Don’t really want or need a job, but others make me feel bad, so thinking of pretending I have one that’s working from home

[Redrobinbobbing]

dc at school
health issues
dh works long hours and all sorts of hours

ueybithers the At have loads of extended family support make comments to me that are clearly judging me for not working

I’m actually thinking of pretending I have a job
a working from home job or starting my own business

Just tell them you engage in black magic and witchcraft. You could make some voodoo dolls to sell to them.😁

Say you have a job, but it is top secret and if you give too many details, then you will have to kill the person you are speaking to 😅

I get it though. I am unable to work, and someone asking me what I do for a living brings me out in a cold sweat. My mind translates it as "how do you get your money?", and if you say you can't work then you are saying "I am getting it from your tax money". Then you get the whole "why/have you tried xyz" crap.