Also you seem to have lots of wants.
Nice house.
Nice car.
Savings
Private surgery.
That's not living like a peasant.
The less wants you have the richer you are.
I dont care about my car. No private schools.
Dont care about clothes. Etc
We are very comfortable. My only want really is the nice house. Which luckily we can afford.
I've been very care ful to avoid lifestyle inflation.
Every time my pay increases I increase the amount I save.
If I wanted to I could now switch to working just 1 day a week and live comfortably.
But obviously will continue my current work for now, with little wants it means i could retire fully within the next few years. I am late 30's but the only reason i can do this is because i love very frugally, a good job helps, but I save a lot. My only weakness are my kids, I do splurge on them.
But my savings % is high. Theres a website that tells you how long til your retirement depending on your savings percentage. So if you can save 100% of your income a year you can retire in 0 years, and the length of time increases depending on your savings percentage of income.
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Obviously I follow the FIRE movement, but not completely converted because I want the kids to have a good life.