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DH lost his job, what to do next?

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10NutNut · 07/07/2022 20:35

DH works in what most people would regard as quite a difficult professional industry particularly with respect to relationships with colleagues (disagreements, backstabbings etc.).

DH was very high up in the pecking order, but unfortunately as time has progressed, it has become clear that he is not really up to the job, despite his bluster and hyperbole.

Anyway, DH has finally resigned from his role, several months after it became clear he is no longer respected by his colleagues.

Accommodation was provided through DH's work, we have two young DC, and a dog called Dilyn. I own a small flat that is not really big enough for all of us, and DH's home is currently let, so we can't move in there. We don't have anywhere to live, and we don't have any income.

DH says he will be able to earn money easily, drawing from his previous career as a journalist.

I am very nervous about our future. Can anyone offer any advice please. I am a SAHM.

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PastMyBestBeforeDate · 07/07/2022 23:51

Make sure you're on good contraception. The government wouldn't want you claiming benefits for 3! Is your oldest eligible for free childcare?
Could you have sex with someone and get them to give you a well paid job using public money?

AdoraBell · 08/07/2022 00:11

Such a worry, never fear though, you can claim UC, and I hear those nice people at the council usually find a room in a B&B, or possibly a hostel for homeless families. And don’t be ashamed when you go to the food bank, the staff are lovely and never judge people in your desperate situation.

plugee · 08/07/2022 00:14

How do you live with yourself Carrie

Theoneinthemiddle · 08/07/2022 11:40

Look, I’m sure one of your chums from Uni will come through for your hubby and has he ever thought about public speaking? Maybe not for a year or two until everyone has forgotten his blunders. I hear it can be very lucrative.

GrazingSheep · 08/07/2022 11:43

Did you really spend £500 on a kitchen table cloth? And £3675 on a drinks trolley?

Theoneinthemiddle · 08/07/2022 11:44

This thread reminded me of this…

DH lost his job, what to do next?
IcedOatLatte · 08/07/2022 11:44

Has he thought about a tribunal for constructive dismissal?

overitall1 · 08/07/2022 11:51

Look we all know that you will be leaving him now, so your flat will be fine. Just make sure all your ducks are in a row and you have copies of all financial documents. You won't be able to trust a word he says when it gets to court. Oh, and that drinks trolley might get a couple of quid on eBay. I bought one just like it for a tenner in a charity shop. You'll be fine. Your kind always are.

saleorbouy · 08/07/2022 12:16

Maybe your DH could sell a salacious kiss and tell story to the tabloids to tide you over for a few months.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 08/07/2022 12:29

So when the shot hits the fan and she needs to eBay something Grazing the drinks trolley should get her a few Aldi shops Grin

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 08/07/2022 12:30

Oh that'll teach me to read posts after the one I was replying to and my own post. Shit not shot.

Shgytfgtf111 · 08/07/2022 12:47

Laughed out loud at this, thank you!

Acaseofthemondays · 08/07/2022 13:52

Didn’t want to read and run…

Maybe your DH can retrain as a scarecrow?? He has a lot of the necessary requirements. I’m Not saying he’s outstanding in his field. It’s more of an image based role.

Itslookinggood · 08/07/2022 18:39

How are you feeling op? Any better?

it’s a real shame about the wedding party being moved, but on the bright side, Costco do good sandwich platters.

LadyWithLapdog · 08/07/2022 20:35

My local cricket club have a cosy upstairs room. It might still be available for last minute shindig bookings.

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