Sympathy and condolences for Lauren Goodger (TW neonatal bereavement)

[AngeloMysterioso]

Lauren Goodger’s baby daughter Lorena has tragically died at just two days old.

I don’t really do social media that much but I think I read somewhere that she is a Mumsnetter…

I just wanted to express most heartfelt sympathy and condolences to her and anyone else experiencing such a heartbreaking loss

I saw this earlier, it's just unimaginable really. Poor Lauren and her partner. RIP little Lorena xxx

I didn't realise the whole message would be repeated in my reply.

The responsibility lies with the cretins who wrote it in the first place, but there was no need to handpick quotes and transfer them to a forum that should be kind and supportive.

I'm so sorry Lauren for the loss of Lorena, daughter, granddaughter, sister to Larose.

To carry her under your heart all those months, to bring her into the world, meet her, hold her, touch her, smell her and then have to say goodbye to her so quickly. It's a shattering experience.

In time you will learn to carry her under your heart in a different way, you will always be her Mummy.

Now you are Mummy to one here, and one elsewhere. A truly broken heart but one still beating and living and loving, a Mother's heart. The most important thing in the world to your children.

Poor girl it's so so sad bless her.

Sending love and hoping that they have all of the love and support around them that they need.

That's best I think, I'm sure you meant well but if Lauren is on here it's nice that she knows we are all supporting her

Glad there is a thread for Lauren and Charles today. I was looking forward to seeing the new baby. Larose is so sweet and obviously Lauren's pride and joy. When she was pg with Larose I remember reading she said 'now my life has begun' and I thought that's exactly what you would want your children to know you felt about them. Just lovely.

I don't know Lauren obviously but what a terrible shock this must have been. Just terrible. That poor girl and Charles and Larose.

Jim so sorry for your loss & pain Lauren. Life can be very cruel

You're being ridiculous, to say the least . As for the comment about new parents will be scared....
.I'm lost for words. absolutely lost for words.

Oh buzz off..

A lot of new parents and parents to be will be very scared by this news and will want to know what happened.

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Not Lauren's responsibility. I'm sure she has enough to cope with without feeling obliged to tell strangers what happened to ease their worries

@mum2bee2022 I think she will tell us what happened later on. People always want to raise awareness. But because it's so raw she will want to grieve for however long she wants to. She might not want to tell us and that's fine too. I just wish her well and I hope if she's reading we're with you Lauren and family. So sorry you're having to go through this. 🌺

All these ppl making complaints and all the deleting going on…maybe have a read of this to help you understand…🤷‍♀️

www.futurelearn.com/info/courses/developing-curiosity/0/steps/156372

Curiosity needs to be coupled with some basic bloody emotional intelligence and social awareness FFS. It isn’t hard to keep your mouth shut and even easier not to type out and entire post and press send.

Or maybe you need to be less critical of other people?

I was absolutely terrified whilst pregnant when I didn’t know what had caused a late miscarriage or still birth. I was always very grateful
when the reason was given so I can understand the need for that from pregnant posters.

So sorry to hear the news. Absolutely heart breaking for the family and I wish them all the kindness and support in the world ❤️❤️

how does knowing the reason help a pregnant woman?!

Because when there’s no explanation you statistically know it could happen to you too and the anxiety ramps up. If the explanation is a chromosome disorder you might calm yourself thinking ‘aaah I know my baby is okay in that regard’. If this two day old baby passed with no explanation whatsoever that’s extremely scary for women with newborns.

No.
People need to not be questioning a woman who has lost her 2 day old child.

If it was a neighbour down the street, you wouldnt think she owes you. Lauren being in the public eye doesnt make that any different.

it was crass and insensitive , the comment that was made.

Can you really not see how offensive that is to the woman who has lost her child?

she didn't have a miscarriage or still birth. Her healthy at birth child died after 2 days.

She owes nobody an explanation, bless her.

This site is, for all intents and purposes, a parenting forum. No one on here is "questioning a woman". Nothing has been written maliciously.

exactly this

She’s now spoken out about this and said that the baby had a healthy heartbeat which the midwife then couldn’t find at the start of labour. She was rushed to hospital, gave birth and the team unfortunately couldn’t resuscitate the baby.

i feel so so sad for her, it doesn’t sound like there was a logical explanation and I don’t know how you’d get over this.

Oh gosh how sad 💔 may God give her strength. How awful.