When my DC started school, I got speaking to another mum. Things were fine, she did make some comments that I found difficult to understand (calling polish people vermin, admitting to fb the parents of children in our class, being horrible about people who are on benefits, always moaning about her dp, saying she slammed her phone down on him and turned her phone off, comments about her own DC like when she smiles she looks constipated and her breath smells of poo).
Anyway, one day she saw me coming into the playground and walked off ignoring me. There was no argument, discussion or anything. A month or so later another new family joined the school, and my ex friend went off with the new mum. No idea what I did or said wrong, but both turned around glaring at me, ignoring me, talking about me. To the extent their children in the past have told my DC what they've heard their mums saying (I'm wicked, witch, fat, crap, ugly, ridiculous). One child even said to my DC 'once upon a time there was a little boy called DC name who lived in a Forest...in the forest was myname witch, and myname witch is fat, crap, ridiculous ect'.
I used to speak to mum's partner, and now he ignores me as well.
No idea what I've meant to have said or done...was quite awful at the time, I used to feel so anxious going to do the school run.
The new mum who started, her DC is friends will my DC, and they have play dates and she'll say hello and speak to me if the other mum isn't about, but blanks me when she is about.
I have tried to say hello, but she just blanks me. On a few occasions, I've moved my pram and dog out of the way so she and her DC can walk past as there isn't much room. She just blanks me, and doesn't say thank you for giving way and letting her past?
Very strange behaviour, thankfully DC is leaving the school in the next couple of years.