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*trigger warning - upsetting content* The most upsetting film you've ever seen...

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YellowRedBlueGreen · 07/10/2022 17:13

Harry Brown - I absolutely hated it and felt depressed for days, probably because those kinds of gangs are real and only 100 miles down the road. I was especially hurt watching the two beginning scenes, where they shoot a Mum walking her baby in a park just for a laugh and when they beat to death an innocent man trying to stop his car being vandalised. It reminded me of a particularly well known case 15 odd years ago (GN) 💔

Midnight Express - when they hung the cat purely out of spite because they knew the prisoner loved it. I can't watch it

Dumbo - when the Mean Elephants reject him and he's crying by his bucket of water. Fucking kills me

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monkeysmum21 · 07/10/2022 17:37

The Hours.

I cried so much in the cinema! It took me several days to shake off the sadnes!n

dirtyasadustpanlid · 07/10/2022 17:37

Grotbag81 · 07/10/2022 17:20

Tw

Nobody's Child channel 4.

About a girl who is first sold to her dad's mates when he's lost playing cards with his mates.

Then mum & dad split up, girl is happy as he seems nice and buys her a new dress. She gets excited as mum and new boyfriend her to put the dress on for a party. All going well at the party until she loses at a party game, they've set her up to lose. The loser (girl) has to perform sexual acts on all their friends. They're all her friends parents and neighbors.

I have never forgotten this one either, absolutely horrific. What the mother made her do to her still haunts me.

TimBoothseyes · 07/10/2022 17:37

Precious
Stephen King's The Mist and The green Mile. The ending in The Mist gets me every time and John Coffey ("like the drink but not spelt the same"), in The Green mile just breaks my heart.

ReedOfFate · 07/10/2022 17:37

Sophie’s Choice - by a country mile. I watched it when I was quite young and for the first time realised the meaning of it being better if they had all been shot, straight away.

Not a film, but the 80s adaptation of A Town Like Alice stayed with me a long while

HotSauceCommittee · 07/10/2022 17:38

The Hate U Give. Shocking and is gone to the cinema alone and had to stop myself sobbing.

NCnotmyusualone · 07/10/2022 17:38

Blackfish was the most upsetting thing I’ve watched. Mostly because it’s real, tragic and should never have been happening.
Million dollar baby on the fictional film side. Cried like a loon.u

FreddyHG · 07/10/2022 17:38

When the wind blows. I just can't watch it.

helpmedate · 07/10/2022 17:38

The Plague Dogs, based on the Richard Adams book. My dad got it out for me as a kid because I loved Watership Down. It's about animal testing and incredibly dark. I cried for days!

VenusClapTrap · 07/10/2022 17:40

I’ve Loved You So Long. Kristin Scott Thomas should have won an Oscar for that role. So sad. But I would recommend it - it’s also amazing.

delightfuldaisy19 · 07/10/2022 17:40

grayhairdontcare · 07/10/2022 17:20

Who will love my children
It's bloody harrowing

OMG - I saw this in the mid 80s when I was about 10. It still makes me sad now.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 07/10/2022 17:40

helpmedate · 07/10/2022 17:38

The Plague Dogs, based on the Richard Adams book. My dad got it out for me as a kid because I loved Watership Down. It's about animal testing and incredibly dark. I cried for days!

Oh god yes. The book actually has,a happy ending! So why they felt the need to DO that is beyond me.

moggerhanger · 07/10/2022 17:41

Watership Down. I would have been about 8 or 9 when I watched it, and I can still remember the feelings of fear and panic it engendered in me. I genuinely don't think I could bring myself to watch it again, and I'm nearly 50 now.

LER83 · 07/10/2022 17:41

Eden Lake. Had to turn it off, very disturbing. Also Dumbo, watched bits of it as a child and that was enough!

NisekoWhistler · 07/10/2022 17:41

12 years a slave, so harrowing

LER83 · 07/10/2022 17:41

Eden Lake. Had to turn it off, very disturbing. Also Dumbo, watched bits of it as a child and that was enough!

j712adrian · 07/10/2022 17:44

The Deerhunter

AutumnScream · 07/10/2022 17:44

Theres a scene in x+y that really made me cry.

teezletangler · 07/10/2022 17:45

For me it's Philomena. It's the scene when she watches the home movie of her dead son visiting the convent. I can't take it.

The Hours is the most fundamentally depressing movie I've ever seen. I felt genuinely hopeless and depressed for days afterwards!

I have never been able to watch Sophie's Choice and never will.

I find Life is Beautiful sad but also uplifting. The ending with the mother and son finding each other sort of rescues it.

Georgeskitchen · 07/10/2022 17:46

Ring of bright water

Wakemeup17 · 07/10/2022 17:46

As if I am not there
The Whistleblower

I was properly traumatised by them (could not sleep for weeks and cried myself to sleep)

helpmedate · 07/10/2022 17:46

@JesusInTheCabbageVan I know right? It's a snuff movie full of tortured animals and the saddest thing ever!

Purpleavocado · 07/10/2022 17:46

Schindlers List, I only watched it once. I'm Jewish and it was too much.
12 Years a Slave, again I could only watch it once.
Leaving Las Vegas, Last of the Mohicans and Million Dollar Baby all make me cry.

Andthereiwas · 07/10/2022 17:47

"Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind". It was so sad 😫

onwardandupwards · 07/10/2022 17:48

Fluke, stepmom and The magdelene sisters

ladygindiva · 07/10/2022 17:48

I can't remember the name of it, is it dead man's shoes or something.... Where paddy considine had a disabled brother who was bullied to death... Way too upsetting for me though a brilliant film I'm sure.

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