My son bought a dog (from a ‘charity’) just before lockdown (he saw the dog online,went down to have a look-they threw the lead at my son,demanded £50 and let him walk off with him-no home check,no questions-no nothing)
he came with his balls still intact,just about toilet trained and had some bad manners
he had him ‘done’,worked on the toilet training and trained him
poor thing had been through at least 4 homes at the age of about 3-someone had got him,he’d grown so not a pup anymore,so they got rid
he ended up living with someone who they think was abusive and we’re not sure of the rest
he managed to get in touch with the first owners (someone contacted him on fb with the line ‘hey,that’s my dog!’) and they said they wanted a pup,got him and ‘couldn’t manage him with the kids as well’
i made it very clear to my son that getting the dog was his choice,and if he got bored,changed his mind or things changed,I’d hand him his arse on a plate-this dog was his for the rest of his life-and my son had given it years of thought,made sure he could afford him/day to day costs/vets fees/insurance etc and has a real network of friends to have him while he works
the dog has a wonderful life-is well bonded with my son,spoilt rotten and is loved by us all
i don’t want a dog-but we have an agreement that if anything happens to my son,we will take him and have him for life-we often have him if my son has to go away for work or holidays,so he knows us
we would make it work with his best interests at heart,but I won’t be getting one myself-we are the back-up-so the dog stays with his family and not off to a stranger
some people didn’t see past their own noses-they where bored due to lockdown then real life kicked in so dog was first to go