My adoptive brother is in his 30's
He went to prison in his 20's and was in prison for GBH. He dealt drugs and was generally a bit on the dark side.
He reformed after leaving prison. He is a vegan, practises yoga, doesn't drink or take drugs.
He is a bit of an unusual character, in that he is very secretive and I have not met his friends. He moved to a new city. He parents died when he was about a two years old and left him a sum of money which he has been living on for the last 10 years or so.
He often disappears for years at a time.
During his last disappearance I found out he had been sent to prison. He was eventually released after 6 months.
I met him yesterday and he had changed so much. He looked unkempt and like he was struggling with his mental health.
He stated that he had not spoken to anyone in prison and they eventually let him go as they had no I evidence. He would not tell me what the reason for arrest was.
He is now homeless and living on the streets. My husband feels very reluctant to let him stay, as he is being secretive and he has no plans to work. I have children as this is also a consideration.
What do people think about this?