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How are people warm enough with their houses at 18 degrees?

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 20:16

My heating is set at 21, and I'm still cold!! But I keep reading on here that people have their heating set at 18.

I'm already wearing a jumper and fluffy socks. Sitting on the sofa with a blanket. I am OK with it at this temperature but feel that I should be trying to reduce it further.

Am I just a wuss?Grin

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Fatballs · 08/10/2022 21:35

(also we are all pretty slim so that might make a difference?).

I’m 5’6” and a size 6. I’d call myself slim. 18° is fine.

OperaStation · 08/10/2022 21:35

PollyEsther · 08/10/2022 20:17

18 degrees outside isn’t considered even near cold so… why would it inside?

18 outside would be cold if you were sat still and in the shade. It’s one thing walking around and keeping busy outside in 18 degrees and a very different thing sat watching TV or reading a book.

Merryhobnobs · 08/10/2022 21:36

We like the house about 18. Only out heating on if it goes below and as soon as it gets to 19 it goes off. We are in Scotland. My sister and my sister in law are always cold though.

Oddsocks12 · 08/10/2022 21:36

Knitted knickers

guineapugs · 08/10/2022 21:36

Keep your ankles and wrists warm. 18 is fine and you'll get used to it. Maybe block out any cold draughts?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 21:37

PriamFarrl · 08/10/2022 21:00

You’re just nesh, that’s all.

I am indeed nesh!Blush

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OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 08/10/2022 21:38

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 08/10/2022 21:29

23 degrees? No wonder we’re facing a climate emergency

She can have it as high as she feels comfortable. It doesn’t need relating to climate emergency. Just because you don’t feel it. 23 degrees is my ideal temperature. Should we all freeze because of climate emergency?

You won’t freeze at 20 degrees. It’s not 23 degrees or nothing. Turn your thermostat down a degree or two and help combat climate change.

Of course you won’t, though.

TrainspottingWelsh · 08/10/2022 21:38

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 08/10/2022 21:16

I get really irritated with the ‘unless it’s 25 degrees my little tiny delicate lady fingers will freeze’ types. I know it’s my problem, not theirs, but I do always think some folk are utterly pathetic (unless they have an actual, diagnosed health reason that means they feel the cold more). A generation ago loads of people didn’t have central heating - they layered up and got on with it. We didn’t have central heating. Our fire wasn’t lit until the evening and even then it was only in one room. Get some clothes on and stop lolling about!

I do see your point to some extent, people that moan unless the temperature is the 22.7983 degrees they’ve decided is the ideal are irritating. However amongst the friends and family I know that are fine with cold temperatures, we all struggle with extreme heat and vice versa.
I don’t particularly enjoy it but I quickly warm up after eg plunging my arms into icy water at minus temperatures to remove slabs of ice, but I wouldn’t appreciate someone calling me feeble because I hated the heatwaves.
I also believe the back in the day rhetoric is irrelevant. Not only do few people have fires nowadays, but generally speaking ime it’s the generation that grew up without heating that are most likely to now have their house at an ambient temperature of 53 degrees.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 21:38

Summersdreaming · 08/10/2022 21:00

I keep the house at 18-19. I realise at that temp that I am cold, not the house!! When I'm still I am never far from a hot water bottle, they really are a game changer and I can happily sit in 18° with one.

Hot water bottle is an excellent idea.

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PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:42

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 08/10/2022 21:38

You won’t freeze at 20 degrees. It’s not 23 degrees or nothing. Turn your thermostat down a degree or two and help combat climate change.

Of course you won’t, though.

The likes of you telling me to do it because it's feeble (or whatever you said earlier) to be cold won't make me turn it down a degree or two.

Rainbowcat99 · 08/10/2022 21:43

I've just had a glass of red wine and suddenly 18 degrees is toasty! So perhaps this is the way to go this winter?
I must admit I've always been a "whack the heating up high" type person and I'm trying to do without it and have been pleasantly surprised how comfortable I am at 17-18 degrees.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 21:43

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 08/10/2022 21:09

Different people experience temperature differently. It isn't any more complicated of bewildering than that, and I don't really understand why every single MN thread about heating or temperature descends into some sort of pissing contest.

It's currently 11 degrees in Edinburgh and I'm sat in knickers and a tee with the window wide open. Windows have been open overnight since about May and it hasn't occurred to me to go anywhere near the central heating controls yet this autumn because I haven't once felt cold. I'm usually comfortable with the room being 14-15 degrees ambient, but going by mumsnet that's far below where most other people would be comfortable. Consensus seems to be most people are comfortable around 18, but there will always be outliers where some find that either intolerably cold or far too hot. There's nothing odd or weird about it, it's just another aspect of human physiology being different from individual to individual.

There is possibly something to being 'acclimatised' to certain temperatures and that becoming a norm for you. I grew up in a freezing cold house with no heating, so it seems more than coincidence that I'm comfortable in lower temperatures. It would be interesting to know how many who feel cold below 18 degrees grew up in houses where that temperature was the norm.

