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Have you ever had a crush / fallen in love with an historical figure?

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NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:12

This has happened to me in the most unexpected manner. I'm in my early 50s (old enough to know better) & I've developed a massive obsession / crush on a long dead writer. It's so weird & had never happened to me before.
Please tell me someone else has experienced this?

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CherrySocks · 12/10/2022 21:15

We need to know who it is! (Please don't say Dickens though)

Runningintolife · 12/10/2022 21:16

I have known someone who did. Can you blame your hormones or any difficult life circumstances going on x

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:16

Nope not Dickins
It's James Joyce

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lizziesiddal79 · 12/10/2022 21:16

I had a massive crush on Keats until I discovered he was only five foot.

Howyoualldoworkme · 12/10/2022 21:20

I've been in love with Richard Plantagenet since I was a child. My sister has a serious crush on Prince Rupert.
We're a strange family 😀

OytheBumbler · 12/10/2022 21:22

My first thought was the Plantagenets! I blame Jean Plaidy, she gave me my first introduction to romantic crushes.

Tezza1 · 12/10/2022 21:24

I think I could develop a crush on Hannibal without too much effort.

SlowingDownAndDown · 12/10/2022 21:25

I thought it was just Nicola Marlow on Nelson (in books by Antonia Forest).

DuckonaBike · 12/10/2022 21:30

Yes, mine is Ernest Shackleton. This is completely normal.

CherrySocks · 12/10/2022 21:30

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:16

Nope not Dickins
It's James Joyce

OK. What is it about him?

(I've read A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man but I didn't really get a sense of him as a person)

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:30

Well I'm glad I'm not alone in this madness.
I had to visit Dublin for work recently & I visited Davy Byrne's pub & had a glass of wine there & it was a strange sensation to think he'd sat in this same room & wrote there

I 'might' be planning a trip to Trieste next!

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NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:16

Nope not Dickins
It's James Joyce

Dear me. I mean, he’s an astonishing novelist, but seems to have been a more than averagely-aggravating human being. (And the sex letters to Nora, with the obsession with farting and dirty drawers are a bit much.)

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:34

I can't help it!

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EvilRingahBitch · 12/10/2022 21:34

This dude. I forget his name.

In my more cerebral moments, Wellington. In my more shallow moments, Byron. Yes I am aware they both had flaws: I'm not proposing to marry them.

Have you ever had a crush / fallen in love with an historical figure?
Zosime · 12/10/2022 21:38

I've been in love with Richard Plantagenet since I was a child.

Don't you know he belongs to Ph*a L*y?

Zosime · 12/10/2022 21:39

Don't you know he belongs to Pha Ly?

Oops, the asterisks messed it up, but I expect you get the idea.

Shunkleisshiny · 12/10/2022 21:42

The 17th century poet Thomas Chatterton, based on a highly romantiszed painting
' The Death of Thomas Chatterton'. I was 17 at the time and very impressionable!

CherrySocks · 12/10/2022 21:45

EvilRingahBitch · 12/10/2022 21:34

This dude. I forget his name.

In my more cerebral moments, Wellington. In my more shallow moments, Byron. Yes I am aware they both had flaws: I'm not proposing to marry them.

That is a painting of Captain Gilbert Heathcote, apparently (reverse image search)

Hoolihan · 12/10/2022 21:46

Yes - Che Guevara.

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:48

But I'm not 17.
Even the 'shocking' love letters have not put me off. Its absulolutejy not my thing at all but I sort of admire their joint ability to break out of the strict societal norms of their day & live life on their own terms

I hugely admire his intellect / genius and also feel so deeply for him in relation to his health struggle. I actually can't articulate it other than I feel massively drawn to him (which sounds ridiculous I know)

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Discovereads · 12/10/2022 21:48

Tecumseh

SallyWD · 12/10/2022 21:48

I developed a huge crush on Mozart! It was because I saw a play about him and the actor was so hot. Obviously I realise that Mozart was actually nothing like this actor but I became really obsessed with Mozart. I read all I could about him, bought a book of his letters. I became a real expert and fantasised about him. It was all quite bizarre.

NegroniLover · 12/10/2022 21:51

Oh wait @SallyWD this brings back teenage memories (from the dark ages!) I also fell in love with mozart many years ago because of the film Amadeus !! But it was FAR more superficial than my love for JJ now

Maybe I'm prone to this kind of thing Shock

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MarshaMelrose · 12/10/2022 21:51

Cesare Borgia.
I read a fiction book where he was the lead character. I know it's wrong, but...😍

ThatshallotBaby · 12/10/2022 21:52

Achilles. I was unreasonably pissed off when someone wrote a novel about him.
I definitely saw him first.