I seem to live in an area where hardly anyone ever gets divorced. I've had comments about being a single mum even though my dc are grown. I don't have a new partner so I can't hide in the snugness of having someone there for me. I didn't want to get divorced, I was put in a situation where I had no choice. My ex was gay and he wasn't out. So our mutual friends think I'm a bitch for leaving him. I don't think he'll ever have a new partner because his culture forbids homosexuality. I know a few people in really shite relationships too but they don't yet have the balls to leave. I don't know why I'm posting really. I'm just fed up. It took super human strength to get through divorce as I'm sure many of you know.