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How are people warm enough with their houses at 18 degrees?

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 20:16

My heating is set at 21, and I'm still cold!! But I keep reading on here that people have their heating set at 18.

I'm already wearing a jumper and fluffy socks. Sitting on the sofa with a blanket. I am OK with it at this temperature but feel that I should be trying to reduce it further.

Am I just a wuss?Grin

OP posts:
Thatboymum · 08/10/2022 21:23

I’m like you I’m freezing if the hive goes below 22.5 I won’t even consider turning it down to 18 the air feels cold and I like the house to feel cosy and welcoming 🤣

missmamiecuddleduck · 08/10/2022 21:23

It's 5 out now and I never put the heat on. I have some oodies that I live in.
I always thought that getting older I'd always be cold but it's the opposite. I'm nearly always too warm.

It depends on the person and your climate.

I moved from a hot dry climate to a colder one and for the first 6 months thought I would freeze to death.

If I was cold but wanting to save money, it'd be hot water bottles and a low consumption electric throw blanket.

Bellie710 · 08/10/2022 21:23

Ours is set at 21, there is no way I am movng it lower. Luckily we have a woodburner which heats a lot of the house but I hate being cold.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 08/10/2022 21:24

You need a thin layer under the jumper, and a padded gilet on top. And something really warm on your feet, not just socks.
And unless the jumper’s a polo neck, probably a scarf.
Tights under jeans/trousers make a big difference, too.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:24

Thatboymum · 08/10/2022 21:23

I’m like you I’m freezing if the hive goes below 22.5 I won’t even consider turning it down to 18 the air feels cold and I like the house to feel cosy and welcoming 🤣

I'm the same! Also if I'm working from home I want to be warm - I'm miserable enough as it is without being cold and miserable! It doesn't help we've got very little insulation though.

Helpmewithteen · 08/10/2022 21:25

EugeneLevysEyebrow · 08/10/2022 21:21

I’m similar to you OP. Anything below 20C indoors and I feel cold. And I also think some people who don’t feel the cold don’t really get it. Yes you can wear more layers, use hot water bottle, blankets etc - but for me once the air temperature around me is below 20C that’s it, and I feel cold regardless. It’s like the cold gets inside of you and so doing those things to try and warm up have limited effect, if that makes any sense.

On the plus side though I coped a lot better when the temperature was 30C+ plus in the summer. I think some of us are built for hot weather, others are built more for cold weather.

I almost feel that around October the cold seems to get into my bones…and my wrists and joints ache right through the winter. I can barely type some days because my fingers feel like ice even when the heating is on. I like many people am just sensitive to the cold and made for warmer climates. My dad on the other hand never fails to walk into my house and complain about the heat. He’s happiest when he can see his own breath.

liIi · 08/10/2022 21:25

I'm in a vest and have the fan on. Heating set to 18 which is plenty warm here.

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 08/10/2022 21:26

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:19

Well as we're not living a generation ago I'll be keeping the heating on thanks. You feel free to crack on being a martyr though.

I've had my heating up to 23 today (we're not convinced the thermostat is accurate so DH is moving it) and it still wasn't overly hot in here. If I want to be 'lolling about' in my own home at the weekend I will!

23 degrees? No wonder we’re facing a climate emergency.

Eeksteek · 08/10/2022 21:26

I am cold at 18°C. It’s ok under two blankets and with two jumpers on. It’s OK if I’m running around with the hoover. But virtually everything I do is neither of those things.

I would wear a coat outside at 18°C if I were sitting still. if I were walking up a big hill. I’d be ok. Walking on the flat is ok in a sweatshirt and gilet if I had a scarf and maybe gloves. I’m already in vests and jumpers and extra socks. The unheated rooms of my house are at 15°C in the main now. I’m east mids.

I can just cope at 18°C. 17°C is too cold. I would usually have the kitchen at 18°C, (except for first thing) sitting room and office at 21°C (but only when actually in use) and off in the bedrooms except for when I’m actually getting up. 18°C is uncomfortable, but bearable. It’ll have to do this year.

Goingtoqueens · 08/10/2022 21:27

Wear a vest OP. Makes such a difference.

Sundayvibes · 08/10/2022 21:27

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 08/10/2022 21:09

Different people experience temperature differently. It isn't any more complicated of bewildering than that, and I don't really understand why every single MN thread about heating or temperature descends into some sort of pissing contest.

It's currently 11 degrees in Edinburgh and I'm sat in knickers and a tee with the window wide open. Windows have been open overnight since about May and it hasn't occurred to me to go anywhere near the central heating controls yet this autumn because I haven't once felt cold. I'm usually comfortable with the room being 14-15 degrees ambient, but going by mumsnet that's far below where most other people would be comfortable. Consensus seems to be most people are comfortable around 18, but there will always be outliers where some find that either intolerably cold or far too hot. There's nothing odd or weird about it, it's just another aspect of human physiology being different from individual to individual.

