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Whats your morning routine?

55 replies

mae2014 · 13/10/2022 09:59

Basically that. Is there any habits you introduced to your day, that you feel made a significant difference to your mood/productivity?

Desperate to get myself into a really good morning routine but finding it hard to discipline myself to not turn off the alarm 🙈

OP posts:
jenn88 · 13/10/2022 10:18

I do everything I possibly can the night before! Then stay in bed as long as I dare!!!!

Toomanysleepycats · 13/10/2022 10:26

Really depends wether you have kid, pets, job and husband.

I don’t have any at the moment so I have the luxury of waking up when I’m ready. To be honest I now realise that’s all I needed all these years to be ready to embrace the day.

Shannith · 13/10/2022 10:29

Yoga. 30 day move with Adrienne. 20-30 mins in the morning. I've been doing it on repeat since Feb and my mobility is unrecognisable!

Good for the soul as well.

That and walk the dogs.

maxelly · 13/10/2022 10:29

Controversial maybe, but I am really not a morning person and don't think I ever will be. I tried making myself get up really early before anyone else in the house, gave myself loads of time to potter around and wake up gently, introduced elaborate morning skincare routines etc, all the things that are recommended to make you actually enjoy mornings, and all it led to for me was backsliding, repeated alarm clock snoozing and a general sense of shame and guilt - so I've now gone the other way entirely and accepted mornings are hideous and just to get through them anyway I can. It helps that I no longer have kids to get out of the house as well as myself. I've worked out what a bare minimum morning routine is for hygiene and general functioning, I do as much of it as possible the night before such as setting out clothes, packing a bag if I need to leave the house etc., make my packed lunch, even set the coffee machine all ready to go, so when I get up in the morning it's quick wash and teeth clean (I shower and wash hair etc the night before), basic skincare and make-up, dress in pre-prepared outfit, feed pets, grab pre-prepared bag and coffee and go. I don't eat breakfast any more which was also revolutionary for me after years of miserably forcing down cereal in the morning feeling vaguely sick on the 'breakfast is the most important meal of the day' mantra - I know it's crucial for some but not all, I don't find I eat more in the day now, at all, nor do I get mid-morning low blood sugar or similar, but obviously if you do need breakfast then you could make yourself something like overnight oats or set bread in the toaster ready to go or similar.

Basically I am racing myself to spend the minimum amount of time while still not smelling bad or looking unacceptably rumpled, I'm pretty good at it now Wink, it's impressive how quick I can be out of the house but the crucial thing is I know when the alarm goes I absolutely have to get up and get going right away, as there's no slack in the system whatsoever, I will be late if I even give myself a minute to go slow, this is the only thing that seems to get me out of bed remotely on time. To be fair I feel awful and groggy for the first hour after waking up but I always did anyway, the difference is I spend that hour doing my basic tasks and on the commute rather than effectively on my own time as I was when I was trying the 'wake up gradually' method, so it's OK (disclaimer I commute on the train, of course if you drive to work/school run I wouldn't recommend doing it half-asleep)... For preference I would never ever get up before about 10am so if you are lucky enough to have that flexibility in your life then I'd embrace it rather than trying to force yourself to become a morning person, I know for some bizarrely it's a moral issue, for years i felt a vague sense of shame and was tormented by my (long-deceased) grandfather's stern voice n my head going on about 'lazy folk lying in bed all day', 'wasting the best part of the day' and so on, but I don't actually spend any more time in bed if I sleep 2am-10am than someone that sleeps 10pm - 6am like he did!

WeegieGranny · 13/10/2022 10:35

yes, definitely do as much as possible the night before. Also fine-tune a to-do list for the morning routine so that everything becomes automatic.

I found that setting a stopwatch on my phone for each task eg shower, dressing, etc, made me see where I was wasting time. After that, I set alarms for each task based on the stopwatch results so that I didn't need to watch the clock or try to remember what to do next.

