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Documentaries that have stuck with you.

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LetsGoCrazyPurpleBanana · 11/05/2022 09:59

I remember in the early 9Os watching a documentary about 2 men who were partners, living with and ultimately dying from AIDS. Found it on YouTube and watched it again at the weekend. I've not stopped thinking about them. It's called "Silverlake life,the view from here" 😭

Also another one,again early to mid 1990s called "The dying room" about China's orphanages.

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AWOL66 · 11/05/2022 13:54

MysticCT · 11/05/2022 10:07

Dreams of a life, it's about Joyce Vincent. She had been dead for about two years in her London flat before she was discovered in 2006.
She was only in her thirties and had became estranged from her friends and family.
It is a very sad story.

That stuck with me too

CalmH2O · 11/05/2022 13:57

Trigger warning - SA/R#pe

One that has stuck with me for years and years, I’m not sure the name of, was about gay men in Russia. It showed how they were hunted down and raped with objects/forced to self-rape with objects whilst being filmed and outed to their communities. It has stuck with me all this time as being traumatic to watch and horrendous for them. 😢

A very good documentary was The President’s War Room. Not my type of thing at all but it stuck with me for being so good and so informative.

Don’t F#ck With Cats - Probably one of the wildest documentary series I’ve ever seen, and I’ve watched hundreds. Just gobsmacking.

Finally, The Girl Who Because Three Boys. Also WILD, came out years ago and it’s just…wow. I rewatched it a few weeks ago to confirm it wasn’t just a wacky dream.

dottiedodah · 11/05/2022 14:01

Long time ago now .Mid 70s? Johnny Go Home about teenage runaways going to London.Inevitable happened and they ended up as Rentboys .Very sad and chilling .

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Figgygal · 11/05/2022 14:08

I thought last years 9/11 only plane in the sky featuring president bush and his inner circle was utterly compelling

NervousFlyer2022 · 11/05/2022 14:15

Mumma Courage was a radio documentary that had me absolutely gripped and moved. Jessica Pidsley suffered from post partum psychosis but recorded herself at the time (as part of the psychosis) and so the narration is interspersed by hearing her raw distress and panic. The link is below but sadly it's been taken off iPlayer, I wish it hadn't been, it was so important.
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b08pgnjr

There is however a TedX talk where she tells her story - I strongly recommend you watch it.
www.ted.com/talks/jessica_pidsley_have_the_courage_to_birth_your_life

Spudlet · 11/05/2022 14:19

I can’t remember the name off the top of my head, but the recent one about the Thai cave rescue. Absolutely amazing that they all got out safely - the odds were so stacked against them, even more than I think the news showed at the time. It’s on Disney+.

ChilledScandi · 11/05/2022 14:41

OhMrDarcy · 11/05/2022 11:04

I remember a documentary I saw late one night a few years ago about twin baby girls from China who were adopted. One baby went to a family in the USA, and had a typical wealthy suburban life. The other twin was adopted by a family in Norway who were less well off and lived in a remote small village.

The interesting bit is that the American family figured out there was a twin out there and tracked down the Norwegian family, and went there to visit. The Norwegian family were delighted to see them but worried that there would be no entertainment for the girls as they lived very rurally.

The contrast between the two lifestyles was shown very well - the moneyed US lifestyle of parties and being driven everywhere by parents, every moment scheduled, lots of toys etc and then the rural quiet lifestyle in Norway, where the daughter (then aged 7) had less material goods but so much more independence, as she could go for a walk along the lake, or ride the horse and then walk to school through deep snow in the dark by herself. That's the bit I remember and keeps coming back to me, the contrast in lifestyles and how the twin in Norway was actually so much better off.

Also interesting that the twin in Norway was much taller, due to fresh air and healthier food. Such a good documentary!

ItsLisaLou · 11/05/2022 14:47

The Trials of Gabriel Fernandez (Netflix documentary).

The story of a lovely little boy who was completely and utterly failed by social services and died after months of horrific abuse.

I cried for days afterwards and still think of him often.

cigarettesNalcohol · 11/05/2022 15:15

Recently, the 24h in police custody about baby Teddy (11 weeks I think) who died from repeatedly being beaten by his step father. I think it was based in Cambridgeshire.

