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Always cold

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YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:11

Is anybody else always cold? For me to be warm it needs to be a minimum of 25 degrees with no breeze, if there's even a moderate breeze I get goosebumps. The temperature has noticeably dropped where I live today and to be honest, the amount of time I spend worrying about winter and how cold and tense I'm going to be is starting to make me anxious. I wear as many layers as I can at home and I have a heated blanket - what else do perpetually cold people do to get through it? Or is this unusual?
For context I am not underweight as I know that might cause some people to be cold. , BMI of consistently 19-19.5 so healthy range. I did live in a tropical climate for a while but that was quite a long time ago now so I dont think I'm still in the acclimatisation phase!

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nomorespaghetti · 16/09/2022 22:17

Me! I’m always freezing. I do think a low (lower end of healthy range) BMI could contribute. My BMI is similar. Not much insulation! I’m thinking of getting an oodie for the winter.

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:19

@nomorespaghetti what's special about an Oodie over a standard blanket or fleece? Tbh I'll try anything to be a bit more comfortable!

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Scianel · 16/09/2022 22:21

What's your iron level like?
If you get tested ask about ferritin specifically and bear in mind the minimum "normal" level is often low enough to cause problems in reality.

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:22

@Scianel I don't know about my iron levels - can I ask a gp for a blood test for this reason?

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2boysand1princess · 16/09/2022 22:23

Another one here who is forever cold. Also think it’s either low bmi, or being anaemic. I really struggled today with the “low” temperature to the point I felt feverish to the bones. I know it’s not a fever as I’m always like this when it’s not at least 24+C. I’m following this thread to see what works for others. Haven’t ever tried a heated blanket will order one now!

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:24

@2boysand1princess sympathies. I spent all day feeling super cold even with layers. Recommended the heated throw though it has kept me warm this evening without resorting to heating.

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Scianel · 16/09/2022 22:26

@YingMei You could. I get mine tested privately, its not hugely expensive and you get a home fingerprick test kit. I just find the whole faff of having to get a gp appointment, try and justify myself and then chase results.

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:27

@Scianel I might investigate a private test. It is nigh on impossible to see or speak to a GP at my practice so it might be worth it. I

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oatmilkicedchai · 16/09/2022 22:29

How often do you exercise OP? @YingMei

Scianel · 16/09/2022 22:30

I use a company called Thriva if thats of any use to you.
I just get my iron and vit D done once a year.

Cats23 · 16/09/2022 22:32

My DD is always cold, even on hot days always likely has a jumper on!
She has an oodie, wears constantly in hpuse heated blanket and Thick duvet too, often a water bottle.
She is a healthy weight and Iron level good.

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:32

@oatmilkicedchai not very often to be honest. I walk my kids to school and back most days which is 20 mins each way and I swim for half an hour once a week.

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WellTidy · 16/09/2022 22:35

I’m always, always cold. I wear thermals from September to MY each year. I am a healthy weight, and exercise regularly lately.

To keep warm, I wear big knickers, cuffed trousers, boot type slippers, thermal socks, long sleeve thermal top s and layers.

I often have a bath in the daytime as that really warms me up. I sit in the sun indoors whenever possible.

I think the answer is to be warm and then ti try and stay warm. If I let myself be cold then it is hard to warm up.

oatmilkicedchai · 16/09/2022 22:39

YingMei · 16/09/2022 22:32

@oatmilkicedchai not very often to be honest. I walk my kids to school and back most days which is 20 mins each way and I swim for half an hour once a week.

Doing a short amount of cardio every morning (20 mins only) helped me to feel warmer throughout the day when I was having the same issue as you. Similar BMI too. Worth a try.

I hate exercise but I was getting desperate to find a fix

Cynderella · 16/09/2022 22:51

I have been like this all my life - husband is T shirt all year round while I dress in layers 9 months of the year. I can't have the heating on as much as I like this year and I've prepared - heated throw, Oodie, thermals, heat holder socks, fingerless gloves, the lot.

I would have had the heating on for an hour this evening, but resisted. Sitting under a throw (not plugged in though) and three cats.

ecdysis · 16/09/2022 22:54

I'm a fat menopausal runner, good fitness despite being fat, had recent health MOT and all levels fine. And yet I am bloody freezing all the time.
I figure my internal thermostat is broken, the heatwave was the only time I felt nice and warm.

ecdysis · 16/09/2022 22:55

Cynderella I'd also have put the heating on in the past. I'm wearing a hat, hooded top, thermal leggings and thick socks and also under a duvet.

Msgrieves · 16/09/2022 23:01

Today is the only day I felt actually chilly for what seems like such a long time. Nice.

Cynderella · 16/09/2022 23:17

ecdysis · 16/09/2022 22:55

Cynderella I'd also have put the heating on in the past. I'm wearing a hat, hooded top, thermal leggings and thick socks and also under a duvet.

At least all summer while everyone else has been flagging in the heat, I've been quite comfortable, thank you.

I did think this evening, if this is me now, what am I going to be like in December? I really need to cut our energy bills, so I'm going to have to start some serious layers.

YingMei · 17/09/2022 07:19

@oatmilkicedchai I would but I worry about losing weight tbh. I find it hard to keep weight on and if I start running I fear that I'll lose more and be even colder ! But I will try , thank you

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Milknosugarta · 17/09/2022 07:43

I woke up this morning feeling cold and have got out all the scarves and thick socks, and have put the throws on the sofa. Winter draws on. The thermal t shirts are my must have (tescos are reasonable).

YingMei · 17/09/2022 07:46

Cynderella · 16/09/2022 22:51

I have been like this all my life - husband is T shirt all year round while I dress in layers 9 months of the year. I can't have the heating on as much as I like this year and I've prepared - heated throw, Oodie, thermals, heat holder socks, fingerless gloves, the lot.

I would have had the heating on for an hour this evening, but resisted. Sitting under a throw (not plugged in though) and three cats.

Maybe I need some fluffy pets too!

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TheElvesHaveGoneTooFar · 17/09/2022 08:27

I have the same BMI and same anxiety, OP. I only ever seen to feel warm when I'm in direct sunlight or the temperature is 22c or higher. I sit at a desk all day and once I get cold it's hard to warm up again. I've found going for a brisk 20 min walk before I start, at lunchtime and again when I finish helps keep my body temp up. I wear lots of layers, thermals etc but end up feeling sweaty under my arms which I hate. DH is the complete opposite to me and calls me a reptile 😆

nextweekfriday · 18/09/2022 00:03

I used to feel the cold for years I finally had my thyroid checked and it was under active, sensitivity to the cold is one of the main symptoms!

Ballsaque · 18/09/2022 01:06

Sipping hot water is a good way to keep warm if you don’t want to drink endless tea and coffee.

wrist warmers make a big difference,and a hat of course but it ruins your hair 🤣