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Having pets instead of children is selfish

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RampantIvy · 06/01/2022 17:05

According to the pope

"Couples who do not procreate deny themselves the joys of parenthood, a decision which “diminishes us, takes away our humanity”, he said.

As he isn't a parent he has no right to say this IMO. What a knob.

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OP posts:
BurbageBrook · 06/01/2022 17:29

You think that’s bad, the previous Pope used to tell people in HIV positive countries not to use condoms. Idiotic.

1forAll74 · 06/01/2022 17:39

He is just a buffoon in a robe, and often talks rubbish, that doesn't relate to the modern world., I can't understand why he is always put on a pedastal as a great man.

MotherNaturesSon · 06/01/2022 17:40

He should be more concerned about the high levels of child abuse by catholic priests and catholic institutions

madisonbridges · 06/01/2022 17:43

I'm not a Catholic but I think the Pope is great. E is great with young people snd very relatable. Such a far cry from previous popes. I wish we had a similar Archbishop of Canterbury instead of the stuffy asses we end up with. He's the first pope to say animals go to heaven.

I really deplore the idea that that only people with children can comment on certain things. It's like saying stick to your own lane. Bollocks to that. I use all lanes as I see fit. I don't receive benefits but I can still campaign for the improvement of them. I'm allowed to have an opinion about anything I want.

JuergenSchwarzwald · 06/01/2022 17:43

@CaveMum

Said the world’s most famous virgin…
I bet he isn't, though!
RaininSummer · 06/01/2022 17:44

How would he know. Out of touch with reality.

vintage21 · 06/01/2022 17:44

there are loads of people who have had children to fit in with an idea of the norm and realised they have made a big mistake.

madisonbridges · 06/01/2022 17:45

@MotherNaturesSon

He should be more concerned about the high levels of child abuse by catholic priests and catholic institutions
He can be concerned about more than one thing at a time.
EishetChayil · 06/01/2022 17:47

This reminds me of how surprised people were when one of the former popes made homophobic remarks. What did they expect??

ArblemarzipanTFruitcake · 06/01/2022 17:48

You were about to get a Biscuit until I read your OP and saw you were agreeing this was an utterly dickish thing to say!

How the fuck can someone who has committed to a life of celibacy make that statement?

I don't consider myself or my humanity remotely 'diminished' by choosing to be childfree.

As for 'the joys of parenthood' - of course it brings great joy to many, but it would bring misery to me and even more misery to whoever was the unfortunate result of my egg meeting a sperm. I wouldn't inflict my terrible genes or my lack of maternal instinct on any child.

Boood · 06/01/2022 17:52

Meh, it’s probably not the worst thing I’ve done in the Pope’s opinion. Seems he’s just destined to disapprove of me. I’ll muddle through somehow.

Crowdfundingforcake · 06/01/2022 17:54

Slightly weird comment when most of those who 'work for him' are supposed to be celibate. Is he dissing the priesthood now? Or is this a subtle move towards allowing priests to marry and father children?

Fluffycloudland77 · 06/01/2022 17:56

If God had wanted me to have a baby I would have had a baby. It’s not my fault he wanted me to own cats.

I think God knows what he’s doing.

AuntMasha · 06/01/2022 17:58

The current Pope is generally viewed as a liberal. I recently read an article about how the Vatican’s traditionalist cardinals think the Pope is not Catholic enough.

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 06/01/2022 18:00

😄

jamandmarmaladethesecondcoming · 06/01/2022 18:00

Well he would wouldn't he?

He's not going to be doing the school run

Dashel · 06/01/2022 18:03

By not having any children, surely people are helping to cut down on pollution and save carbon? Even having a few castrated pets must be environmentally better than having DC who would then themselves have children and pets.

The planet is hugely overpopulated and tbh I wouldn’t want to bring new life into the mess that is climate change and the future of the planet in 50 years

Crinkle77 · 06/01/2022 18:04

He's a go shite.

Crinkle77 · 06/01/2022 18:04

Gobshite!

Tal45 · 06/01/2022 18:05

The planet could do with 'some of our humanity' being taken away, it's hugely over populated already. People who don't have children are the absolute opposite of selfish IMO.

I dislike him intensely not least for his belief that the Bishop in Chile accused of child abuse was innocent because he (the Pope) hadn't 'seen' any evidence. Disgusting man.

WheelieBinPrincess · 06/01/2022 18:06

@Dashel the planet as a whole is overpopulated but many countries, the U.K. included will face an ageing population crisis and actually need the birth rate to increase.

Silverswirl · 06/01/2022 18:08

Yes it is selfish.
Don’t really think the pope has any right to speak on the matter but when thinking of a long term view, it is selfish.
There isn’t enough people being born right now in western countries.
It’s really as simple as that. There needs to be more children born to avert a huge crisis in 50 years (if we are all still here of course due to global warming)
But if we are still here society as we know it is going to be in a world of trouble if the current declining trend continues

Pudmyboy · 06/01/2022 18:08

@ArblemarzipanTFruitcake I was coming on to say my version of what you said!
Not everyone is maternal, I am most definitely not, and am happy to be childfree.

Jobseeker19 · 06/01/2022 18:09

Everyone talks about over population until it comes to European people.

When the birth rate is called low and people are called selfish by the same people who talk about over population I think it shows unconscious racism.

So what if white people aren't having as many children as they used to.

Thatldo · 06/01/2022 18:10

What a load of gobshite from a wanker!