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SAD winter support thread

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AutumnScream · 02/11/2022 14:16

Apologies i can't find last years threads but they were a massive help checking in or just reading how everyone was doing day to day to get through the difficulty of winter. So many of us suffer from SAD and no amount of hyge and cosyness makes up for it.

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/11/2022 11:59

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MissyB1 · 16/11/2022 12:03

@Idratherbepaddleboarding
now that is a good day!

3nough · 16/11/2022 12:34

@Idratherbepaddleboarding that's put a smile on my face ☺️

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/11/2022 16:45

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3nough · 16/11/2022 17:07

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Sound like a really lovely day.

I'm really feeling it today. DD not sleeping atm so feeling very tired and overwhelmed atm, nothing seems to be going right.

I'm really thinking about going to GP to ask about ADs but I've done so well now to of managed my symptoms for over 3 years without the need for ADs, feels like I've let myself down.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/11/2022 17:44

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MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 17/11/2022 06:19

God, this is miserable. Cold, wet, dark, muddy. I have a streaming cold that shows no signs of shifting. Sat in bed with a coffee and my sad lamp and wishing I could stay here all day.

MissyB1 · 17/11/2022 08:10

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 17/11/2022 06:19

God, this is miserable. Cold, wet, dark, muddy. I have a streaming cold that shows no signs of shifting. Sat in bed with a coffee and my sad lamp and wishing I could stay here all day.

Yep! Had to drag myself to work, motivation level is zero.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 18/11/2022 15:52

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MissyB1 · 18/11/2022 17:57

Wednesday an Thursday we’re hideous for me, I was working in a comprehensive (invigilating mock GCSEs), and had a couple of very aggressive teenagers kicking off at me, very stressful.
Much better day at a different school today, and the weather was sunny! I’m going to go out for a long dog walk tomorrow to try and lower my stress levels.

3nough · 18/11/2022 19:56

Isn't it amazing what a little bit of sunshine can do.

Has been freezing cold, yet I've still felt more happy and energised today.

Iamnotavicar · 18/11/2022 20:25

I've had a really miserable week, sluggish, unmotivated and anxious, quite tearful at times. Made basic mistakes at work. I had an argument with someone medical who disagreed that SAD existed and that I was making it up each year because I was anticipating it, that it becomes true. And it is all resolvable with anti-depressants and mindfulness (if only.... I've also found my lightbox can trigger migraines).
I compensated by eating my own body weight in chocolate.
But ....I hope everyone has a good weekend

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 18/11/2022 20:26

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ItsTheSmallThings · 18/11/2022 20:29

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Oh no. I'll send some of our sunshine your way.

AutumnScream · 18/11/2022 22:32

Hope everyone is ok. I had an incredibly tough week and am stressed to hell.

Hows everyones weekends looking?

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RampantIvy · 18/11/2022 23:07

It has been, dull, very gloomy and wet here all week. Proper Dickensian November weather 😒

earsup · 18/11/2022 23:25

Felt dreadful since sunday....low mood....but did have sinus issues....forced myself to go out while bright....even in rain....now ok...have booked flights to barcelona for dec, jan and feb....did it ages ago so very cheap...stay with a friend...it might be cold but it will be bright....cannot face the awful depression i had in feb a few years ago in lockdown....might even go canaries etc....

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TheFarawayNearby · 19/11/2022 11:07

I'm struggling because it's just so grey and wet all the time. Usually we're out and about at the weekend, but we haven't really been doing that for the last few weekends.

MissyB1 · 19/11/2022 12:00

Very lucky with the weather here again today, sunny but cold. I had to get out early to drop ds at a rugby match, so took the dog for a 2 hour walk high up on hills. It’s done me good, not sure how long the effect will last though, but I will take every little win at the moment.

RampantIvy · 19/11/2022 14:31

Another cold, damp, gloomy miserable November day here in South Yorkshire.

SayyestoJRM · 19/11/2022 14:42

I am exhausted and have no motivation to go out for a dog walk or to the gym. Lovely sunny day here but just want to sleep. Too tired even to cook a healthy meal Sad

Was motivated for the gym this morning but the class I was booked into got cancelled because of instructor sickness.

Also fed up with Christmas already and it hasn't even started yet. Pressure, commercialisation - and FOMO especially as I have no friends, and family are 3 hours away. DH is not the sociable type. My life is very lonely and isolated sometimes and there is nothing to look forward to Sad

MissyB1 · 19/11/2022 15:05

@SayyestoJRM that sounds hard, do you read at all? Books help me when I can’t face the world.

TheFarawayNearby · 19/11/2022 15:36

@SayyestoJRM, Good Lord, what is your user name all about 😄🙈.

I've been thinking about the fact that I feel lonely recently too. I live far away from my family, and I just want to be closer to them. I'll probably stay here for a few more years for various reasons, but then I want to go home 💛.

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 20/11/2022 05:59

Oh god. I've got to leave the house at 7am to do a 10 hour day an hour away, and I've only managed about 3 hours sleep. My bastard brain woke me up at 2.30 and I couldn't get back to sleep.

It's a full on, high energy, public facing role, too. Really worried about driving back in the dark (on both poorly lit rural roads and the M1) later. Sad

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