I do still have anxiety some days. My depression has gone. I hope it doesn't come back. I stopped taking antidepressants because they made me feel really sick and lazy (with my gps help)
I think for me it was acceptance. Acceptance that mental health is just the same as a broken leg. I needed to put myself first and work through it. I started journaling to write my thoughts down and work through stuff. I got back into self care and exercise. I started eating better and cut down on alcohol. It wasn't easy and it's been a long road but I've got better over time. I still have weeks/days where I am overwhelmed and things are a struggle. I just priorities what needs done that day and leave the other stuff. My insomnia is still bad so try and work round that. Oh and I got into yoga and meditation on YouTube. I have cut down my hours at work to get a better life/work balance.
I also uncluttered the house and decorated every room.
Hope that helps you op 💐
And please don't think that I am a transformed yoga goddess now. I don't do all the above daily, I just try and go with the flow now and do them when I can. I am Petrified of going back to how bad my depression was and try to take one day at a time (not easy to do)
Oh and joining mumsnet definitely helped. Reading other people's experiences and joining the self care/exercise threads etc. Made me feel like I wasn't alone.
Wishing you all the best op 💐