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How would you feel at being described as “formidable”

109 replies

Saloop · 01/10/2022 10:02

Positive or negative…?

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NiqueNique · 01/10/2022 12:57

SirChenjins · 01/10/2022 12:56

😂😂

Ah that made me chuckle!!

SirChenjins · 01/10/2022 12:57

Love your username btw - best film ever 😊

PanPacificBallroomChampion · 01/10/2022 13:02

SirChenjins · 01/10/2022 12:57

Love your username btw - best film ever 😊

Why thank you. Going to see it in the theatre next year. Very excited 💃🏼🕺🏻

itsgettingweird · 01/10/2022 13:13

MrsMontyD · 01/10/2022 11:48

I'd be ok, my teenager called me reckless once, I'm still dining out on that.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Minesababycham · 01/10/2022 13:40

This…huge compliment IMHO!

SirChenjins · 01/10/2022 15:20

PanPacificBallroomChampion · 01/10/2022 13:02

Why thank you. Going to see it in the theatre next year. Very excited 💃🏼🕺🏻

Have a brilliant time 😁

Terriblethirtytwos · 01/10/2022 15:22

NormalNans · 01/10/2022 10:18

It means you have a big reputation as an impressive badass

Exactly this!

Blocked · 01/10/2022 15:22

I'd feel like Miss Trunchbull Blush

J0y · 01/10/2022 15:26

It would depend. Do things always work out for you? Do you have the power to persuade people to do things your way?

OR........... was it used as a put down by some ass who was afraid your preferred outcome not his might come about?

InsertPunHere · 01/10/2022 15:27

It's very much a positive! You take no shit, you know your stuff and you kick so much ass you need special shoes.

SirChenjins · 01/10/2022 15:28

InsertPunHere · 01/10/2022 15:27

It's very much a positive! You take no shit, you know your stuff and you kick so much ass you need special shoes.

Or you’re a vile bully with far too much power and people are scared to tell you want they really think of you.

Can go either way.

Whataplanker · 01/10/2022 15:48

I have been, and I was pleased.

Kite22 · 01/10/2022 16:00

I'd feel pretty complimented by that.

HighlandPony · 01/10/2022 16:01

Positive. It’s quite an accurate description of m alongside batshit

needthiswilderness · 01/10/2022 16:01

Love it. Find it an aspirational trait as a feminist.

DickDarstedly · 01/10/2022 16:13

It’s meant to be positive. However, it’s a word which would never be used for a man so while it’s nice to be complimented it is slightly patronising because it kind of means, highly competent (considering she’s a woman)

TulipsTwoLips · 01/10/2022 16:24

To me it means stuck on their own view and forceful in trying to push it. Whether that’s a good thing or not depends on whether I agree with their view!

PeachMelba78 · 01/10/2022 16:27

I’d be delighted! My favourite quote about me is ‘A Powerhouse of a woman’ - it’s all good!

Bideshi · 01/10/2022 16:32

I have been. In print. By someone who is listened to in my sphere of work. I couldn't have been more chuffed.

MozzarellaMonster · 01/10/2022 16:37

If someone introduced someone to me as formidable I'd assume the person was a person who was competent and wouldn't take any shit so I'd take it as a compliment.

Bluevelvetsofa · 01/10/2022 16:37

In the context you describe, I’d think they were saying that your abilities in the workplace are outstanding.

hoowhoo · 01/10/2022 16:39

Pleased - it says you don't take any sh*t and not to try it with you

Surtsey · 01/10/2022 16:45

Saloop · 01/10/2022 10:16

I was introduced at a meeting as “the formidable Saloop” 👀👀👀

Context - the person who introduced me has never even met me before although we work in the same organisation.

It’s been playing on my mind since Wednesday

Was the person who introduced you male or female. If male, then I'd take it as a compliment, if female, then I'd take it as a bit of a dig.

Ormally · 01/10/2022 17:09

Discovereads · 01/10/2022 11:09

It’s usually meant in a good way. Competent, strong, gets it done, no problem to difficult to solve, widely respected, that sort of thing.

Yes, this. I have referred to someone as formidable once. Intended it as personally very strong, and in this case, also coming across with a shrewd and dignified feminist stance.

2bazookas · 01/10/2022 17:16

It means "a force to be reckoned with".

It's admiring not insulting.