. I had a fever myself a couple of weeks ago and the racing heart/sweating and shakes made me feel rubbish. I took ibuprofen and paracetamol and whilst I still felt crap I felt considerably less crap.

willingtolearn · 29/12/2022 21:40

www.nhs.uk/conditions/fever-in-children/

Clear information here.

It is important to know there is no correlation between the height a fever reaches and how sick a child is.

A very sick child can have a mild or no fever (or low fever) and a child with UTI or tonsillitis will often have a very high fever (over 41C)

They do look (and feel) rubbish with a high fever, and often vomit. This is just the bodies way of getting them to lie down and go to sleep so that it can totally focus on fighting the infection.

Cocolatte24 · 29/12/2022 21:46

Problem with saying ‘it’s a body’s way of fighting something’ isn’t entirely true though is it.. what if it’s not viral but bacterial and you need antibiotics to fight it?
My 2.5 year old son ran a temp in September of 42. Even with calpol it didn’t dip beneath 39. After a day of this he then developed a very feint rash. We called 111 who said they’d call back and they never did so we took him straight to A&E. My family all said the same.. ‘it’s just a temp’, ‘sponge him off’ ‘strip him down’ ‘it’s his body’s way of fighting it’ ‘put him in a cold bath’ ‘it’ll just be a heat rash’ ‘you’re overreacting’ it wasn’t though was it?.. it was Scarlett fever/ Strep A.

None of them were hurrying to tell me 2 months later when children were regularly in the news dying from it that I had overreacted.

People should do what they think best at the time and mot have a blanket ‘just a temp don’t bother treating it’ guidance. Every child reacts differently to different viruses and infections.

gogohmm · 29/12/2022 21:46

I only treat in children or adults if very high and uncomfortable.

PopUpMoon · 29/12/2022 21:48

The immune system is flawed. What kills a pathogenic microorganism will often kill the human if left unchecked.

santibaby · 29/12/2022 21:51

Never known a child to have a fever and not feel bad. They don't just wander around with high fevers feeling otherwise dandy! So yes - treat fever with calpol

Alexa456 · 29/12/2022 21:53

Genuine query, how do you know your child has a fever if they are otherwise well? Wny would you be taking their temp if they were fine?

I only take a temp when DC is feeling ill

MissyB1 · 29/12/2022 21:53

I treat a fever if I have one so I’ve always treated them in my kids too. I did 26 years as a nurse and I’m married to a hospital consultant. If I didn’t let any of the dc have paracetamol when they were running a fever Dh would think I’d lost the plot!

And all these parents saying their kids are running around playing and perfectly happy with high temperatures in the 38s and 39s errmmm.. why did you take their temperature if there was nothing wrong with them? Do you just automatically take their temperature every day?

FTMFML · 29/12/2022 21:55

No... have seen far too many febrile convulsions to be comfortable with a little ones temp sitting above normal for a prolonged period of time. - nurse.

MyKidsAreKnobsInDecember · 29/12/2022 21:55

santibaby · 29/12/2022 21:51

Never known a child to have a fever and not feel bad. They don't just wander around with high fevers feeling otherwise dandy! So yes - treat fever with calpol

Same. When my children have fevers they are really unwell with ear infections, tonsillitis etc and in pain. I wouldn't dream of not treating. DS has only had a fever of 39 once, when he had infections in both ears and bacterial tonsillitis. He was so unwell. I really can't imagine them having a fever but being otherwise OK.

BHRK · 29/12/2022 21:55

Of course I treat a fever because fevers make you feel horrible and unwell. Why would I make DC feel that?

FP1000 · 29/12/2022 21:56

SoftSheen · 29/12/2022 21:03

My children have only rarely had a fever, but yes, I would treat with paracetamol simply because it is unpleasant for them, and fevers are often accompanied by other symptoms such as muscle pain and headache which also need to be relieved. Why wouldn't you treat it?

Well that's not just treating a fever then is it?

SergeiL · 29/12/2022 21:57

Quoting @FTMFML ”No... have seen far too many febrile convulsions to be comfortable with a little ones temp sitting above normal for a prolonged period of time. - nurse.”

I thought convulsions were caused by rapid changes in temperature as opposed to prolonged?

Shadope · 29/12/2022 21:59

Yes always, because it makes you feel better and there’s zero scientific evidence that allowing a fever to run reduces length of illnesses.

also to the poster above NEVER put a child with a fever in a cold bath or similar as this increases the body temperature

Brunonono · 29/12/2022 21:59

santibaby · 29/12/2022 21:51

Never known a child to have a fever and not feel bad. They don't just wander around with high fevers feeling otherwise dandy! So yes - treat fever with calpol

One of mine was sent home from nursery with a high fever over 39 after they thought she felt hot. Nursery sounded a bit panicked but they do run hot and high temps aren't that unusual for her. It reached 40 at home and she was still saying she didn't feel ill!

Like many on here, I use Calpol if they are in pain or acting ill but don't worry about a fever in isolation.

Kitcaterpillar · 29/12/2022 22:00

We asked the question to my A&E consultant friend who simply said "why wouldn't you treat it? Don't make the children suffer.. ffs!"

🤨 lovely to see people keeping up to date with current research.

tunthebloodyalarmoff · 29/12/2022 22:00

Having a fever makes you feel very unwell and can make you vomit. We would take paracetamol so why would t we give it to our kids that's not nice

CrabbyCat · 29/12/2022 22:00

Like the previous 2 posters, I only take my DC's temperatures if they tell me they feel unwell, or if they are on the mend. I've always given them something when they've had a fever but then they've always felt rubbish. How would you know your DC had a fever if they were perfectly happy with it?

purpledalmation · 29/12/2022 22:03

A mild fever and a happy child of course I wouldn't treat, but a lethargic child or in pain, of course treat.

Having a high fever makes me feel dreadful so why would I let my child suffer?

BradfordGirl · 29/12/2022 22:05

FTMFML · 29/12/2022 21:55

No... have seen far too many febrile convulsions to be comfortable with a little ones temp sitting above normal for a prolonged period of time. - nurse.

If you are a nurse, you need to read more about febrile convulsions. A high temperature over a prolonged time does not cause febrile convulsions.

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