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Roadmen

91 replies

SeedyBaguette · 14/07/2022 19:48

Is this an expression used round your way? If so, where are you? Am in Edinburgh and no but friends in Gtr Manc, yes (much to the hilarity of the DCs)

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dandelionthistle · 14/07/2022 21:07

SuperCamp · 14/07/2022 20:34

It’s one of those terms co-opted.

It’s original meaning and use was young men living in poverty making their life ‘on the road’, most often drug dealing, maybe some robbing, trading stolen goods etc. It was also a term used by POC about black boys and part of the patois-derived black originated slang.

Now used by young people thinking they are cool.

I live and work with young people in S London and don’t really recognise the meaning now it has spread to mean fashion choices of white middle class students.

Yes, same here. I'm in London and in my mid thirties, and I honestly just can't quite follow the new, less literal, meaning. Are they cosplaying road men?

hurtyb · 14/07/2022 21:10

Are they cosplaying road men?

I think so, very weird

RoseGardenSummer · 14/07/2022 21:10

Yes. South London

etulosba · 14/07/2022 21:10

I’m guessing it has nothing to do with highway maintenance?

polkadotpixie · 14/07/2022 21:21

Yes, East Mids. I'm not quite sure what they are though, I'm too old and DC is too young. I think it's a teenage/TikTok thing

IcedOatLatte · 14/07/2022 21:27

Pixiedust1234 · 14/07/2022 19:52

East Midlands. Only one dd says it though and she's 28. I figure its a tiktok expression?

I'm pretty sure it pre-dates tiktok, I've known it for years and use it myself when talking to my children. Not sure how many adults my age would know what it means though

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 14/07/2022 21:28

Little rural nth east town. We have a few (sheltered white boys) who think they are roadmen. As we say “is it the road to Darlo or Bish?”

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:40

FogoInn · 14/07/2022 21:04

When I read the OP I assumed it was a term to refer to the people who do roadworks.

Me too @WarOnSlugs Grin

Glad I'm not alone!

What an odd way for people to refer to themselves. Is this what people are saying: that people try to apply this term to themselves because they think being poor/ on drugs or connotations of that lifestyle are "cool"? Or that it is an insult thrown at people that they are behaving as if they were "roadmen"?

The latter is not more savoury but would make a lot more sense.

SpaceGoatFarm · 14/07/2022 21:46

Time for good old Korean Billy.

We would call them scallies here, they're widely mocked/robbed in the street. 13 year old boys in grey trackies they think look like HMP wear and manbags

SpaceGoatFarm · 14/07/2022 21:48

Oh yeah and they do that cringeworthy thing were they hold their hoody right around their face when cameras are around because they think they are figures from the international criminal underworld.

Magnolia08 · 14/07/2022 21:49

etulosba · 14/07/2022 21:10

I’m guessing it has nothing to do with highway maintenance?

🤣 those naice roadmen fixing the potholes

ZolaE · 14/07/2022 21:50

Yes, north London

HappyGoDucky · 14/07/2022 21:52

Apparently it's a thing in Essex, my DD uses it. I don't and was a bit 🤔 when I heard her use it, she explained. I'm getting old....

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:54

SpaceGoatFarm · 14/07/2022 21:48

Oh yeah and they do that cringeworthy thing were they hold their hoody right around their face when cameras are around because they think they are figures from the international criminal underworld.

Oh dear! How comical!

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 21:54

West Yorkshire it's a well known saying here... its a way of life for those who are actually a road man.

goldfinchonthelawn · 14/07/2022 21:54

Yes. South East.

mbosnz · 14/07/2022 21:55

Yup, Berkshire - in fact my DD just looked out of the window before going on a walk, and said 'Oh God, Roadmen on the common'. . .

My term for them is 'trouble on the hoof'.

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:55

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 21:54

West Yorkshire it's a well known saying here... its a way of life for those who are actually a road man.

So the actual ones that maintain the highways?

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:58

This all seems a bit unkind to highway maintenance staff if their job description js being used as an insult to insinute drug dealing. Although I suppose it would explain why there are so many needless roadworks that seems to continue for months on end with not much road maintenance progressing.

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 21:58

@SheeplessAndCounting I don't think road men refer to themselves as that, the term is used by others calling one a road man. However.... road men often say they are on "road"

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:59

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 21:58

@SheeplessAndCounting I don't think road men refer to themselves as that, the term is used by others calling one a road man. However.... road men often say they are on "road"

This is rather baffling. I mean most of us are "on road" at various times each day when we go out?

ThePumpkinPatch · 14/07/2022 21:59

No, North Yorkshire

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 21:59

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:55

So the actual ones that maintain the highways?

It's a slang term....

ouch321 · 14/07/2022 22:04

It's slang for dealer.

Learnt that from watching BBC's Informer - great piece of drama

Hatsoff5 · 14/07/2022 22:05

SheeplessAndCounting · 14/07/2022 21:59

This is rather baffling. I mean most of us are "on road" at various times each day when we go out?

I think your going to have to use a bit of imagination here. I don't think of myself on the road to be honest and it's not a phrase I use personally. Who really says that? It's a well known saying... I would of thought most people understood the defination it's been around years! The term "Road man"

It's not just the fact that they are on Road though is it? It's how one carries themselves, the circles they are in and the way they speak along with a.. Burner phone most likely!

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