And a documentary I watched years ago in my studio at university about a woman who had to fly abroad to repatriate her sister's dead body (the sister who had died was living abroad). The sister had been murdered by the bf and dismembered and dissolved into acid tubs with the help of bf's mate. I'll always remember the bit where the living sister watches from the arrival bays as the coffin is being offloaded from the plane onto the airport tarmac. I have a sister and my god... I will never forget this. So so sad.

roadsweep · 11/05/2022 15:30

bendmeoverbackwards · 11/05/2022 13:06

There was one about 8 year old girls starting at boarding school. There was a scene of one of them sobbing uncontrollably and being comforted by her friend. It really stayed with me ☹️

Yes this is on YouTube. It's so odd how the mum didn't want her daughter to board, but went along with it anyway. Awful.

Orchid18 · 11/05/2022 15:42

MysticCT · 11/05/2022 10:07

Dreams of a life, it's about Joyce Vincent. She had been dead for about two years in her London flat before she was discovered in 2006.
She was only in her thirties and had became estranged from her friends and family.
It is a very sad story.

This inspired Steven Wilson’s album ‘Hand. Cannot. Erase.’ a brilliant piece of work, well worth a listen if you haven’t already.

TickleMyFancies · 11/05/2022 15:48

Drugs map of Britain on iplayer

also IPlayer (storyville)huntress about a young eagle hunter in mongolia

also yes to rain in my heart

louis Theroux heroin town

freeze on IPlayer about young British ice skaters trying to make the Olympic team

tina

the storyville one about Tonya Harding

death row iplayer

MysticCT · 11/05/2022 15:54

Orchid18
Thanks, I had read that before but I've never heard it, I'll have to give it a go.

seasaltstripes · 11/05/2022 16:02

Cruel Sea - about the Penlee lifeboat disaster in 1981. In Cornwall, it's always shared a lot on social media around the anniversary, just before Christmas. It's devastating.

I used to love Child of Our Time on BBC1.

And the other one that, unfortunately, stays with me is an anti-abortion video we were shown at my (Catholic) secondary school. Having said that, I can't remember much about it anymore, I can just call to mind being in the room and feeling horrified that they were allowed to show it to us.

Namechangerr1 · 11/05/2022 16:06

Placemarking

BobHadBitchTits · 11/05/2022 16:09

ISpyCobraKai · 11/05/2022 10:09

Dear Zachary.

100%.

Ringmaster27 · 11/05/2022 16:15

@seasaltstripes was it “The Silent Scream”?
if so, I was also shown it in my early teens at one of the Catholic youth Bible study things I was forced to attend. I was shook.

SynchroSwimmer · 11/05/2022 16:31

Alexei Navalny, currently on iplayer

darnamarta · 11/05/2022 16:32

When my son was thinking of studying economics last year we watched a few old Evan Davis documentaries and I was struck by his interview with Boris Johnson in one called "Mind the Gap: London Versus the Rest". Let's just say his views on "Levelling Up" for the North were very different when he was Mayor of London!

monicagellerbing · 11/05/2022 16:33

The panorama documentary about the Baby P case. I watched it about 7 years ago now and it still makes me feel sad and disgusted now.

user0512 · 11/05/2022 16:36

duvetdayforeveryone · 11/05/2022 10:03

Not a documentary but the BBC three-part drama based on the true stories of victims of grooming and sexual abuse in Rochdale.

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b08rgd5n

I felt physically sick watching it. I can't believe something so disgusting was swept under the carpet, and how little news attention it recieved 😢Those poor girls 😭

Have you read Sammy Woodhouse's book 'Just A Child'. She is a survivor of grooming and she wrote a book which describes her experience. It's honestly heartbreaking. One of the documentaries was based on her story

user0512 · 11/05/2022 16:39

monicagellerbing · 11/05/2022 16:33

The panorama documentary about the Baby P case. I watched it about 7 years ago now and it still makes me feel sad and disgusted now.

This! 🥺💔

RedPanda901 · 11/05/2022 16:40

QuebecBagnet · 11/05/2022 11:46

Blackfish. About the killer whales in captivity.

Yes, this one. I also liked Stop At Nothing, the first Lance Armstrong doc. The narcissism displayed is unbelievable. It also has great stories from teammates.

Oioicaptain · 11/05/2022 16:43

My Octopus Teacher on Netflix
Tell Me Who I Am
Don't F* with cats
Storyville (I think) documentary about Pablo Escobar's son

seasaltstripes · 11/05/2022 16:46

@Ringmaster27 Yes, I think that was it! (Though not prepared to google it - would not want my teenagers anywhere near it.) What were they thinking??