It’s worse when it’s other women coming out with this crap.
For years nobody had even heard of peri menopause or understood the whole process of the menopause. And the impact it can have on many women. It was very much put up and shut up.
My poor Mum went through an early menopause at 40 and was made to feel like she was losing the plot for years. She suffered so much unnecessarily, very unsympathetic doctors. She repeatedly came back from the GP in tears. We want to go back to that do we? Finally we have choices- yes choices, you don’t have to have HRT if you don’t want it. You won’t be held down and forced to wear a patch.
But when symptoms are minimised, or women are blamed for making symptoms worse through lifestyle choices- by other women! I mean wtf? This site at its very worse.
We all need more knowledge and research on this. Not less! I’ve had to do extensive research as I’ve had breast cancer so it’s really important I look at every single study. From what I’ve read I would be happy to take it. Because for every 20 studies that are positive it’s always just the one negative (and usually poorly run study- see the HABITS study) that makes the headline news and has people throwing away medication that can help them.
It’s a minefield out there and the government websites and NICE guidelines are typically outdated.
For those that are interested- I mentioned it before but the book ‘Oestrogen Matters’ is written by an Oncologist whose wife had breast cancer and he was happy for her to take HRT. And he spent years going through hundreds of studies on this. I’d highly recommend. My (very knowledgeable) GP has also read and recommends this book.