I have a phobia and I'm not enjoying the last few days at all. We had 3 just last night!
One in DDs bed when I was changing the sheets, I managed to stand on some furniture whilst shrieking and get a glass over that one so DP could come in and evict him.
Then the cat was chasing one across the floor, so big I wasn't sure which was which... DP picked that one up and saved it from being bopped to death.
Then there was another huge one chilling on the ceiling, but I can't sleep knowing they're nearby, so despite it seeming well behaved and not inclined to chase me around the house or sit on my head, DP released that one into the wild too.
I'm not convinced bed spider and cat spider weren't the same one, if I'm honest. It could have come back in a window.
I think it's because it's so hot, we've got all our windows permenantly on the half latch thing, so they hide in the frame and then mosey on in when it starts raining.
I don't want to hurt them, I'd just appreciate it if they'd treat me as I do them and give me a wide, wide berth. But no. They 'want to be togevver'. It only seems to be me they follow around, they ignore DP completely. They'll chase me across a room...