Tell me about the fabulous area where you live so I can move there! (50s retired widow)

[Whatevergetsyouthroughthenight]

I find myself at a stage of life where I am on my own with no family and currently live in a lovely house in an idyllic rural village.

However, there’s no-one else living here at my life stage and I have to get in the car for everything. Many of my friends are moving away with their partners as they start retiring.

I am looking for somewhere where I can walk/cycle to facilities (doctor, chemist, coffee shop, leisure centre, small supermarket for top up shops), decent transport links to get further afield and somewhere with a good community and lots going on for my age group.

I would like like somewhere pretty to look at, with nice walks in countryside on my doorstep so thinking of a medium-large village, a market town or even an area of a larger town or city with the right vibe.

Where do you live that fits the bill?

Budget shouldn’t be too much of an issue as I don’t want anything particularly large (I don’t want the maintenance) and have a healthy amount to spend.

I always say this, but Norwich might be a good fit. It's small enough to get around easily, but because it's kind of in the middle of nowhere you get the buzz of city life/culture whilst being surrounded by countryside. It's quite a fiercely independent place, without being aggressive about it. It's known as the graveyard of ambition because it's such an easy place to live! Coast is 20 minutes away, the Broads are on your doorstep, and there are parks everywhere. Pretty much everything is walkable, and the city council are lovely. Local council are entirely Labour, Lib Dems & Greens too!

Go east - so much drier - Aldeburgh Suffolk has everything on your list.

Good answers

I'd maybe rule out Ilkley then, because it has a higher than average proportion of red trousers, but equally it still has people like you.

Somebody recommended Riddlesden. This is over the hill from Ilkley and has lovely property at half the price, because it's half a mile outside Keighley centre. It is on a South facing bank so the micro climate is good.

The one town that has your name on it - i.e. liberal without too much crystal healing, which is neither too right or left is....

Halifax - some beautiful areas. Check out Piece Hall it will give you an idea of what the locals value. The people are grounded and lot's on to dip in and out of. Some areas around Halifax to check out Ripponden, Midley, Luddenden, Shibden, Savile Park.

Good luck in your search.

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I did read that Frome was a good option for community .

Shhhh - don't want everyone moving here.......

Frome is a strange combination of deprived, comfortably-off alternatives and rich. My friends are very happy there.

I'm sure OP could find her tribe but it might take a while.

If budget isn’t a problem then Barnes seems the perfect choice - everything on your doorstep including lovely river walks, restaurants, theatre and a wonderful farmers market every week - enjoy!

As others have said, Marlow fits the bill perfectly, even down to the leisure centre (just off the high street). A nearby village, Bourne End, would also fit (minus the leisure centre!). The train from both goes to Maidenhead, and then there are all the connections from there.

You want access to hospitals and really great public transport

That's why I moved to London when my children grew up

So many of the places mentioned are my favourite holiday places but are no good AT ALL when you get towards retirement. They're fine for early active retirement but not when you need specialists and being able to get there on the amazing £1.75 bus fare in London

Without a ballpark budget OP it’s difficult to advise further.

@Mirabai as I said in my OP, “Budget shouldn’t be too much of an issue as I don’t want anything particularly large (I don’t want the maintenance) and have a healthy amount to spend.”

Area matters to me more than size, so I don’t think that my budget rules out anywhere in the UK. I haven’t put a specific budget as a one bed flat in Knightsbridge costs the same as a castle in Scotland and I don’t want people ruling out areas due to my budget as it’s very flexible.

Yes I read your OP, but a “healthy amount” can mean anything. It means something very different to a northerner than to a southerner for example.

A “healthy amount” would get you a 2 bed flat in Barnes which is “medium-sized village” “within a city”, with good shops, amenities, transport links and river walks/views. It would cost between 850k - 1.2million. But is that in the right ballpark price-wise?

Monmouth, South Wales. In the beautiful Wye Valley (AONB). Walks on your doorstep, lovely theatre, restaurants, cafes, cultural scene, a wide range of housing, transport links to Cardiff, Bristol, Birmingham. It often features in the top ten places to live in the UK.

Hi There:

I live in "San Jose, California, USA". I think I live in a very nice part of the world.
Where do you live?

Anna

Truro in Cornwall. It's a very small city. Fits your criteria wonderfully.

I would suggest Windsor- if you are within walking distance of town but then only 20 odd minutes into London with the countryside on your doorstep and sea only 1 1/2 hours away

Another vote for Edinburgh here. Great place with lots of walks/parks/ theatre/ concerts /trains/trams etc etc .
If I were you I would rent a place in the Dean Village or Stockbridge and see how you feel after 6 months.

@Whatevergetsyouthroughthenight Knebworth sounds like it fits your requirements

Are you determined to stay in the UK op? Or would you be open to moving further afield?

I'm in NW Ireland but going by your replies we would have everything you are looking for on our doorstep! Several lovely beaches, a river side park, local walking groups / community groups that are always delighted to have new members.

I don't drive because I have no need of a car. work/shops/cafés/library/cinema etc are all within a 15 min walk. We are a short trip over the border into Derry for bigger shopping trips / theatre etc - buses run every hr or so. Derry Airport is 20 mins away / Belfast about 1hr, 40 mins away. People are friendly and welcoming. I couldn't imagine living anywhere else!

Do you still live in the Ribble Valley?

Tynemouth, Lytham

Seriously? Please tell me you're jesting. I grew up in Rochdale and know Bolton and Oldham well and wouldn't recommend any of them as nice places to retire. Manchester isn't all that either (and I live in GM).

Killearn, Stirlingshire ticks all your boxes.

I am not even sure where the Ribble Valley is! I think that you may have mixed me up with someone else.

Truro
Cirencester
Lichfield
Clevedon/Portishead