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DS not in to sports what other activities would you suggest?

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whattocook · 12/10/2021 09:32

Not interested in any sports, he's quite geeky to be honest. Loves maps loves fixing things he's super clever. Any ideas what we could look for?

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thefourgp · 12/10/2021 09:34

Scouts - my youngest isn’t sporty and enjoys learning different things there.

AlanisMorningShed · 12/10/2021 09:34

Has he tried scratch coding club? The library does a free one around here.

daisypond · 12/10/2021 09:34

How old is he? 5 or 15?

zebrarobot · 12/10/2021 09:34

Beavers/cubs (depending on age). Outdoorsy, life skills, like minded kids.

AlanisMorningShed · 12/10/2021 09:36

DS doesn't like sports either, but he does tennis which keeps him moving a bit, but there's no pressure on him to compete or anything.

SinoohXaenaHide · 12/10/2021 09:37

Geocaching?
More quirky sports like archery?

whattocook · 12/10/2021 09:38

He's 4 will be 5 this December.

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BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 12/10/2021 09:39

@SinoohXaenaHide

Geocaching? More quirky sports like archery?
Or rock climbing/ abseiling? Metal detecting?
randomsabreuse · 12/10/2021 09:40

Fencing appeals to quirky types, there's a crazy number of science PhDs floating around the competitive circuit.

deeni · 12/10/2021 09:40

Trampolining

EduCated · 12/10/2021 09:46

Scouts have just started Squirrels for 4-6yo, but there’s not groups everywhere.

Have you looked at your local library? Ours runs lots of activities, some regularly, some one off, but regular one offs, if that makes sense?!

EduCated · 12/10/2021 09:48

Can also be a good stage to start climbing, whilst most kids are still relatively strong for their body size - the tactical aspect of puzzling how to get up the wall/the ropes/the outdoorsy-ness later on may appeal.

TheUnbearable · 12/10/2021 09:51

Does he not like being physical at all? I thought you meant an older child as 4 is young for organised sport unless your a soviet gymnast.

Just get him outside moving. It’s autumn, time for a nice walk round the park and play on the equipment, spotting squirrels and birds. Make a little book so he can keep count. Pick up leaves and make a collage or have a nature tray at home. DS was heavily in to sport just like DH and I but he also loved all these things. We also did animal rescue service which meant picking up snails in danger of being crushed on pavements. He would be on his trike with a take away box in the bucket which was his ambulance :) MN actually inspired the greatest moment, we found a knackered bee and we fed it with sugar water and it flew away.

We are as a family a conundrum, we are massive geeks but also very sporty.

louisacat · 12/10/2021 09:52

Stagecoach or similar musical theatre group?

Foghead · 12/10/2021 09:57

For outdoor stuff -
Bike rides
Playing catch with a ball
Kite flying
Frisbee
Plane flying
Walks with a list of things to spot. Use binoculars and magnifying glass.

TheUnbearable · 12/10/2021 09:58

If he likes maps get him to follow a map and then make a note of animals and trees he sees at specific locations. We were all super clever from year dot. I taught myself to read before I went to school. Being that clever brings its own problems sometimes. DS was always miles ahead of other dc and did not like being a child, I can clearly remember finding dc dull and seeking out adult conversation. DH and I ended up mooching about with other massive nerds in higher education for decades.

girlmom21 · 12/10/2021 10:00

Are there any local clubs that do board games?
Metal detecting is a good one.

LIZS · 12/10/2021 10:07

At 4 there is time yet to find his strengths. Ds enjoyed climbing and sailing, but not team sports.

thisisnotwhatisignedupfor · 12/10/2021 11:56

My son who doesn't enjoy competitive sports is happy playing Tennis, indoor climbing, trampolining and swimming. Guitar lessons have also gone down well.

gardeninggirl68 · 12/10/2021 11:57

i second geocaching!!

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 12/10/2021 12:02

Perfect age to be getting onto waiting list for Beavers (or Squirrels if are lucky!)
Swimming lessons might be a waiting list as well... massive backlog around here, mine started this week after waiting since Easter.

But give it time. My 10yo recently announced she wanted to try Rugby. Shes doing well, despite only ever having had a few sessions at school before. Ask him if there's anything he wants to try.

skkyelark · 12/10/2021 12:51

Thirding geocaching, or perhaps orienteering.

Spudina · 12/10/2021 12:55

Dungeons and dragons. I’m friends with confessed nerds and they love it.

thingamebob · 12/10/2021 13:07

Warhammer. Both my boys are into this, they're not particularly sporty although the eldest loves biking. It's creative, you get to build the models and paint them in your own colour scheme, then play the game. (Loads of nerdy rules which they love but fly over my headGrin) The only downside is the models are quite expensive. If you have a Games workshop near you they are usually very friendly with beginners and will teach you some basic techniques etc.

languagelover96 · 12/10/2021 13:49

This is a list of non sporty activities
Orienteering
Guitar
First aid
Bracelet making
Painting
T shirt design
Singing
Map design
Coding
Book making
Dancing
Toy making
Wreath design
Paper crafts
Plate spinning
Circus skills
Puzzle solving