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Ukraine - please post in the 'in the news' topic.

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squashyhat · 24/02/2022 11:33

I freely admit I am am Ostrich and have no wish to see, hear or read anything about the situation in Ukraine. I can do nothing about it and all it is doing is giving me me sleepless nights. Please can posters use the 'in the news' topic to discuss so that it can be hidden from those of us who don't wish to know.

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Ifitistobesaid · 24/02/2022 14:22

This should not be hidden away. We need to talk about this and I hope in time people will be sharing links about how, if at all, we can help. That needs to be visible.

AlternativePerspective · 24/02/2022 14:38

Well Brexit and Covid got moved off to their own little worlds. Why not this ? What makes this any different ? actually it is different IMO.

Brexit was incredibly divisive. Whatever people’s views on it, there were some who voted for, some who voted against, and most of the Brexit threads descended into bickering, personal attacks, and by the end they had no bearing on the original meaning of the topic.

COVID, while it affected many of us, again was full of conspiracy theorists and fearmongers, all of whom were aiming to shout the other one down as loudly and competitively as possible. In the beginning of COVID we had people accusing others of being murderers for going out and buying a loaf of bread, and in contrast you had those who claimed it was all a hoax and how 5G was to blame… Most of it wasn’t rational intelligent discussion by any means and there was valid reason to put those discussions in a seperate place, where the normal among us could hide them.

What’s happening in Ukraine has the potential to affect all of us in the same way. And while there are people who are going to anxiously declare that ww3 is here, and I saw one state that she was afraid to let her kids go outside, for the most part discussion has been measured on a topic where it is necessary to know what is going on and to know how our country is going to get involved, in order to have an idea just how much we are going to be affected by it.

Personally I do think that too many threads are posted in AIBU, and that AIBU prevents most topics being posted in the right places, however given AIBU is here and isn’t going anywhere, it’s unreasonable to expect posters not to post there when discussing a historical issue which could change all of our lives forever.

Keepyourheadscrewedon · 24/02/2022 14:51

Oh poor you op, being inconvenienced with the small issue of children and the people of Ukraine being murdered as we speak, should it ruin your day Confused

Can anyone anywhere be so selfish?
Is it even possible to only think of your own feelings when people are dying right now in Ukraine. WTAF!!!!

heldinadream · 24/02/2022 14:55

Agree with everything you've said there @AlternativePerspective

Woahthehorsey · 24/02/2022 14:59

YABU.

I don't listen to the news, I don't want to know what's going on re Ukraine but I'm not going to police where others post stuff.

Come off forums if it bothers you that much. Your anxiety is not for others to manage.

Moonface123 · 24/02/2022 15:08

l just scroll past anything to do with Covid, Brexit, Feminism and now this, because its just the same old, fear lead bandwagon beating its drum, collective fear stimulates herd instinct, keep well away.

FourChimneys · 24/02/2022 15:22

I want to read a lot about it. I like to be well informed about current events.

If others don't then it is easy to hide threads on here, not watch or listen to the news and not read reputable written sources.

I personally have no time for the ostrich mentality. Do people think the citizens of Kiev are also thinking "Oh dear, I don't want to know about this nasty war?"

twilightcustard · 24/02/2022 16:17

really arrogant and presumptuous of you OP

AmyDudley · 24/02/2022 16:21

People being told what they can and can't talk about - hmmm...... where have I heard about that happening ?

Tigersonvaseline · 24/02/2022 16:25

To hide this away right now would be an absolute travesty

sadeyedladyofthelowlandsea · 24/02/2022 16:36

I'm genuinely terrified by what is happening. I have a lot of friends in Ukraine. On the one hand I want to know what's happening, on the other I'm so scared that I'm trying to distract myself from thinking about it entirely because there is nothing I can do.

PPs, instead of being snarky to someone who is clearly struggling, can you just remember there are those of us who know people caught up directly in this, and it's bloody awful? I'm not saying we can't discuss it on chat or AIBU, but god, just look at some of the replies here. Someone says they're struggling, and you call them selfish, arrogant, pathetic, feeble, presumptuous. Of course it's not comparable to being in Ukraine. But that doesn't mean you have to be an arsehole. You can just say 'Yep, I'm scared too' without the insults.

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