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If you know any extremely attractive men, what are they like?

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Eastie77Returns · 23/08/2022 16:17

A weird question, I know😁 I was discussing this with a friend and she said every v attractive man she knows is a bit of a dick, rude, cheats or generally treats the women in his life badly. I know about 4 men I consider extremely attractive (head turners who multiple women and men find attractive). One is awful but the others are, as far as I know, very nice decent men. Friend is convinced good looks = guaranteed horrible behaviour!

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Coincidentally · 16/03/2024 06:12

I know someone who is utterly drop dead gorgeous. In his fifties but very fit -amazing physique -just stunning. Massively insecure because of very small penis. Women always come on to him but he only dates a few times before dropping them because he is too insecure to have sex. He is married, lives and entirely separate life from his wife. They were virgins when they married in their 30’s only had sex a few times and after the second child she announced she was asexual. They agreed from then to stay together/separately.
si the tragedy of him is that he is heterosexual and women pursue him but his confidence is zero.

halfthesun · 16/03/2024 06:26

My DH is extremely attractive. He early fifties, very fit, tall, slim full head of hair and wonderful in every way. Even my mother who is very negative about people's looks, used to be rather mean to me, whole other story, said he has a lovely face! Daffodil

ArrestHer · 16/03/2024 06:38

i know someone who is literally a model. Like high end fashion (not knitting magazine). He’s the most normal, down to earth, family orientated chap and a really decent sort. The whole family are lovely.

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DeeCeeCherry · 16/03/2024 14:32

DP is very handsome. Silver fox style. He did some modelling in years gone by but didn't like it much so moved on. He does still get looks/stares I tease him sometimes and say it must go to his head. He says yeah of course it did in his younger years, doesnt think about it now. However to me its very apparent that being handsome/beautiful affords you far more varied opportunities in life. But he's a good kindhearted man, raised my DCs as if they were his own. We are good together. 'Whats it like...?'. Like any other relationship I suppose. People are about far more than their looks.

NeverBe · 16/03/2024 14:40

I don’t know any man who is really gorgeous but I have wracked my brains and can think of a few friends’ husbands who are quite handsome. They are all family men and have been with their wives for a long time.

TheTwirlyPoos · 16/03/2024 22:24

DH is ridiculously attractive. That's not just me saying that, it's an open comment made by others, he's been approached by modelling companies etc.

He's lovely :-)

BresciaBike · 16/03/2024 22:43

Ime either they are bland because they've never had to rely on much other than look good to get along socially or are insecure and needy because they know people just see a handsome face/body.

TheFireflies · 17/03/2024 01:13

I’ve a very attractive male friend, if you judge him purely physically. For 25 years he has been part of our wider friendship group, many of whom are women. None of us have ever been interested in dating him, though we all acknowledge he is a handsome guy. He’s not a dick, as such, but he’s flaky and unreliable and not particularly self sufficient.

ChocAuVin · 17/03/2024 01:36

minipie · 23/08/2022 16:25

I have a theory that men who were very good looking as teens end up as dicks

But those who blossomed later are usually not

This is only based on about two examples though so not exactly scientifically proven!

This has been my experience of both men and women who are uber attractive.

DodgeDoggie · 17/03/2024 01:57

Half dicks, half lovely family men with good morals

LoggingDishy · 17/03/2024 05:04

Who - or should I say where - are all these über attractive men?!

I can barely remember the last time I saw one. (I shall keep an eye out now though).

Maybe on the silver screen: William Holden style. Or about 5 years ago on holiday abroad.

But this could also be the social circles I move in and my age; though I think I would notice a good looking man in the street.

WandaWomblesaurus · 18/03/2024 11:19

My very subjective experience growing up and dating was that the good looking ones never treated me as badly as the ones who weren't. Maybe because they didn't have so much insecurity and resentment that they would project out on to me.

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