There is possibly something to being 'acclimatised' to certain temperatures and that becoming a norm for you. I grew up in a freezing cold house with no heating, so it seems more than coincidence that I'm comfortable in lower temperatures. It would be interesting to know how many who feel cold below 18 degrees grew up in houses where that temperature was the norm.

Completely agree with you.
I grew up in a prefab with no heating.
guess what?? I’m still alive.
you wear extra Layers if it’s cold and adapt.
people forget, most of the uk have a mild climate.
i live in the West Country now.
snow is rare. We might get 5 or 6 frosts every winter

Motherhubbardscupboard · 08/10/2022 21:28

18 is freezing to me. It doesn't matter how many layers you put on, if the air is cold your nose and hands will be too (at least that's true for me), and that isn't to do with being a wuss or a softie, if my nose is cold then it's cold, period! I think 21 is comfortable with jumpers and slippers, but ours is set to 19.5 for now and we are cold but trying to acclimatise (also we are all pretty slim so that might make a difference?). I'm always cold in air conditioned offices too which I imagine are around 18.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:29

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 08/10/2022 21:26

23 degrees? No wonder we’re facing a climate emergency.

Yes and it was still cold in here. You feel free to turn yours down, I'm not going to be cold when I don't have to be.

nellynoodly · 08/10/2022 21:29

Mine is 17 then 18 in the evening. I work under a heated throw and wear a fleece when not under it ! Finding it fine. Bit parky going to bed though, just reminded me I must start making hot water bottles .

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 08/10/2022 21:29

23 degrees? No wonder we’re facing a climate emergency

She can have it as high as she feels comfortable. It doesn’t need relating to climate emergency. Just because you don’t feel it. 23 degrees is my ideal temperature. Should we all freeze because of climate emergency?

PrincessButtercupToo · 08/10/2022 21:30

Nugg · 08/10/2022 20:57

I'm just going to ask a very basic question how do you know how warm your house is lots of people are saying my house is X right now - I have no idea how warm my house is.

DH bough a few cheap digital thermometers when we had our first baby (he seems to prefer a technical solution to just noticing if the babies were cold…) and they are now peppered around the house as he wondered how the actual temperature compared to the thermostat, and also wanted to balance the radiators better.

At the moment every room with a thermometer in is between 20 and 21 degrees and we’ve not yet used any heating. This is for a tall townhouse in Lindon.

RosesAndHellebores · 08/10/2022 21:30

Ah well a biting winter will get all wfh people back in the office pretty sharpish.

DahliasEverywhere · 08/10/2022 21:30

I’ve been freezing with my thermostat set at 20 but it didn’t feel like 20. I brought my greenhouse thermometer in and put it next to the thermostat and the greenhouse one measured 18. I borrowed another thermometer and that measured the same as the greenhouse one. In short my central heating thermostat needs recalibration.

nellynoodly · 08/10/2022 21:31

I would absolutely hate it if my house was at 21! My dog sitter turns it to 23 and when I get home I have to open the windows! So claustrophobic being that hot 🥵

BluSquid · 08/10/2022 21:32

I'm sure 18 degrees is the recommended temperature to keep your home at when you have a new born baby. Below 16 and above 21 is too cold/hot for a newborn so it probably is either rmedical or a faulty thermostat if you're finding it cold as an adult.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:32

RosesAndHellebores · 08/10/2022 21:30

Ah well a biting winter will get all wfh people back in the office pretty sharpish.

I wish I could! We can only go into the office if there's someone else there and that doesn't happen often as we only have one compulsory day in the office each week.

@DahliasEverywhere that's a good idea, I'm going to try that. This flat is always cold as we're end terrace with solid brick walls and no insulation but I do wonder if there's a problem with the thermostat.

expat101 · 08/10/2022 21:33

Is the heat collecting in one area and not being distributed out? My DP’s used to have a house with the reverse cycle air con coming in via ceiling vents, so it was cool sitting down, but giddying to stand up in the heat…

PrincessButtercupToo · 08/10/2022 21:33

We have a second home in the North East, another tall townhouse, and I suspect it’ll be a very, very different story there this winter in terms of what’s needed from the heating system to make it liveable.

A couple of the rooms have gas fires in, and DH is thinking of replacing one or two with log burners. I’m no keen on the mess and faff, but do quite like the thought of us all sitting round a nice fire in the one warm room then running up to bed to get under the covers.

DIYandEatCake · 08/10/2022 21:33

18 is warm in our house in the winter - it’s the highest that dp will have the heating on, and that’s for an hour in the morning and an hour in the evening. Rooms are frequently 11-14 degrees the rest of the time. He’s an environmentalist and can’t stand burning the gas. I cope with lots of layers of clothes including a base layer of thermals. I am glad it’s not going to feel as much of a shock as it will be for some this year.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/10/2022 21:34

Or maybe we're just all different @BluSquid. DH is finding he feels the cold more as he's getting older and as he's now retired he's not going out as much. I'm working from home and sit next to the outside wall (nowhere else to go) so that doesn't help