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Come with me back to 1984...

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LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 19:21

I don't know whether it's simply nostalgia or whether as you get older you are able to see the past more clearly, but I was 14 in 1984 and I was simply in love with Eden by Everything but the girl ( massively underrated album!) The Unforgettable Fire by U2, The Smiths first LP had just come out, Brilliant Trees by David Sylvian- Rattlesnakes by Lloyd Coke and the commotions, Hatful of Hollow (remember waiting outside OurPrice in Hammersmith for that one!)

I was wearing DMs and dyeing my Levi's black because I couldn't find any in the shops, cutting sleeves off my brother's shirts and buying studded belts from Kensington Market. Taping The Tube on Friday nights before going out to meet my friends.
Free festivals in London Parks in the summers, saw so many great bands between 84-86. The Pogues, The Men they couldn't hang, The Boothill Foottappers, The Style Council, The Frank Chickens, The Communards...

Was just thinking about those years and wondering what other people's memories were of those years... no judgement here !

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Ssmiler · 16/11/2022 21:02

1984 - fond memories - I was 18 and moved away from my rural village to start uni that year. I thought the halls of residence were a riot and I loved every minute. My student grant (no loans then) was about £600 for the term I think to cover rent bills food etc.

I was into Bruce Springsteen, Thin Lizzy, Prince, Lionel Ritchie and Wham to name a few - varied taste!

I went home once or twice a term but couldn’t afford the fare so hitch hiked including on the motorway slip roads!

i queued up for a phone box once every week or two to make a call to my parents for a few minutes - otherwise they never heard from me or I from them. No news was good news in those days.

Neverknowinglysensible · 16/11/2022 21:03

xJ0y · 16/11/2022 20:58

I was 14 in 1984 too!

I remember wearing dungarees and thinking I was the BUSINESS in them, with one luminous orange sock and one luminous green sock. Good grief. That sounds bad when I type it. I also (omg) loved Wham.

I’d forgotten the sock craze! Round my way you were only something though if you had Kickers shoes. My neighbour had both and was sooooo much the Alpha Girl of the school because of it!

Blueblell · 16/11/2022 21:03

I was 10 but wow yes things were so different- good to remember!

Tumbleweed101 · 16/11/2022 21:04

I was 8yo. My over riding memory of that year is going to hospital because I had an ingrowing abcess in my armpit that could have given me sepsis if it had burst! I was in hospital for a few days and got a Sprite soft toy as a gift to make me feel better. A boy in my class had an op to have his appendix removed around the same time so we both got out of PE lessons and just messed about in thd class room while the others did PE. I still have a large scar in my armpit.

Other memories are only having a gas fire in the living room and a calor gas one at top of stairs so house was cold in winter and having to huddle near fire when first getting up or getting home.

We always watched children's TV while dinner was getting made and then dad would take over TV at 6pm for the news.

woodhill · 16/11/2022 21:06

And the M25 being built, going on a bike ride and seeing it in progress

Cookerhood · 16/11/2022 21:08

I graduated in 1984. Went to glasto (1985 was the muddy year, not 1984, was lovely that year). I loved all sorts of music but the one that takes me back to that last summer as a student is 99 Red Balloons

Vinylloving · 16/11/2022 21:08

I was born!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/11/2022 21:09

I was at Manchester Poly age 21. It was the place to be. Sat opposite Mozza on a bus.

New Order, Smiths, Simply Red, Tony Wilson. All down the Hac all the time. We’d see them in all the clubs and pubs just hanging out.

We used to see the name ‘Stone Roses’ graffitied everywhere. And used to ask each other ‘Who are they?’😂

Those days of back combing my hair, spraying it, smoking a fag and feeling it all crackling in my throat😂

NameChangeForARaisin · 16/11/2022 21:10

LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 19:31

So glad you have great memories of it! Oh Lloyd Cole ( heart emojis all round!) I was deeply in love with The Edge from U2 around this time. I still have a soft spot for him ( and indeed all middle aged men with goatees as a result)

OMG, I can identify with this!!
My husband looks a lot like The Edge 😉pure coincidence of course!
He even wears a beanie and plays guitar, can't do an Irish accent though.....

hamstersarse · 16/11/2022 21:11

Impressed by all you cool folk going to Glasto in its heyday

I can honestly say I hadn’t even heard of it until 1993 when I went to uni. I was a proper country bumpkin

Always4Brenner · 16/11/2022 21:11

I was 17 left school 10 days before 18th. Was a shy teen didn’t fit in loved Duran Duran Bronski beat Howard jones. 007 fan massive no posters on walls not allowed out at night. First job yts scheme was happy there allowed there for 18 months instead of 12.

JanglyBeads · 16/11/2022 21:14

Wow what memories!

@Appalonia why was an air raid siren going off in 1984?!

I was 16 and taking O level Eng Lit which included "1984"!

LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 21:14

Twospaniels · 16/11/2022 20:17

I was 17, nearly 18 in 1984, and young for my age. I went horse riding every saturday and helped at the stables too.
Learnt to drive in a Daihatsu Charade and also my mum’s mini clubman. Once I passed my test I was allowed to use the mini in the evenings but had to put £3 petrol in it every week
went to the local radio disco with a girl I knew from the stables every friday night (I think, maybe it was once a month) and remember them playing ‘Relax’ by Frankie Goes to Hollywood - it was a hit - it was banned by the BBC
I loved Nick Heyward and haircut 100
I got highlights in my hair for the first time
I wore really tight jeans and pixie boots
I got my first job as an office junior at an engineering firm

I love this because it was so different to my experience but I can totally see people a couple of years earlier for whom this sort of thing was their arc.

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LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 21:15

lovelypidgeon · 16/11/2022 20:18

1984 for me was the final year of primary school. I was incredibly proud of my Wham! Make it Big album on vinyl (we just called it a record) and played in on the stereo system in the living room (which was a wooden cabinet with the bottom half a space for storing records and a tape deck, radio and record player on the top half). I also really liked Madonna but I wasn't allowed her album as my mum thought it was inappropriate for children. My friend had the Like a Virgin album so when I stayed over at her house we made up dances to it and dressed up in her older sister's lace gloves and beads etc. The school disco was the height of excitement and required weeks of outfit planning and practising make-up tips from Jackie magazine.

Oh my goodness the stress of the school disco!

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LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 21:17

itsnotdeep · 16/11/2022 20:23

You were cooler than me in 1984 OP. I turned 14 in May of that year, so was in third year for most of it. I still liked Wham and Duran Duran! I actually liked Karma Chameleon which was no 1 that year.

I also liked Eurythmics.

A year or two later I'd be into the Smiths and Lloyd Cole and wear a uniform of black jeans and doc martens with a long cardigan from M&S (menswear).

I had a friend who loved Howard Jones and she went to see him in concert and fainted because she loved him so much.

I can assure you I wasn't cool by any stretch of the imagination! My friends were all into Wham and FGTH and I had to keep my love for U2 and The Cult on the downlow!

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FixundFoxi · 16/11/2022 21:18

Started at liverpool poly in 1984 to study modern languages. Met my ex partner at freshers and little did I know we'd be together almost 30 years 😮 Remember seeing Aztec camera in the student union, then The Cult and Here and Now. Absolutely loved liverpool and studying languages.

HelloDaisy · 16/11/2022 21:20

Ha ha, JanglyBeads I was doing O levels in 1984 then too and sure I didn’t make the connection between the book and the year!!

Just remember a long, long summer lying down and dreaming. My friend and I snuck into Reading festival as it was easy to get in in those days without a ticket, or with a couple of tickets between several of us! Weekend tickets were £25..

QuantumWeatherButterfly · 16/11/2022 21:22

I was 7 in 1984. I don't have many specific memories. I remember watching Daley Thompson at the Olympics, being at primary school and not much else. It's so interesting to me because my DD is currently 7. I can't help but wonder what she will remember in 38 years time!

Thomaslovesalison · 16/11/2022 21:24

I was 4. But I was listening to the unforgettable fire today for the first time in ages, forgot how good it was.

LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 21:25

This is all so wonderful! I had no idea when I started the thread that people would respond with so many fantastic memories'

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newtb · 16/11/2022 21:25

Married 7 years and was 28. Went to France to stay in a gîte for the first time. Had a 1.8 Astra gte and kept getting overtaken by race-tuned 2cv's.

ofwarren · 16/11/2022 21:26

I was only 4 but I have memories of the miners strike.
I remember being very poor, eating meals like cabbage soup and asking my mum why she wasn't eating with us. She would feed us but sometimes didn't have enough for herself.
I remember the coal wagon coming and giving my Dad free sacks of coal and I also remember we had to go in the house through the back door for weeks because my mum lost her front door key and couldn't afford to get one cut.

CathyorClaire · 16/11/2022 21:28

I was getting married in a meringue and haunting many local and not so local pubs as a diversion from getting to grips with the expenses of running a house, actually paying for food then cooking it all set to a backdrop of the best music ever.

80's are my favourite decade.

LadyOfTheCanyon · 16/11/2022 21:29

dudsville · 16/11/2022 21:02

I loved the new romantics music era stuff. I had white leather ankle boots studded with fake jewels. A favourite skirt was peach, long, fitted over waist and hips, Molly Ringwald was my style icon as i looked a bit like her. I had a wonderful pair of red button fly 501's. I had an eye shadow pallet with loads of different colours and I'd try to get as many in my eyes as i could at any one time. Hair was big and high and a fire risk! I was head over heels for a boy with big hair.

Oh my goodness, everything about this resonates with me. I had such a crush on a big haired, slim hipped individual at the time.

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ILoveAllRainbowsx · 16/11/2022 21:30

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