Mornings are more relaxed now, as we all know what to do and when. Also, I get an extra half-hour in bed because I know exactly what to do and don't wander about looking for stuff.

haveyouopenedyourbowelstoday · 13/10/2022 10:42

Nurse working 12.5 hour shifts. Everything prepared the night before...food for work, thermos ready with teabag, scrubs and underwear hanging.
I always leave keys, ID badge etc in the same place so no scrabbling around.
Wake up, come downstairs, kettle on.
Let dogs out, feed cats.
Tea for now, tea for work.
Shower.
Drink tea drying and dressing.
In the car 30 minutes after waking.
I can't be diverted though lol!

ComtesseDeSpair · 13/10/2022 10:51

I’m with maxelly on this. I’m not a morning person and I never will be, I’m a night owl and generally more active and energetic from midday onwards. There’s no point fighting it. I make sure that I have all my work stuff packed and ready to go the night before if I’m going into the office, and cycling my commute has really helped improve my morning alertness and energy - and also means that I get out of bed 15 minutes before I need to leave the house and just have to wash my face, throw on Lycra and get out the door, then shower and dress properly at the office.

MyNameIsAngelicaSchuyler · 13/10/2022 10:54

Hot, strong coffee. Hot shower. Yoga.

Yahyahs22 · 13/10/2022 11:03

Go for a run for half hour, come home do strengthening exercises. Cup of coffee. Do mine and little ones breakfasts. Clean and take the kids somewhere (2 and 6 months)

Before introducing a morning run I was so lazy and my mood was very low. Pushing yourself makes you eventually look forward to it. Trust me, I'm yet to find a lazier person than myself but I just forced myself into a better, healthier morning routine.

bippityboppity87 · 13/10/2022 11:40

Clothes out ready the night before, including DC's and snacks ready to go. Also shower the night before if I have to be up really early for work (which is about 5am) Everything I need in my bag, double check the night before it's all there for the day

Morning routine. I give myself about half an hour. So;

Brush teeth
Cleansing balm, serum, then my foreo bear
Get dressed
Make up - mascara, concealer, blush, highlighter etc (takes about two minutes)
Over makeup sunscreen. It's a spray which is quite handy
Quick brush of my hair, maybe some straighteners for flyaways
Sit down for 10 mins scrolling my phone
Leave

I love my foreo bear as it takes little to no time at all, and makes a difference to my overall face and my sunscreen spray. It dries quite quickly too and doesn't leave any residue

Work smarter not harder is my motto Grin Maximum result for little effort lol

HBGKC · 13/10/2022 11:46

@bippityboppity87 what is (a?) foreo bear..?

beeswain · 13/10/2022 12:16

I am morning person so I exercise most mornings before work. Wake up coffee in bed, walk or run at 6.30 or swim by 7. Clothes, work bag and lunch all done the night before so its just a quick shower then off to work. Helps me start the day calm and ready.

Doggiedoodoos · 13/10/2022 12:17

I get most things done the previous night but wake at 7, straight out of bed and into shower quickly, moisturise etc, then downstairs, kettle on for coffee. While thats boiling pack lunches for kids and myself and organise breakfast things, let out pets and feed them. Kids downstairs at 7.45. Hand them breakfast then go up and get myself ready. Takes about 20 mins to brush teeth, do hair and makeup and into clothes set out night before. Out the door at 8.15, kids to school, me to work for 9.

quietnightmare · 13/10/2022 12:22

Everything the night before even to the point of setting my playlist to start at a certain time so I don't even have to worry about that, I will ensure my heating is on probably for the beginning of December via a timer, all bag packed for work and clothes out ready. Dear at, make up, hair brush etc all lined up ready. If got my toothpaste on a machine on the wall so all I do is shove my toothbrush against the button and it squeezes it out for me. Kettle filled up the night before in my bedroom and breakfast bar and fruit next to my bed so I don't have to get up. So I wake up eat, straight in the shower, put on everything I've picked out on and leave. Even have my car keys in my bag ready to go.z so lazy but I'm never late or tired

VeridicalVagabond · 13/10/2022 14:40

Out of bed at 4:30am, coffee in a thermos, out with the dogs for morning toileting then send them off with farm hands for whatever their day entails.