My dad really feels the cold, so I grew up in a very warm house. I then lived in a hot country for years, so I guess I'm not really acclimatised to the cold, but I'm going to try and train myself!

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Blix · 08/10/2022 21:43

Heating bingo tonight.

Everyone on MN is warm and toasty at 17⁰, competitive coldness.

Given the choice I'd be at 22⁰ all year round.

Helpmewithteen · 08/10/2022 21:45

A quick Google tells me that it’s normal for different people to react differently to different temperatures. It can be to do with thyroid; metabolism; fat coverage; genetics and simply what you’ve acclimatised yourself to over the years.

‘Feeling cold is not the same as being cold’ (something I read that struck a cord with me), so whilst one is not going to freeze at 18 degrees, they may well feel cold, which to someone else might seem impossible.

I am trying to keep my heating lower this year due to cost, but if I end up too cold, I will raise it to 25, which is what it was at last year and what I found was a good compromise.

JS87 · 08/10/2022 21:45

I’ve bought a pair of fleece lines joggers this year and it’s made an amazing difference. I’m fine at 17 degrees with those and two jumpers.

penni00 · 08/10/2022 21:46

It is 21 in my lounge. I am wearing t-shirt and jumper, and have a hot water bottle. I am still cold. I have a feeling that keep boiling the kettle to fill the hot water bottle may be costing a lot though. I feel pretty abnormal after reading the posts on here, and envious that others can keep their heating bills down without too much discomfort!

Leftbutcameback · 08/10/2022 21:46

Part of it depends on whether the heating is on. Radiators pumping out heat at 20 feels much warmer than air con at 20

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 08/10/2022 21:46

DH has put the thermostat on 16 and so far it's been fine. We have a very old house (over 600 years) and zero insulation (and can't be insulated) and loads of draughts (needed to keep it ventilated and stop any damp). Almost all our ceilings are the floorboards of the room above so keeping the house warm in winter and cool in summer needs careful planning.

We keep the curtains shut, and have thick door curtains over the front door and at the bottom of the stairs.

I have an electric heat pad for an hour at night to take the chill off, the sofas have rugs on and a big pile of rugs for snuggling in if you are watching TV or reading.

Otherwise, we have layers, thick socks, DD has an oodie and DH bought me a thermal throw that I haven't resorted to yet, but will probably want if it dips below zero.

DD is mainly unamused about endlessly being told to shut doors and turn off lights.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 21:46

GrowBabyGrow · 08/10/2022 21:14

@MrsBennetsPoorNerves Are you taking your iron tablets at a similar time to drinking tea or coffee? They can inhibit the absorption of iron. Calcium rich foods and whole grains apparently can as well so best to take them a couple of hours after anything with a lot of milk etc. Vitamin C helps increase absorption.

No, I take them with a vitamin c supplement or sometimes with orange juice. For some reason, my body doesn't seem to be absorbing it or retaining it.

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Leftbutcameback · 08/10/2022 21:47

For me 23 is a nice temp inside but I can't afford that. 19 feels cold unless I'm doing housework.

Oddsocks12 · 08/10/2022 21:49

My body also refuses to absorb iron! No matter what infusions or tablets I take. Blergh at iron infusions!

I'm now being tested for coeliacs as technically I'm malnourished. Despite being a dumpy, chilly mortal who's ALWAYS cold

I even have a sweater that says #alwayscold on it 😆

awomanofthecuntytype · 08/10/2022 21:50

ferent people experience temperature differently. It isn't any more complicated of bewildering than that, and I don't really understand why every single MN thread about heating or temperature descends into some sort of pissing contest

This is it, in a nutshell. It's not true that anaemia makes you feel the cold. I'm anaemic and don't feel it. It's just an individual thing. My student children think the house is freezing when they come home, whereas I perceive it as 'warm enough'. I know that it's between 13 and 15 degrees because the thermostat says so. Even with my Aga on (which it isn't at the moment), the maximum temperature in this house never gets above 18 because the heat goes straight up the chimneys and through the windows and under the doors and into the holes in the floor.

If I had been a 'cold' person, I wouldn't have bought an old house. I grew up in an old, cold house, though so it's what I am used to. It's nothing to do with climate change or helping the environment: it's purely a matter of what makes me feel comfortable.

Bearsporridge · 08/10/2022 21:50

I can be cold some days and warm others at the exact same temperature. I’ve no idea why.

I find some layers help more than others - I love a kidney warmer as it doesn’t feel restrictive but adds an extra bit where you need it.

catandcoffee · 08/10/2022 21:51

OP if your body isn't absorbing the extra iron.... look pernicious anemia. spelling might be a bit wrong 😄

HikingforScenery · 08/10/2022 21:52

I’m like you OP. I’d be freezing if it were 18deg in my house! Grateful that it doesn’t have to be.

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