Out to the horses by 5:10 ish to start THEIR morning routine, which is probably healthier than mine. 6:30am hand brings me coffee #2, it's the rules. We move cows to day field. Annoy local drivers. Sorry.

7am back home, get daughter up, breakfast with her and husband, take her to school for 8:30am. Get on with the rest of my day!

That's about it, not much variation. I'm not a morning person, I hate them, but muscle memory gets me out of bed at this point. I often don't actually properly wake up until I'm on the yard, especially in winter.

BabyBunnyMama · 13/10/2022 14:45

I'm on mat leave with a 9 month old and 3 and a half year old, they usually sleep til 7ish and the mornings I manage to get up around 6 and get myself ready and have a coffee on my own makes me feel so much more ready for the day ahead.

Otherwise it's kids up at 7, down for breakfast, back upstairs getting ready for the day around 7:45am then out to take eldest to nursery at 8:30am, home with youngest, I'll have a coffee and play with him for a while then he goes for a nap around 9:30-10am and I'll get some jobs done around the house, prep lunch etc, maybe have another brew then get him up again around 11am to go pick eldest up at 11:30am and home to get her changed and have lunch.

It's all a bit of a rush because she's still settling in, hoping that will change when she starts staying for lunch in nursery.

Comedycook · 13/10/2022 14:47

Kids get up about 7/7.15 and start getting ready for school. I find getting up before them even by ten/fifteen minutes makes such a big difference to how efficient the morning is.

Heyahun · 13/10/2022 14:51

Doing everything possible night before - I get my daughters nursery bag ready, fill our water bottles, have my lunch in fridge.

lay out my clothes and my daughters.

even have her bowl out and her porridge or whatever she’s having to eat out on the counter top ready to be made. (I wait to eat at work)

I find all these little things just make the morning easier and less stressful.

grapehyacinthisactuallyblue · 13/10/2022 14:56

Getting up earlier than I need to, and have some relaxing time before starting a day. I feel more in control and calm.

NCFT0922 · 13/10/2022 14:57

I have 4DC, aged 8-4 months.

Wake up at 6am with the baby, give her a feed and she goes back to sleep. I then shower, have breakfast & get myself ready for the day and put packed lunches in backpacks & fill water bottles.
7am I wake up the elder 3, get their breakfast ready for them then brush the boys teeth while DD(8) gets dressed, then dress the boys while she does her hair. Do the boys hair then them 3 have 30 mins to play / watch tv while baby has a little top up feed. I then dress her, put the bags under the pram and we leave the house at 8.30.

NCFT0922 · 13/10/2022 14:58

Oh I forgot to say; all clothes are gotten out the night before, reading journals signed and packed lunches made. Shoes & coats are ready in the hallway.

Tdcp · 13/10/2022 14:58

Mine is a bit crap but steady at least, I get up about 6:30, have breakfast and a cup of tea and watch something like Eastenders from the night before . Then DD and DP get up, they have breakfast and tv / tablet whilst I get ready for work, then I get DDs clothes out for school, do her hair, then grab my lunch / do DDs and DPs lunches (we take turns usually now) and then go to work by 7:45. DP then gets DD ready for school and drops her off for 9 and goes to work himself.

Maslinka · 13/10/2022 15:04

Excellent post from @maxelly . I also deal with not hitting snooze by having a hard deadline. In our case the taxi comes for DS at 7.30 and I need to be showered, dressed and DS lunch made & ready to go by then, so I have no slack and I just have to get up 10 mins after my alarm goes.

The sticking point is keeping going from that point. I think I just need more sleep.

Having the heating on early enough so you're not getting up to a freezing house helps a lot. Ours starts really early and goes off at 8am.

bippityboppity87 · 13/10/2022 15:05

@HBGKC it's a toning device for your face. I love it. So easy to use and takes no time at all

User19876 · 13/10/2022 15:09

Run around like mad, shout at everyone for not getting ready fast enough, leave the house late.